Somebody please answer! Cappy trouble.

Okay so i met this cappy guy at work. hes sweet and always bothers me. he always compliments me and always calls my name everytime he sees me just to see me smile. even when hes working, he always looks at me or want to say something. we never got into any deep conversation but we talk here and there. the only problem is that somebody that he knows saw us flirting and warned me that he has a girlfriend right in front of him, which he had never told me that he has one. he was just laughing at the whole thing and then i started ignoring him as the days went on. but he bothered me everytime he saw me and thought i was mad at him. i told him that i wasn't. so now he still bothers me and im not sure what to do. WHY IS HE ACTING THIS WAY?? i really like him but he has a girlfriend. HELP! by the way i am a scorpio to the heart. he had also said that our astrology signs is good together. WHAT DOES THIS MEAN— HELP!

yeah i guess your right. just harmless flirting. :/

i understand what your saying and i agree with you. But i dont want him to come out is way and cheat nor will i except it. its just a crush thats taking longer then expected to leave. only because he has a few things that im looking for in a guy, although i do not know him that well nor do i give him my 100 percent trust. trust me i dont like being no other women or start drama period. i just thought that maybe things were getting rocky in his relationship that hes looking for something else. im not saying for me to be a rebound if that is the case, but to help him move on. i dont know. i dont know much about capricorns. but i really hate drama. i would hate to start something because work would be awkward. not only that but im not a cheater nor do i want to involve myself with someone that does, if thats the case. so ill just keep a brief work relationship if that doesnt work, ill just tell him to cut it out.

Aww, this sucks. Sounds like you like him, but I can already tell he's not worth the trouble. I'm not sure what he's doing or trying to do, but trust me. If he's ready for his relationship to end it will. Until then, all he'll do is have both of you by his side if you decide to give in, and that ain't worth it. I'll tell him to cut it out, or completely ignore him.

Caps are flirts. I have a cap coworker and we have these long conversation I told him off the back that I have a man and our conversation is just that. I let him no he is just a male friend. We talk about everything like our job ,tv,car,kids and so on. Now the point i'm getting too is that I no he have a girl and he never came out and said it. I told him from the jump that I'm not looking for a fling I'm just like talking to people men and women. The fact that he is not going out to say he have a girl friend says a lot about a person. It tells me that in my sistuation he want to try to get sex out of me. Which will never happen. My advice to u is don't only listen to wat a person say but listen to wats not being said too.

Posted by lnana04
Aww, this sucks. Sounds like you like him, but I can already tell he's not worth the trouble. I'm not sure what he's doing or trying to do, but trust me. If he's ready for his relationship to end it will. Until then, all he'll do is have both of you by his side if you decide to give in, and that ain't worth it. I'll tell him to cut it out, or completely ignore him.

yeah unfortunately i did. He's an artist which is way i think im drawn to him. But your totally right. Im just wasting my time. Thanks! and to everyone else who answered.

Posted by ecent
Caps are flirts. I have a cap coworker and we have these long conversation I told him off the back that I have a man and our conversation is just that. I let him no he is just a male friend. We talk about everything like our job ,tv,car,kids and so on. Now the point i'm getting too is that I no he have a girl and he never came out and said it. I told him from the jump that I'm not looking for a fling I'm just like talking to people men and women. The fact that he is not going out to say he have a girl friend says a lot about a person. It tells me that in my sistuation he want to try to get sex out of me. Which will never happen. My advice to u is don't only listen to wat a person say but listen to wats not being said too.

Your advice is right on point. That actually did cross my mind because if he really did care about he's girlfriend, he would at least mentioned her instead of leading me on. But not only that, we never had long any conversations. It was just small talks here and there. So its not like i would have known much about him let alone what he's telling me and what he's not. It was a friend of his that told me.

Posted by ecent
Caps are flirts. I have a cap coworker and we have these long conversation I told him off the back that I have a man and our conversation is just that. I let him no he is just a male friend. We talk about everything like our job ,tv,car,kids and so on. Now the point i'm getting too is that I no he have a girl and he never came out and said it. I told him from the jump that I'm not looking for a fling I'm just like talking to people men and women. The fact that he is not going out to say he have a girl friend says a lot about a person. It tells me that in my sistuation he want to try to get sex out of me. Which will never happen. My advice to u is don't only listen to wat a person say but listen to wats not being said too.

I couldn't imagine working with a Cap male. They are VERY easy to talk to and Cappies like intimacy(I'm even guilty of this). A lot of one on one interaction if they enjoy your company. That's how most stay into trouble. They make it to where they done slipped off the cliff and don't even realize they fallin.

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Posted by ecent
Caps are flirts. I have a cap coworker and we have these long conversation I told him off the back that I have a man and our conversation is just that. I let him no he is just a male friend. We talk about everything like our job ,tv,car,kids and so on. Now the point i'm getting too is that I no he have a girl and he never came out and said it. I told him from the jump that I'm not looking for a fling I'm just like talking to people men and women. The fact that he is not going out to say he have a girl friend says a lot about a person. It tells me that in my sistuation he want to try to get sex out of me. Which will never happen. My advice to u is don't only listen to wat a person say but listen to wats not being said too.

Your advice is right on point. That actually did cross my mind because if he really did care about he's girlfriend, he would at least mentioned her instead of leading me on. But not only that, we never had long any conversations. It was just small talks here and there. So its not like i would have known much about him let alone what he's telling me and what he's not. It was a friend of his that told me.

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Do you have his birthdate and year? He almost sounds like a scorp venus.

Posted by lnana04

Posted by ecent
Caps are flirts. I have a cap coworker and we have these long conversation I told him off the back that I have a man and our conversation is just that. I let him no he is just a male friend. We talk about everything like our job ,tv,car,kids and so on. Now the point i'm getting too is that I no he have a girl and he never came out and said it. I told him from the jump that I'm not looking for a fling I'm just like talking to people men and women. The fact that he is not going out to say he have a girl friend says a lot about a person. It tells me that in my sistuation he want to try to get sex out of me. Which will never happen. My advice to u is don't only listen to wat a person say but listen to wats not being said too.

I couldn't imagine working with a Cap male. They are VERY easy to talk to and Cappies like intimacy(I'm even guilty of this). A lot of one on one interaction if they enjoy your company. That's how most stay into trouble. They make it to where they done slipped off the cliff and don't even realize they fallin.

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God damn. lol. i have to becarful with that. THis is good to know. And his birthday is jan 13th 1987