taurus woman says she will commit suicide if I ever leave her

I am honestly afraid.

This must be the one who has been very

dramatic from the start.

Oh boy

Posted by AnarchoScorpio
I am honestly afraid.

Marry her.

You kill her before she gets chance 😄

The two most intense signs LMFAOO nice

Time for a 3-6month get outta teown plan.

Call in the cavalry, notify her friends and family.

Her doctor if that's at all possible.

Ensure there is a suitable support system in place for someone so vulnerable.

Also ensure you too have some sort of life support system.

Your own friends and family should be within reach...

Book yourself a two week solo vacation, and exit stage left as soon as you can.

Emotional manipulation is a no-go zone at the best of times, but if she is seriously suffering from depression and suicidal tendencies, be compassionate but extricate yourself asap if it is at all possible.

And good luck my dear ~*~

Disclaimer: this is IF you are looking for an out, obviously if you care, are concerned, are emotionally invested (and I am not familiar with your relationship) by all means - follow my initial advice minus the leaving.

Posted by yupvirgoo
Hmmm... my Taurus wife said she will kill ME if I ever left her.

One of my Taurus friends told me he will find me and hurt me if I ever cut him off.

Maybe they just like saying stuff like that?

*shrugs

Sometimes they mean it...and will try.

Sometimes they don't... ?

Get her some milk

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Posted by AnarchoScorpio
I am honestly afraid.

Shit I told u she was bad news when I first read ur story

Walk away

Let her family save her

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+1

Threats of suicide or promising to kill the partner.....unstable and scary people.....run

Posted by yupvirgoo
Hmmm... my Taurus wife said she will kill ME if I ever left her.

One of my Taurus friends told me he will find me and hurt me if I ever cut him off.

Maybe they just like saying stuff like that?

*shrugs

low-key possessive!!! 😆

Posted by Explicit
Well...

Like Gemitati said. Guess it's time to pull out that engagement ring. 😈

you better marry this woman!!!

or we will all get you! haunt you!!

make a proper woman out of her! you already had good loving from her, so she wants to make sure you don't milk the cow too much without buying it (figuratively speaking) lol

Posted by wagtail
Time for a 3-6month get outta teown plan.

Call in the cavalry, notify her friends and family.

Her doctor if that's at all possible.

Ensure there is a suitable support system in place for someone so vulnerable.

Also ensure you too have some sort of life support system.

Your own friends and family should be within reach...

Book yourself a two week solo vacation, and exit stage left as soon as you can.

Emotional manipulation is a no-go zone at the best of times, but if she is seriously suffering from depression and suicidal tendencies, be compassionate but extricate yourself asap if it is at all possible.

And good luck my dear ~*~

Disclaimer: this is IF you are looking for an out, obviously if you care, are concerned, are emotionally invested (and I am not familiar with your relationship) by all means - follow my initial advice minus the leaving.

I agree with wagtail.

A.S. everybody warned you about this woman from the start. First she said she would kill you, which makes sense between a Scorp and a Taurus. Then she wants to have your baby. Now it's suicide watch time. She is trying to manipulate your behavior by issuing orders to you that benefit her and where does it stop?

You need to have a long heart to heart with this woman. Otherwise, it's popcorn time again for the rest of us here on the Taurus board.

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Posted by Explicit
Well...

Like Gemitati said. Guess it's time to pull out that engagement ring. 😈

you better marry this woman!!!

or we will all get you! haunt you!!

make a proper woman out of her! you already had good loving from her, so she wants to make sure you don't milk the cow too much without buying it (figuratively speaking) lol

Or he can do all the things she can't stand and then make her break up with him 😈

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lol

I doubt it in his case. he would have left loonnggg ago. he's toying with her. *smh*

Back in high school, I knew a guy, a creepy little asshole, who would latch on to girls and threaten to kill himself if they wouldn't be his girlfriend. One of the girls was a friend of mine. She hated him, but was afraid to "dump" him because she didn't want to feel responsible if he killed himself. I told her I could deal with it, so I would

confront him. When I did, he told me to go fuck myself and I told him to go kill himself (he didn't). We got it straightened out. He left her alone, but still had like three other girls pretending to be his girlfriend. He was such a steaming pile. Obsessed with nazis. Just plain effed up.

