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Posted by starwarsSame. Yet i havent managed to meet an aqua thats made me feel as comfortable as he did
there's great and immediate attraction between virgos and crabs, but I don't think it work, not for me. id always choose an aqua over cancer!
Posted by magnetorebornEhh. Its like a really long story... Lets just say he felt dissappointed & so did I . Weve tried to be friends but it hasnt worked ... one of us always ends up messing things up . Tbh i just really miss his company and i cant seem to get over it.Posted by notafollowerI fall so hard for Cancer girls...I mean the rapport is just too strong I kid you not.
How do you describe the feeling you get when you hold someones gaze for so long that you almost feel like you know everything that persons heart & mind is bearing that moment...
I feel like despite all the bs thats happened between me & the Virgo guy, we cant deny the connection we feel when were standing infront of each other , which is hard, because we both feel as if its the other ones fault & we are both hoping we can either forget that weve met or for the other person to take a step & discover why we have been feeling that way for so long and why is it so hard to fight it...
Anybody been in a situation like this before?
What were you mostly afraid of ?
I can always pick out Cancer girls - I feel like Cancer is the #1 sign I'm compatible with as a Virgo.
And to answer your question: no, I don't think iIve been in a situation where I resisted whatever feelings I had for a girl - I usually succumb to it lol especially when it comes to Cancers.
The only problem I run into is when they sometimes tell me while having a deep conversation with me, "yeah, my boyfriend thinks x y z" or "my boyfriend, my boyfriend, my boyfriend, etc. etc. etc."
Then I get crushed and uninterested. :/
But I guess my question to you is, why are you fighting the urge to be together? Are you guys "friends"?click to expand
Posted by starwarsIm insecure af. Its the truth. Though when it comes down to it he seems to feel the way i do... Im scared of getting hurt - all these questions come to mind like - he felt that way last time but what if hes over it now? Am i gonna make myself look desperate or stupid?. I guess you could say im a coward. But last time i made up my mind after talking to some guy on here , i saw him , he walked past me and didnt even look at me. & though there was a high chance he didnt see me i just made myself twice as insecure by telling myself he chose to ignore mePosted by notafollowerif you're still not over him why don't you talk to him and follow your gut?Posted by starwarsSame. Yet i havent managed to meet an aqua thats made me feel as comfortable as he did
there's great and immediate attraction between virgos and crabs, but I don't think it work, not for me. id always choose an aqua over cancer!click to expand
Posted by SingASong41It really is a long story which involves disappointment confusion and distance.
Tell! How can we help if we don't know the full story? Come on, don't be so vague.
In any case, you could always be honest with him. Being assertive isn't easy because it's forcing you out of your "comfort zone" (fear) but it makes things go along a lot quicker.
The more you keep feelings to yourself, the deeper they become and the harder it is to move past them.
Then again, I don't know the story. So, do tell. 🙂
Posted by magnetorebornLol . (:Posted by notafollowerWellll 🙂 If you can't have that Virgo, you can always have this Virgo (me).Posted by magnetorebornEhh. Its like a really long story... Lets just say he felt dissappointed & so did I . Weve tried to be friends but it hasnt worked ... one of us always ends up messing things up . Tbh i just really miss his company and i cant seem to get over it.Posted by notafollowerI fall so hard for Cancer girls...I mean the rapport is just too strong I kid you not.
How do you describe the feeling you get when you hold someones gaze for so long that you almost feel like you know everything that persons heart & mind is bearing that moment...
I feel like despite all the bs thats happened between me & the Virgo guy, we cant deny the connection we feel when were standing infront of each other , which is hard, because we both feel as if its the other ones fault & we are both hoping we can either forget that weve met or for the other person to take a step & discover why we have been feeling that way for so long and why is it so hard to fight it...
Anybody been in a situation like this before?
What were you mostly afraid of ?
I can always pick out Cancer girls - I feel like Cancer is the #1 sign I'm compatible with as a Virgo.
And to answer your question: no, I don't think iIve been in a situation where I resisted whatever feelings I had for a girl - I usually succumb to it lol especially when it comes to Cancers.
The only problem I run into is when they sometimes tell me while having a deep conversation with me, "yeah, my boyfriend thinks x y z" or "my boyfriend, my boyfriend, my boyfriend, etc. etc. etc."
Then I get crushed and uninterested. :/
But I guess my question to you is, why are you fighting the urge to be together? Are you guys "friends"?
🙂 🙂 🙂click to expand

