virgo male apology

so my male virgo male colleague, who i used to work closely with, came to me and apologized face to face this week.

about 6 months ago we had a falling out, where i just decided to cut ties with him because it became multiple times where he has broken my trust, and now it was just too much.

he had written me an email some months back but i didn't respond because a) i had nothing to say but not nice things at the time and b) i felt his email was in genuine and done more as a courtesy.

what i am wondering is if i should take his, now, apology as a genuine thing. like i said, I've taken his apology before and i feel like he keeps betraying me. something about the way he does things makes me feel bad and then i end up back at square one. usually i am good at figuring people out, but i honestly never know of what his intentions are.

i guess I'm here to get some insight. i feel he has been 'shady' in the past, but again i don't know if he does it intentionally. i don't know if he's just a lost virgo soul lol. (let me insert here that he has a cap moon, for what its worth)

when a virgo male apologies like this, should i take it genuinely? at this point its been so long, that like i told him it would take a lot to go back and for him to regain my trust. i just would hate to do it and be fooled again.

What is your gut telling you? Do you think he deserve your trust again or not?

If you think he can't be trusted because he broke your trust many times then completely cut him. No more heartache and less drama.

Posted by kalin
I think they are genuine at the moment when they apologize, but there's no guarantee things will be any different. They fall back to their original self typically within several weeks.

basically what i experienced with him. fool me once, fool me again, and then maybe again lol.

his apology causes more pity from my end. do virgos like to play the victim card? forgot to add that.

Posted by Nathan912
What is your gut telling you? Do you think he deserve your trust again or not?

If you think he can't be trusted because he broke your trust many times then completely cut him. No more heartache and less drama.

yeah, my gut says its not worth it. I'm pretty much done. I'm just curious as to these actions. and after so long? why now? its so strange, i feel like there is always a motive.

Posted by aNEWday

Posted by Nathan912
What is your gut telling you? Do you think he deserve your trust again or not?

If you think he can't be trusted because he broke your trust many times then completely cut him. No more heartache and less drama.

yeah, my gut says its not worth it. I'm pretty much done. I'm just curious as to these actions. and after so long? why now? its so strange, i feel like there is always a motive.

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Then Case Closed! There's no need to be curios on his action.

the case isn't closed .... lol at Nathan for saying that.

If the case were closed, then the OP's actions would match her words.

Her actions are here desperately looking for validation so she can give him another chance. If that wasn't the case, then this thread wouldn't even exist, because there would be no case in the first place.

lol

Hahaha Well, I know that I just didn't bother too much to pinpoint things out last night lol.

That's why when I asked her a quick question the other day about what's her gut telling her? then she replied he's not worth it then i was like alright fck it lol. . But It's obvious what this girl true intention already.

Girl bye I'm trying to get other advice. At the end of the day don't we all go with our guy anyway? I'm not a Virgo so I'm tying to get advice from them.

Gut*

I will let you and this P-angel continue the convesation. She's the one who said the case isn't close hahaha

I already ask you a straightforward question and you said he's worth your forgiveness. So I was like alright fine case closed lol

not* worth actually. but thanks for your input anyway.

Posted by aNEWday
not* worth actually. but thanks for your input anyway.

Oppps! my bad. But yeah that's what I'm trying to say to you "he's not worth your forgiveness"