When it's clearly a form of manipulation, just call their bluff. If it's someone you're in a relationship with, tell her you're leaving because this is too crazy and her actions are her own responsibility and not your fault. Unless you enjoy the bullshit. I don't enjoy bullshit, so that's what I would do.

Posted by AnarchoScorpio
I am honestly afraid.

Then don't treat her threat of suicide lightly.

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Posted by Explicit
Well...

Like Gemitati said. Guess it's time to pull out that engagement ring. 😈

you better marry this woman!!!

or we will all get you! haunt you!!

make a proper woman out of her! you already had good loving from her, so she wants to make sure you don't milk the cow too much without buying it (figuratively speaking) lol

Or he can do all the things she can't stand and then make her break up with him 😈

lol

I doubt it in his case. he would have left loonnggg ago. he's toying with her. *smh*

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Agreed.

There does seem to be a rather perverse

fascination about this whole thing from op...

and no offense intended toward op with that

statement, either.

That hes been awestruck since day one with

this woman's ownership of their relationship is

also fascinating. o.O

Those situations are stupid af imo. I'd probably leave them just because I can't stand the idea of forcing someone into a situation with such a claim. Mentally I would just feel they are too unstable, or just plain stupid. The idea of a person threatening someone with their own life is too much in my opinion.

Don't let her control you this way.

Tell her that if you think she's going to harm herself, you'll have no choice but to call an emergency hotline so she gets help.

Posted by fugu2
Don't let her control you this way.

Tell her that if you think she's going to harm herself, you'll have no choice but to call an emergency hotline so she gets help.

sometimes i wonder...who is controlling who??

Ask her if I can watch

Posted by Impulsv
Mentally ill a bit??

This is what I feel about her also. I remember the whole story OP posted about meeting her and all the weird butter she put him through. IMO, she could do with some professional counseling at the very least.

I'm sorry for you both.

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Posted by Arielle83
Hand her the gun/knife/noose/pillow/plastic bag/pills/speedball injection/glass bottle and tell her it's over.

And say "I dare you".

^^^^^

Don't do that, OP.

Why not?

Talk is cheap

Because we don't know the situation. She might actually do it. Suicide is irreversible. And while it would not be the OP's fault if she made that choice, that doesn't mean he wouldn't have to live with it and relive it for the rest of his life.

People say this stuff when they are losing control in the situation. It's about controlling the other person, not an action about what they may do.

She wants him to beg her "not to do it". It's fake words to prove he cares. She's created boundary issues and has overstepped her boundaries with him. If he consoles her and expresses his concern she will see it as getting her control back.

If he calls her bluff she will realise he can't be played.

If she keeps saying it he can say he's having her admitted.

I was being tongue in cheek before, but these statements are usually a dramatic need for control.

I would say that in the majority of cases you are absolutely right. I was in one myself, and I called his bluff and his mom. And he backed off. However, in my case it was a repeated pattern, and I knew in my heart of hearts that he wasn't going to do anything. I don't know if that's the case for the OP.

If anything, she'll go after him if she's that unstable. She wants him to hurt.

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True. She could be a "bunnyboiler". That's why I reiterate, she needs some professional help.

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Posted by Arielle83
Hand her the gun/knife/noose/pillow/plastic bag/pills/speedball injection/glass bottle and tell her it's over.

And say "I dare you".

^^^^^

Don't do that, OP.

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+1

The mind can be a fragile thing....harshness isn't the answer, human beings can be vulnerable

I was with a guy that kidnapped me after i walked out but went back to get some of my things and thereafter threatened to kill himself. I talked to him as kindly as i could, luckily he started to see sense

What is the backstory for this?

If there is a backstory (you all wrote about this, like this is a real possibility), then the OP must be enjoying the situation, otherwise he would got out a long time ago.... what is the reason he is not leaving, again?

If I didnt know there is a backstory, I would think, she was just joking 🙂

like the big manifestations, you know: "I kill you if you leave" or "I kill myself, if you leave"

just a funny/dramatic love-confessing 🙂 I wouldnt take it too seriously

If the OP took this type of "confessions" seriously, then he would have left already.... If he is still with her, then this topic is just attention-seeking for obvious answers (which followed)

OP is a big manipulator himself 🙂