Posted by SingASong41Would a virgo go out of their comfort zone to do that?
Tell! How can we help if we don't know the full story? Come on, don't be so vague.
In any case, you could always be honest with him. Being assertive isn't easy because it's forcing you out of your "comfort zone" (fear) but it makes things go along a lot quicker.
The more you keep feelings to yourself, the deeper they become and the harder it is to move past them.
Then again, I don't know the story. So, do tell. 🙂

Posted by notafollowerDoes he have a cancer venusPosted by starwarsIm insecure af. Its the truth. Though when it comes down to it he seems to feel the way i do... Im scared of getting hurt - all these questions come to mind like - he felt that way last time but what if hes over it now? Am i gonna make myself look desperate or stupid?. I guess you could say im a coward. But last time i made up my mind after talking to some guy on here , i saw him , he walked past me and didnt even look at me. & though there was a high chance he didnt see me i just made myself twice as insecure by telling myself he chose to ignore mePosted by notafollowerif you're still not over him why don't you talk to him and follow your gut?Posted by starwarsSame. Yet i havent managed to meet an aqua thats made me feel as comfortable as he did
there's great and immediate attraction between virgos and crabs, but I don't think it work, not for me. id always choose an aqua over cancer!click to expand
Posted by GreenteaLeo Venus like myself & scorpio moonPosted by notafollowerDoes he have a cancer venusPosted by starwarsIm insecure af. Its the truth. Though when it comes down to it he seems to feel the way i do... Im scared of getting hurt - all these questions come to mind like - he felt that way last time but what if hes over it now? Am i gonna make myself look desperate or stupid?. I guess you could say im a coward. But last time i made up my mind after talking to some guy on here , i saw him , he walked past me and didnt even look at me. & though there was a high chance he didnt see me i just made myself twice as insecure by telling myself he chose to ignore mePosted by notafollowerif you're still not over him why don't you talk to him and follow your gut?Posted by starwarsSame. Yet i havent managed to meet an aqua thats made me feel as comfortable as he did
there's great and immediate attraction between virgos and crabs, but I don't think it work, not for me. id always choose an aqua over cancer!click to expand

Posted by notafollowerAh, so fixed fixed fixed.Posted by GreenteaLeo Venus like myself & scorpio moonPosted by notafollowerDoes he have a cancer venusPosted by starwarsIm insecure af. Its the truth. Though when it comes down to it he seems to feel the way i do... Im scared of getting hurt - all these questions come to mind like - he felt that way last time but what if hes over it now? Am i gonna make myself look desperate or stupid?. I guess you could say im a coward. But last time i made up my mind after talking to some guy on here , i saw him , he walked past me and didnt even look at me. & though there was a high chance he didnt see me i just made myself twice as insecure by telling myself he chose to ignore mePosted by notafollowerif you're still not over him why don't you talk to him and follow your gut?Posted by starwarsSame. Yet i havent managed to meet an aqua thats made me feel as comfortable as he did
there's great and immediate attraction between virgos and crabs, but I don't think it work, not for me. id always choose an aqua over cancer!click to expand
Posted by GreenteaWhat does that mean? LolPosted by notafollowerAh, so fixed fixed fixed.Posted by GreenteaLeo Venus like myself & scorpio moonPosted by notafollowerDoes he have a cancer venusPosted by starwarsIm insecure af. Its the truth. Though when it comes down to it he seems to feel the way i do... Im scared of getting hurt - all these questions come to mind like - he felt that way last time but what if hes over it now? Am i gonna make myself look desperate or stupid?. I guess you could say im a coward. But last time i made up my mind after talking to some guy on here , i saw him , he walked past me and didnt even look at me. & though there was a high chance he didnt see me i just made myself twice as insecure by telling myself he chose to ignore mePosted by notafollowerif you're still not over him why don't you talk to him and follow your gut?Posted by starwarsSame. Yet i havent managed to meet an aqua thats made me feel as comfortable as he did
there's great and immediate attraction between virgos and crabs, but I don't think it work, not for me. id always choose an aqua over cancer!click to expand

