sun opposition moon?

I was wondering if someone could give insight as to what sign would be most compatible with me. I am a Taurus with a Scorpio Moon and a Leo Rising. I am all fixed and it's crazy and if that's not enough trouble my Venus is in Gemini and my Mars in Aquarius.

I had a longterm relationship with an Aquarius Sun/Virgo Moon but that went sour. Since then I've been pursued by lots of Virgo Sun/Taurus Moon and practically every sign after that has had a Taurus moon. I am confused. I can't seem to make things work with Virgo because I find the men to be too passive or lacking in passion as far as emotions and sexuality are concerned. They are more like homework partners than anything else. Now I am currently at odds with my current boyfriend a Scorpio Sun/Taurus Moon. While I feel intensely drawn to him it is scary because I cannot escape his depth or sexual intensity. I feel like the amalgamation of signs in my chart are leading me to disaster, especially since my Moon and Venus are quincux. The Scorpio is so painful to deal with at times and he plays with my emotions and rips me apart constantly. I know deep down he loves me, but he is afraid of intimacy or whatever. He hurts my feelings. We've dated for 8 months and never made out really. He knows my body very well but cannot kiss me, cannot be vulnerable, and cannot help but criticize me for my short commings. Despite this, he is my best physical match.

Could anyone shed some light on how I can maneuver through relationships more cautiously? I feel like I have a very challenging astrological delimma.