What would you do?

I have been thinking about my old best friend, well one of them. I cut ties with her because of her lying and alcoholism. I just want a yes or no from people not anything else. I feel bad that I cut ties for many reasons. I was her favorite friend. I a
  • Capmercury87
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    28 years old female
    I have been thinking about my old best friend, well one of them. I cut ties with her because of her lying and alcoholism. I just want a yes or no from people not anything else.
    I feel bad that I cut ties for many reasons.
    I was her favorite friend.
    I always backed her up on guys when they would use her, id send her screen shots and make sure she knew when her ex would hit on me, I would show her messages etc and make sure she knew they weren't safe.
    I'm the only friend of hers beside my other friend 2, that hasn't lied to her.
    I've talked her out of depression/lifeless almost suicidal days.
    She has a Pisces venus so she can be very emotional and has alot of anxiety.
    How ever she gets drunk alot (I've had to physically take her child from her in fear of her kids life, she told me she doesn't eat because she doesn't feel like she deserves to live or have food) bunch of stuff that to me screams I need help.
    And even though she has been to a counselor and yada yada yada I feel the best change she can get is through influence of friends since she is super social and hates being alone.
    How ever she knows I don't have a low self esteem, that I kinda really don't have any self problems and she tries to bring imaginary problems up, so to do this she would flirt with my bfs in front of me, talk about how good of a kisser my ex was after I told her I needed time to get over him (long time ago) she did this to another mutual friend, but we never got jealous, it just plain old hurts that our feelings weren't being taken into consideration.
    And all those things make me angry that she feels she can do, I hate it.
    How ever out of all of us I'm the only one that knows how to make her think and stimulate positive change. I feel like everyone else slaps her with the "that's bad you shouldn't do it" and expects change but she's a work of destructive art in itself and that takes time, I mean TIME.
    so if you were me would you start talking to her after you found out her and her fiance (who she has a child with) split.
    I feel she needs real support so I asked a mutual friend to check on her so I can stay out of it because I'm skeptical.
    How ever I know it wouldn't be what I would want it to be unless its ME.
    I'm aqua sun, Pisces moon, sag mars, cap venus, cap mercury
    She is Aries sun, Virgo moon, aqua mars, Pisces venus and Taurus mercury
    Yes or no?
  • Senorita_LL
    I love to smile. I'm a happy little treetrunker
    female
    If I were you, NO.
  • What is question?
    Take her back, ne?
    Answer is a big no
  • seraph
    Mercurian and Venusian First Decan Leo. Third Decan Aquarius Rising.
    40 years old male from Canada
    What is your question?
  • Capmercury87
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    28 years old female
    I just ran into a friend of ours, she is a Sagittarius and no longer speaks to this aries in question.
    Turns out she kept doing the same thing to sag and now sag was telling me she doesn't miss her, that its just a bunch of bill butter.
    The question was to speak to her or not..
    I'm gonna not speak to her.
    If she recently just ran into sag girl just to tell sag how much sags bf has a crush on her and how he has had a crush on her for years that screams I have a low self esteem and I'm gonna tare you down to feel better. Especially since I know him and he's not like that.
    I'm good.
    Especially knowing she did this to sag friend, who I have a great deal of respect for.
    She has a cap venus like me (sag girl)
  • Very interesting I am both an Aries and my Venus is in Pisces... I have an interesting situation with same signs I believe to a point.

    Piscesmoon
  • Capmercury87
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    28 years old female
    Posted by sakuraflowers
    Posted by Capmercury87
    I just ran into a friend of ours, she is a Sagittarius and no longer speaks to this aries in question.
    Turns out she kept doing the same thing to sag and now sag was telling me she doesn't miss her, that its just a bunch of bill butter.
    The question was to speak to her or not..
    I'm gonna not speak to her.
    If she recently just ran into sag girl just to tell sag how much sags bf has a crush on her and how he has had a crush on her for years that screams I have a low self esteem and I'm gonna tare you down to feel better. Especially since I know him and he's not like that.
    I'm good.
    Especially knowing she did this to sag friend, who I have a great deal of respect for.
    She has a cap venus like me (sag girl)


    How old is this Aries?
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    Same as me 27

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