Posted by notafollowerFixed takes longer to let go.Posted by GreenteaWhat does that mean? LolPosted by notafollowerAh, so fixed fixed fixed.Posted by GreenteaLeo Venus like myself & scorpio moonPosted by notafollowerDoes he have a cancer venusPosted by starwarsIm insecure af. Its the truth. Though when it comes down to it he seems to feel the way i do... Im scared of getting hurt - all these questions come to mind like - he felt that way last time but what if hes over it now? Am i gonna make myself look desperate or stupid?. I guess you could say im a coward. But last time i made up my mind after talking to some guy on here , i saw him , he walked past me and didnt even look at me. & though there was a high chance he didnt see me i just made myself twice as insecure by telling myself he chose to ignore mePosted by notafollowerif you're still not over him why don't you talk to him and follow your gut?Posted by starwarsSame. Yet i havent managed to meet an aqua thats made me feel as comfortable as he did
there's great and immediate attraction between virgos and crabs, but I don't think it work, not for me. id always choose an aqua over cancer!click to expand


Posted by SingASong41Well what if you don't, what are the reasons behind that?Posted by GreenteaYes. I wouldn't give that type of advice if I hadn't done it myself. It makes life so much easier.Posted by SingASong41Would a virgo go out of their comfort zone to do that?
Tell! How can we help if we don't know the full story? Come on, don't be so vague.
In any case, you could always be honest with him. Being assertive isn't easy because it's forcing you out of your "comfort zone" (fear) but it makes things go along a lot quicker.
The more you keep feelings to yourself, the deeper they become and the harder it is to move past them.
Then again, I don't know the story. So, do tell. 🙂
We aren't meant to stay in our "comfort zone" aka bubble of fear. How do we evolve if we aren't willing to take risks and put ourselves out there?
Do you know how many problems could be avoided, how many situations would be solved, if we were all open with each other?
I used to be just as scared and insecure, sometimes I still get that feeling. However, life can never go on when you stay in such a state. That is such a sad way to live, really.
First time is the hardest. Then you realise "Hey, I'm still here. Breathing, alive, and (eventually) stronger than before!" Perhaps that won't be the immediate reaction, but it will come. Especially when you think to do it more for the EXPERIENCE and EVOLUTION rather than being in a negative mind state of fear of the unknown, which in actuality, is fear of what you are applying to the outcome.
No matter the outcome, you push yourself forward and obtain new wisdom that betters you as a human being. Not only that, the outcome could be exactly what you wanted all along, if you focus on it.
I'd rather have a life of "oh wells" than "what ifs"click to expand

Posted by SingASong41Go out of their comfort zone to reach out?Posted by GreenteaDon't what?Posted by SingASong41Well what if you don't, what are the reasons behind that?Posted by GreenteaYes. I wouldn't give that type of advice if I hadn't done it myself. It makes life so much easier.Posted by SingASong41Would a virgo go out of their comfort zone to do that?
Tell! How can we help if we don't know the full story? Come on, don't be so vague.
In any case, you could always be honest with him. Being assertive isn't easy because it's forcing you out of your "comfort zone" (fear) but it makes things go along a lot quicker.
The more you keep feelings to yourself, the deeper they become and the harder it is to move past them.
Then again, I don't know the story. So, do tell. 🙂
We aren't meant to stay in our "comfort zone" aka bubble of fear. How do we evolve if we aren't willing to take risks and put ourselves out there?
Do you know how many problems could be avoided, how many situations would be solved, if we were all open with each other?
I used to be just as scared and insecure, sometimes I still get that feeling. However, life can never go on when you stay in such a state. That is such a sad way to live, really.
First time is the hardest. Then you realise "Hey, I'm still here. Breathing, alive, and (eventually) stronger than before!" Perhaps that won't be the immediate reaction, but it will come. Especially when you think to do it more for the EXPERIENCE and EVOLUTION rather than being in a negative mind state of fear of the unknown, which in actuality, is fear of what you are applying to the outcome.
No matter the outcome, you push yourself forward and obtain new wisdom that betters you as a human being. Not only that, the outcome could be exactly what you wanted all along, if you focus on it.
I'd rather have a life of "oh wells" than "what ifs"click to expand

