Does having venus in gemini make you a cheater? I've read on several sites that having this placement makes a person want be with alot of people at once? is this true? I have venus in gemini and although i kind of do picture myself with some of my favorite women, i would never cheat on my significant other. I would break it off before i did.. what are your thoughts?
Venus in Gemini= Cheater?

I have two close gfs who have Venus in Gemini and they have both cheated on their significant others (one more than the other). One has been in a long term relationship with her bf for six years and she cheats on him constantly with male FWB. She says the main reason for it is that her bf works constantly (he's a Taurus) and that she enjoys the rush of getting close to someone else..I think people with this placement tend to get bored easily hence they tend to seek new and exciting encounters.

Posted by vesperlynd83
I have two close gfs who have Venus in Gemini and they have both cheated on their significant others (one more than the other). One has been in a long term relationship with her bf for six years and she cheats on him constantly with male FWB. She says the main reason for it is that her bf works constantly (he's a Taurus) and that she enjoys the rush of getting close to someone else..I think people with this placement tend to get bored easily hence they tend to seek new and exciting encounters.
Btw the friend I mentioned above is a Cancer.

No, not me. I have venus in Gemini & im a Cancer. I think my water placements overshadowed any cheating tendencies. I heard Venus in Gemini prioritize me wanting a smart partner. Or someone who likes a lot of different things. Now I have ended things if I was being treated unfairly. Im actually the one scared of losing my partner or them cheating on me. I also like to have fun but I want my partner to enjoy their time with me. So you have to look at the persons chart to determine if they got an air or fire moon that goes with that Gemini venus. That would increase the chances of that person cheating. I got Scorpio Moon, Mercury in Cancer that affects my Venus sign

Posted by 2BlackIndian3
No, not me. I have venus in Gemini & im a Cancer. I think my water placements overshadowed any cheating tendencies. I heard Venus in Gemini prioritize me wanting a smart partner. Or someone who likes a lot of different things. Now I have ended things if I was being treated unfairly. Im actually the one scared of losing my partner or them cheating on me. I also like to have fun but I want my partner to enjoy their time with me. So you have to look at the persons chart to determine if they got an air or fire moon that goes with that Gemini venus. That would increase the chances of that person cheating. I got Scorpio Moon, Mercury in Cancer that affects my Venus sign
She has a Fire moon so that may be a contributing factor.

The ones I know have. Same for venus in sag. Venus in aqua, hit or miss

This is all a load of crap. Christ, textbook avoidance of accountability... blaming gemini. @# $ @^% &

So if it's not her Venus in Gemini, it must be her moon in a fire sign.
Are you people crazy? I mean, I know we're all on an astrology site so this question is rhetoric but still.
Cheating isn't found in the stars.
Are you people crazy? I mean, I know we're all on an astrology site so this question is rhetoric but still.
Cheating isn't found in the stars.

Posted by 2BlackIndian3
No, not me. I have venus in Gemini & im a Cancer. I think my water placements overshadowed any cheating tendencies. I heard Venus in Gemini prioritize me wanting a smart partner. Or someone who likes a lot of different things. Now I have ended things if I was being treated unfairly. Im actually the one scared of losing my partner or them cheating on me. I also like to have fun but I want my partner to enjoy their time with me. So you have to look at the persons chart to determine if they got an air or fire moon that goes with that Gemini venus. That would increase the chances of that person cheating. I got Scorpio Moon, Mercury in Cancer that affects my Venus sign
LOOOL Now blame the fire moon? Hahaha BS! Guess what, my leeb ex with scorpio moon, mercury, venus and mars in virgo and he cheated on me I thought it was just once but I found out later on there were others. So what am I gonna blame now, he has Libra sun so that makes him a cheat— Riiiiiiiiiiiiight!
These are all just tendencies, doesn't matter what the placements are.

They don't always cheat, the more "honorable" ones will just ditch u first when bored with you so that they can hit it with someone new.

Posted by 2BlackIndian3
No, not me. I have venus in Gemini & im a Cancer. I think my water placements overshadowed any cheating tendencies. I heard Venus in Gemini prioritize me wanting a smart partner. Or someone who likes a lot of different things. Now I have ended things if I was being treated unfairly. Im actually the one scared of losing my partner or them cheating on me. I also like to have fun but I want my partner to enjoy their time with me. So you have to look at the persons chart to determine if they got an air or fire moon that goes with that Gemini venus. That would increase the chances of that person cheating. I got Scorpio Moon, Mercury in Cancer that affects my Venus sign
I agree. I have my Venus in Gemini (which happens to be in the 8th house *rolls eyes*), but I feel it is subdued alot by my Sun, Moon and Mars all being in Cancer. I don't have more than one relationship going at a time, but being mentally stimulated (as well as the other stimulations) is important to me. I don't want to be bored and thinking 'What if?'
However, being the Cancer that I am, I'll cling and ride the relationship to the wheels fall off. Nowadays, I do think I should listen to my cerebral Venus placement more to avoid wasting my time and energy on a woman. Overall, I rather leave than to cheat. I wouldn't want to screw up someone's faith & trust in relationships like that.
What I'm more curious about is what placements or aspects make you more susceptible to play the role of the 'other woman'?? Because I have been the side piece before; knowingly and unknowingly. :-\

@Tavrine i do have a Leo Rising, but to me cheating is a Choice a person makes, not a mistake. @bananaonionjuice post explains it better than me. I know if im not happy with someone, i rather end the relationship, than stay & cheat.

