Synastry in charts

I would like to know if these placements are good to have with a significant other. For an emotional sense of a realtionship.

My sun(aries) is on his IC (4th house)
My moon(Cancer) is on his DC (7th house)
His sun( Aqua) is on my MC (10th house)
His moon(Gemini) is my ASC (1st house)

Thanks for any input.

Posted by GetKist
I would like to know if these placements are good to have with a significant other. For an emotional sense of a realtionship.

My sun(aries) is on his IC (4th house)
My moon(Cancer) is on his DC (7th house)
His sun( Aqua) is on my MC (10th house)
His moon(Gemini) is my ASC (1st house)

Thanks for any input.

Minus the Astro, how does it feel if ^^that was taken out of the picture. Go with your gut. Don't let astrology rule your life! That's my short answer! Good luck to you 🙂

Posted by Jynja
Actually, for an emotional relationship, and from what you've provided, I'm sorry to say no.

Aqua sun in your 10th house, meaning Sagittarius on the 7th? And his 7th house is Cancer, am I getting it right?

Your moon in his 7th house is good for establishing a relationship, but considering your sun sign squares your moon sign and your sun falls in his 4th house of the father and the home (also squaring), it makes things in the emotional sector a little difficult.

So, do you have Leo in the 3rd house while he has it in the 8th?

Anyways, it all depends on the aspects and orbs. But from what you have here:

Sun square 4th house
Moon square 7th house
Moon semi-sextile MC
Moon sextile ASC

His moon in Gemini in your first house means you see him as very intelligent and adaptable to you. Barring any other chart elements to negate this, you might have to shake your perception of him a little to find what is at his core.

Don't know if I helped here. lol

Good luck, though. 🙂

Jynga maybe I dont know as much about synastry as I thought. I have read that when a persons moon conjunt the person asc that it is a strong emotional bond. I can see where my sun being in his 4th house makes the person feel more at home and family. Thats a good thing though. At least to me.

We have other things in charts like mars and venus being trine which is maybe where the attration is sexually.

Thank you for all your input, seems you know better than I maybe I should try and post our charts for you?

letitb- Right now we are friends and there is just something "there" to me or maybe i am imagining it. I feel like we have this psychic thing running between us. It's hard to explain I feel like if we were to go further there would be no looking back for us.

Thanks for the kinds words both of you 🙂

Aww thank you Feb16 Aqua. We have a great friendship and he is really really sexy! We can laugh a lot together too which I find a big turn on!

You are with an Aries?

Lol we are sexy Gods I must admit 🙂

I have always found Aqua men extremly sexy. My first fasination was Brandon Lee in The Crow I think I was 11 when I saw it. Then James Dean I guess I have a thing for dead Aquas. Sounds morbid hahaha

Im so glad we have that friendship too. I posted back on the Aqua board about him in January. He had a GF but they broke up a month ago. They didn't even last a month!

I'm glad you are happy with your Aries! 😉 I think Aqua- Aries combo are crazy together.

Thanks November Sun

I put our data into Cafeastrology heres what the charts are. I really appreciate you taking the time to look at it 🙂


Sun Conjunction Jupiter 2.58
Sun Trine Ascendant 2.20
Moon Sextile Sun 1.53
Moon Trine Jupiter 2.43
Moon Conjunction Ascendant 2.05
Mercury Square Saturn 1.37
Venus Square Uranus 2.25
Mars Trine Sun 3.22
Mars Trine Mercury 3.26
Mars Trine Venus 3.30
Mars Conjunction Uranus 4.43
Mars Opposition Ascendant 3.09
Jupiter Square Moon 1.29
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 4.25
Neptune Square Sun 1.05
Neptune Trine Mars 2.21
Pluto Opposition Mars 1.21
Pluto Square Jupiter 1.46

also this is his chart


Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Aquarius 7.45 Ascendant Capricorn 3.50
Moon Gemini 8.00 II Aquarius 10.04
Mercury Aquarius 26.04 III Pisces 18.36
Venus Pisces 15.33 IV Aries 22.11
Mars Sagittarius 13.15 V Taurus 19.01
Jupiter Aries 22.56 VI Gemini 11.46
Saturn Sagittarius 28.28 VII Cancer 3.50
Uranus Sagittarius 29.12 VIII Leo 10.04
Neptune Capricorn 8.48 IX Virgo 18.36
Pluto Scorpio 12.30 Midheaven Libra 22.11
Lilith Leo 18.05 XI Scorpio 19.01
Asc node Pisces 24.13 XII Sagittarius 11.46



This is mine:


Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Aries 9.53 Ascendant Gemini 10.06
Moon Cancer 21.26 II Cancer 3.48
Mercury Aries 16.40 III Cancer 26.04
Venus Aries 16.45 IV Leo 20.52
Mars Taurus 11.09 V Virgo 21.54
Jupiter Aquarius 10.44 VI Scorpio 0.30
Saturn Scorpio 27.41 VII Sagittarius 10.06
Uranus Sagittarius 17.58 VIII Capricorn 3.48
Neptune Capricorn 3.37 IX Capricorn 26.04
Pluto Scorpio 4.00 Midheaven Aquarius 20.52
Lilith Aries 22.54 XI Pisces 21.54
Asc node Taurus 18.57 XII Taurus 0.30

I believe its the synastry..how do i tell the difference? Lol

So he is the Mars person and yes I am super attracted to him!!!He possesess all my fantasies (in my head)

Since he is the mars person, does this mean he is very attracted to me too? Since his mars is trine my sun?

Yes I noticed some hard aspects, but I think there are more good than bad. Plus some hard aspects are more intense I believe.

I would be the uranus person, so that means he would be more attached to me and I would rebel?

Yes that is why I listed those aspects. I can def feel them when we are together. Most of the time I think he is super shy about approching me as I come off as intimidating (i have been told by people) must be my Aries sun. I am sure I would have to be the one to initiate contact.



You are awesome NovemberSun... full of insightful information 😉

Posted by NovemberSun
Aw, thanks.

I've studied much Synastry, but at the end of the day- present your best self and work with (not against) the energy slat play and you will reap the most of whatever this relationship/experience has to offer.

I've read about Mars Synastry, but have more personal experience. My mars was right on a guys Asc, Sun, and Venus. He was obsessed with me physically. The energy was a sextile and I felt VERY attracted to him, too. But, I did feel I did illicit a more carnal side of him. My mars aspecting his Venus and in his first house seemed to play out that I was more of the initiator with him strongly desiring me to do so.

Hard aspects are needed in Synastry, too. Challenge equals growth. It's about the right balance for each person's needs. Synastry (which you provided above) is the energy exchange between the two of you- how you affect each other. The composite chart illustrates the energy of the relationship itself, and some say, it's destiny.

With an Aries Sun, it's strongly possible you excuse a masculine femininity. Nothing wrong with that. Check both of your "house overlays" to clarify how you both impact each other in regards to the other planets.

Love all the advice you have to offer and personal experiences!

So I will look more into Mars synasrty for one. Two, I do get the feeling he wants me to initate the first contact. I always try to present my best self around him beacause in honesty he makes me feel like a better person when he is around. I am so happy with myself and him when we are together.

Do you know a good site that I can check the house overlays? Thanks much 🙂