Posted by SingASong41Do you think if, like the OP said, that there's disappointments, confusion amd distance involved it would male the virgo reclusive? @SingASong41Posted by notafollowerAh okay. I respect that.Posted by SingASong41It really is a long story which involves disappointment confusion and distance.
Tell! How can we help if we don't know the full story? Come on, don't be so vague.
In any case, you could always be honest with him. Being assertive isn't easy because it's forcing you out of your "comfort zone" (fear) but it makes things go along a lot quicker.
The more you keep feelings to yourself, the deeper they become and the harder it is to move past them.
Then again, I don't know the story. So, do tell. 🙂
"The more you keep feelings to yourself, the deeper they become and the harder it is to move past them" I appreciate it , but id rather hear your own experience if you have one to share & would like to cause ik that deep down, no matter what you tell me ill be too insecure to do anything about the situation
I'll message you. Is that okay?click to expand
Posted by SingASong41That would be nice (:Posted by notafollowerAh okay. I respect that.Posted by SingASong41It really is a long story which involves disappointment confusion and distance.
Tell! How can we help if we don't know the full story? Come on, don't be so vague.
In any case, you could always be honest with him. Being assertive isn't easy because it's forcing you out of your "comfort zone" (fear) but it makes things go along a lot quicker.
The more you keep feelings to yourself, the deeper they become and the harder it is to move past them.
Then again, I don't know the story. So, do tell. 🙂
"The more you keep feelings to yourself, the deeper they become and the harder it is to move past them" I appreciate it , but id rather hear your own experience if you have one to share & would like to cause ik that deep down, no matter what you tell me ill be too insecure to do anything about the situation
I'll message you. Is that okay?click to expand
Posted by kissmygritsLol . I dont drink
Ya just going to have to take a giant shot of whiskey and go for it.

Posted by notafollowerI said a shot not the bottle. Stay with me crab cousin.Posted by kissmygritsLol . I dont drink
Ya just going to have to take a giant shot of whiskey and go for it.click to expand
Posted by kissmygritsHahahahaha . I dont drink thoughPosted by notafollowerI said a shot not the bottle. Stay with me crab cousin.Posted by kissmygritsLol . I dont drink
Ya just going to have to take a giant shot of whiskey and go for it.click to expand

Posted by kissmygritsWell when i finally decide to do something that takes a lot of courage i just hide my hands . They shake like crazy lol
How else can you be brave?

Posted by notafollowerDo you guys talk at all? ..are you still social media friends or anything?Posted by starwarsIm insecure af. Its the truth. Though when it comes down to it he seems to feel the way i do... Im scared of getting hurt - all these questions come to mind like - he felt that way last time but what if hes over it now? Am i gonna make myself look desperate or stupid?. I guess you could say im a coward. But last time i made up my mind after talking to some guy on here , i saw him , he walked past me and didnt even look at me. & though there was a high chance he didnt see me i just made myself twice as insecure by telling myself he chose to ignore mePosted by notafollowerif you're still not over him why don't you talk to him and follow your gut?Posted by starwarsSame. Yet i havent managed to meet an aqua thats made me feel as comfortable as he did
there's great and immediate attraction between virgos and crabs, but I don't think it work, not for me. id always choose an aqua over cancer!click to expand
Posted by GreenteaNothing. I changed my number after the last thing that happened & since then we havent talkedPosted by notafollowerDo you guys talk at all? ..are you still social media friends or anything?Posted by starwarsIm insecure af. Its the truth. Though when it comes down to it he seems to feel the way i do... Im scared of getting hurt - all these questions come to mind like - he felt that way last time but what if hes over it now? Am i gonna make myself look desperate or stupid?. I guess you could say im a coward. But last time i made up my mind after talking to some guy on here , i saw him , he walked past me and didnt even look at me. & though there was a high chance he didnt see me i just made myself twice as insecure by telling myself he chose to ignore mePosted by notafollowerif you're still not over him why don't you talk to him and follow your gut?Posted by starwarsSame. Yet i havent managed to meet an aqua thats made me feel as comfortable as he did
there's great and immediate attraction between virgos and crabs, but I don't think it work, not for me. id always choose an aqua over cancer!click to expand
Posted by magnetorebornWhat do you mean? & how did you know? Lol
Oh wow, I just realized the OP is a Cancer Sun and Cancer Moon.
Lmao!
Just my luck...

