very hot synastry?

I have this strange thing with a guy I'm working with and i wonder it has sth to do with our planets. This is the first time i cant resist a guy and i feel this strong passion and i can tell he feels the same way althoug nothing will happen because we both have partners. is there sth i can do to make that stop or it is just inevitable that sth will happen eventually, can somebody tell me how it is with our synastry? i would appreciate it a lot

Sun Conjunction Neptune 1.51 130
Mercury Opposition Sun 2.33 -164
Mercury Sextile Uranus 1.11 61
Venus Trine Sun 1.47 149
Venus Square Mars 1.08 -144
Venus Conjunction Uranus 1.57 107
Mars Square Venus 1.57 -120
Mars Square Jupiter 1.52 -100
Mars Sextile Neptune 0.05 67
Mars Conjunction Pluto 4.15 61
Jupiter Opposition Sun 0.32 -128
Uranus Opposition Saturn 2.09 -47
Neptune Opposition Venus 3.39 -40
Neptune Square Pluto 1.21 -65
Pluto Trine Venus 0.54 61
636 -808 -172

LadyLibra is right, your actions and reasons for them are based in real-life issues with your present partner and the other. If you want astrological insight, from your chart here's an explanation:

His/your venus square his/your mars, squared both ways:

This combination produces a very strong sexual attraction; however, there is often a lack of real emotional compatibility and mutual consideration. The relationship can be entered into by one or both parties merely for sexual gratification, without real concern for the other party as a person. In a romantic or marital relationship, sexual jealousy and possessiveness can be a problem. This is a difficult aspect for close personal relationships, but it is often present in them because of the high degree of sexual compatibility it generates at the outset of the relationship.

That's probably what's confusing you and it is a strong influence but doesn't sound that healthy. What you need to look at is why you're interested in other guys and what is making you look for something outside of your relationship? Don't hold onto what you have just to stay while waiting for someone to knock your socks off & hurt a guy because you never had the guts to leave and tell him the truth. The grass is always greener....

Sounds to me like you are looking for a reason to be with him. I would assume that the reason why you look for an excuse is because you don't have any plans on breaking it off with your partner, so naturally, if it's in the stars and you two cannot help yourselves, then it won't be your fault if/when it happens.

If you cannot find anything in astrology to use as your excuse to cheat ... then you could try using a work project that keeps you together alone for hours and he caught you on your period and you were crying for no reason except for just being in a weak moment and he took advantage of you.

Then it won't be your fault, so you can make yourself believe.

honestly...neptune aspects equal idealism shattered by disillusionment.

and you've got some very strong neptune aspects in that synastry chart.

Posted by P-Angel
Sounds to me like you are looking for a reason to be with him. I would assume that the reason why you look for an excuse is because you don't have any plans on breaking it off with your partner, so naturally, if it's in the stars and you two cannot help yourselves, then it won't be your fault if/when it happens.

If you cannot find anything in astrology to use as your excuse to cheat ... then you could try using a work project that keeps you together alone for hours and he caught you on your period and you were crying for no reason except for just being in a weak moment and he took advantage of you.

Then it won't be your fault, so you can make yourself believe.

Lol

HAHAHA P Angel you are too incredibly awesome to be real

I always look to see where the nodes are in the chart and how they connect together in the others chart and the houses the nodes fall in. Maybe you can post where the nodes are? :-)