@Fenyx215 You explained it great in terms us Cancers with this placement. At first i thought it was a bad thing, but really it's not. I do kinda place an importance on communication & that mental connection. Like voice communication is very important to me. If it's lack of that, than things can be tough. I do feel my water dominates in certain areas like you. So i wouldn't let it bother me. There's other things to worry about

I meant there's better things to worry about lol. Damn technology haha
Posted by Damnata
So if it's not her Venus in Gemini, it must be her moon in a fire sign.
Are you people crazy? I mean, I know we're all on an astrology site so this question is rhetoric but still.
Cheating isn't found in the stars.
+1
i know. my husband's good friend is a loyal guy with his woman and he's got a gemini venus.
but it's true. If it's NOT their venus, it has to be their MOON!!! if not, it's the stellium there, OR....it's the Mars!! that mars is dangerous!! stay away. lmao
it is sounding like a person can't go outside for fear of getting hit by a car, or catching a cold, or getting sick from an airborne virus. It's got to be SOMEthing!! O_O
Posted by DonJohnson
steer clear of venus in gemini. holy shit.
lol!!! or this! 😆
this site is the most hilarious of gemini venus:
http://astrolibrary.org/gemini-in-love/<BR>
—I Love Variety, Communication, and Networking??
The first secret to know about a Gemini in love is that it does NOT refer to a sun-sign Gemini person. Only someone with the planet Venus in Gemini will be a —Gemini in love.??
The Gemini lover is the charmer of the zodiac. They express affection verbally and cleverly, but they only feel it skin-deep. You may be tempted to believe one loves you because of how excited they get when you??re together, but they get just as excited when chasing a butterfly or ordering dinner. It's hard to tell if one is sincerely interested in you because Venus in Gemini is talkative and friendly with everybody and their mother. Venus in Gemini is a kid at heart, completely at peace with lying if it suits them. Like children, they are also endlessly curious. They??re into everything (it's been said that they have —a finger in every pie.??). The Gemini lover??s taste is always changing, and they have a constant need for new stimuli. The only thing that you can be sure of about your Gemini lover is that they will not be faithful in a traditional relationship. Monogamy is absolutely impossible for someone with Venus in Gemini. (If you happen to have Venus in Gemini and are claiming that you have been faithful in a relationship, please comment at the bottom of this article; we??d like to perform some tests on you, because you, dear, must be some sort of mutant.)
To be fair, the Gemini need for variety is not so much sexual as it is a need for mental stimulation. The Gemini lover thrives on new information. Gemini is the —net-worker?? of the zodiac. They have a need to disseminate information and connect people. This is why they??re driven to talk to everyone, at the lunch counter, around town, on the street, and in bed. And they are good at it, too. They are never at a loss for words, having enviable verbal skills. They carry themselves uprightly in public, fitting right in to any social crowd. At parties, they are the center of every talk circle. They go home from a party knowing what everyone was talking about, wearing, and eating. And they took it all in within the first half hour of the party.
It's as if Venus in Gemini has a receptor antenna on top of one's head, receiving all sorts of information. They are totally aware of the people in their environment. Not the feelings of people (like the water signs are) but rather the rational thoughts and ideas of people. Robert Pattinson and Megan Fox both have Venus in Gemini, as did President JFK.
The Gemini lover never really means any harm; these are not fighters like Aries, nor manipulators like Scorpio. They can't understand why you??re upset that they left you home alone with your boring movie while they went to look for something more fun to do. They are sincerely confused when you get angry at them for forgetting your birthday. They want you to understand that the reason they forgot your birthday is because the lady at the lunch counter had the most interesting story to tell, so your Gemini lover never made it your house that night.
They are like easily distracted children. And you always forgive them because they have the most charming smiles and always say the right words. They like to remain friends with all of their past lovers, they cannot bear to end friendships. Friendships mean more to them than romances.
They may like to talk during sex (although Mars in Gemini is more indicative of that). Actually, they may prefer to talk about sex rather than doing it. Unless, of course, it's a threesome. They cannot turn down a threesome. Males with this placement may seem feminine at times, but this does not mean they are necessarily homosexual. Gemini is considered an asexual sign. They can feel intimately close with both sexes. But intimately close for a Gemini is always only skin-deep. Gemini intimacy is a friendly companion

They get bored after awhile.
Keep things interesting and switch things up.
Keep things interesting and switch things up.
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