Posted by magnetorebornPosted by notafollowerOh hehe 😛 I did some investigative work by um...looking through your old posts and doing Control F "Sun" or Control F "Moon"Posted by magnetorebornWhat do you mean? & how did you know? Lol
Oh wow, I just realized the OP is a Cancer Sun and Cancer Moon.
Lmao!
Just my luck...
Please excuse my natural Scorpio Rising inclination.click to expand
Posted by GreenteaTough task.. Haha
Sound like OP has a new virgo to help her get over the old one. Lol
Posted by WestsidekodakNo cheese? Oh . OkayPosted by notafollowerI totally feel this when I order a in and out double double with grilled onions. Them feels overwhelm the senses you know?
How do you describe the feeling you get when you hold someones gaze for so long that you almost feel like you know everything that persons heart & mind is bearing that moment...
I feel like despite all the bs thats happened between me & the Virgo guy, we cant deny the connection we feel when were standing infront of each other , which is hard, because we both feel as if its the other ones fault & we are both hoping we can either forget that weve met or for the other person to take a step & discover why we have been feeling that way for so long and why is it so hard to fight it...
Anybody been in a situation like this before?
What were you mostly afraid of ?click to expand
Posted by magnetorebornYou are joking . Thats exactly like his , except he has a Scorpio moon - so when are you free? LolPosted by notafollowerLeo Moon/Venus and Libra Mars/Mercury/JupiterPosted by magnetorebornPosted by notafollowerOh hehe 😛 I did some investigative work by um...looking through your old posts and doing Control F "Sun" or Control F "Moon"Posted by magnetorebornWhat do you mean? & how did you know? Lol
Oh wow, I just realized the OP is a Cancer Sun and Cancer Moon.
Lmao!
Just my luck...
Please excuse my natural Scorpio Rising inclination.
Haha . What are your other placements?
You might be able to help me figure this lad out. 🙂click to expand

Posted by notafollowerDelusion.
How do you describe the feeling you get when you hold someones gaze for so long that you almost feel like you know everything that persons heart & mind is bearing that moment...
Posted by WestsidekodakI was gonna say.. All that onion lolPosted by WestsidekodakI LOLed when I wrote that, so I had to commit to it. hahaPosted by notafollowerCheese is standard missy. Like my love.Posted by WestsidekodakNo cheese? Oh . OkayPosted by notafollowerI totally feel this when I order a in and out double double with grilled onions. Them feels overwhelm the senses you know?
How do you describe the feeling you get when you hold someones gaze for so long that you almost feel like you know everything that persons heart & mind is bearing that moment...
I feel like despite all the bs thats happened between me & the Virgo guy, we cant deny the connection we feel when were standing infront of each other , which is hard, because we both feel as if its the other ones fault & we are both hoping we can either forget that weve met or for the other person to take a step & discover why we have been feeling that way for so long and why is it so hard to fight it...
Anybody been in a situation like this before?
What were you mostly afraid of ?click to expand
Posted by magnetorebornExactly Sep 19th '93 - & i tried messaging you but It wont allow mePosted by notafollowerOh wow, his birthday must be between September 13-19 then and he must be born in 1993.Posted by magnetorebornYou are joking . Thats exactly like his , except he has a Scorpio moon - so when are you free? LolPosted by notafollowerLeo Moon/Venus and Libra Mars/Mercury/JupiterPosted by magnetorebornPosted by notafollowerOh hehe 😛 I did some investigative work by um...looking through your old posts and doing Control F "Sun" or Control F "Moon"Posted by magnetorebornWhat do you mean? & how did you know? Lol
Oh wow, I just realized the OP is a Cancer Sun and Cancer Moon.
Lmao!
Just my luck...
Please excuse my natural Scorpio Rising inclination.
Haha . What are your other placements?
You might be able to help me figure this lad out. 🙂
And I'm free whenever if you need someone to talk to in order to understand Virgos 🙂 - except for New Years that isclick to expand

Posted by DamnataYup, wishful thinkingPosted by notafollowerDelusion.
How do you describe the feeling you get when you hold someones gaze for so long that you almost feel like you know everything that persons heart & mind is bearing that moment...click to expand
Posted by starwarsI get that a lot for some reason & yes I amPosted by notafollowerare you though? ive always thought you were an aquarius!Posted by magnetorebornWhat do you mean? & how did you know? Lol
Oh wow, I just realized the OP is a Cancer Sun and Cancer Moon.
Lmao!
Just my luck...click to expand
Posted by starwarsThats ok lolPosted by notafollowershit im sorry, I've mistaken you with flowingwater! shes an aquarius! -I guess lol-Posted by starwarsI get that a lot for some reason & yes I amPosted by notafollowerare you though? ive always thought you were an aquarius!Posted by magnetorebornWhat do you mean? & how did you know? Lol
Oh wow, I just realized the OP is a Cancer Sun and Cancer Moon.
Lmao!
Just my luck...click to expand
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I feel like despite all the bs thats happened between me & the Virgo guy, we cant deny the connection we feel when were standing infront of each other , which is hard, because we both feel as if its the other ones fault & we are both hoping we can either forget that weve met or for the other person to take a step & discover why we have been feeling that way for so long and why is it so hard to fight it...
Anybody been in a situation like this before?
What were you mostly afraid of ?