why do people come back when you show them your inner power?

this is not gonna be strict astrological thread.

i just want to ask about your observations in life. and how would you recommend to treat people as i will describe.

so i study sth kind of difficult. i study architecture( now finishing my master thesis) at university of technology. on my 1st degree i studied architecture and civil engineering.

i chose that because i liked it.i knew i'd sacrifice sth from my young life.

but those studies made me tough. i travelled a lot for international exchanges. i travelled and worked in arch offices as well as volunteering everywhere i could.

my problem is that during my studies i was a nice person. tough but nice, assertive but nice. at university i was considered as a very good student. i was taking part in expositions and so one, competitions. international professors were asking me of having internship at their offices.

the problem is that i was not prepared to go outside the university walls, to be prepared for real life.

when i was meeting friends from other studies, degrees they were treating me like a little sister, like a baby, especially girls. i am attractive girl so boys were very honest and nice towards me but girls were always doing some comments to me as if i was weaker or NOT EXPERIENCED IN LIFE enough.

so this was basically the problem for my 2 last years. i had problems on my university as well and started complaining to some people outside the university. they were not giving me a helpful hand but were feeding themselves my failure. and i was giving them my energy and strength.



but i started not to notice that. i started to work on my own character and became more assertive and powerful. and i cut those people from my life.

now when i am finishing studies i feel so much powerful even thought i am kind person. i can defend myself and be assertive to people that are not nice and passive and mental aggresive to me.

but what i wanted to ask is why people take you for granted and treat you like a baby when you are normal and nice. when you open your heart and see them as your friends not enemies?

but when you get rid of them, when you ignore them, when you show them your power they crawl back to you as if nothing happened.

why my studies made me tough and i feel better now but they didnt understand that i was working hard on my studies ? they were telling me i should get a job asap because i m not mature enough because i was only studying.

and then when some time passed they were telling me i overanalysed and they were only giving me advices?



why are people so mixed and change their mind when you show them your inner power?

thank you 🙂

Because too many people are insecure on the inside, and when they see someone who's even more akward than themselves, they tend to "show off" a more extravagant/superior version of themselves. Because it makes them feel good about themselves, showing they're superior to you. But when you turn the tables and show that you're the real deal, they have to leech that confidence off you.

I had an almost identical talk with my boy about this a very long time ago when we were still just friends. He said he loves what we have going on, in the sense that I always treated him like an equal and showed him proper respect. Because I didn't put him down in front of other people, even as a joke. Like too many guys like to pick on a specific person they call a friend, put him down and make fun of him and play mean jokes on him. If someone is a true friend, he wouldn't treat his buddy like that.

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Because too many people are insecure on the inside, and when they see someone who's even more akward than themselves, they tend to "show off" a more extravagant/superior version of themselves. Because it makes them feel good about themselves, showing they're superior to you. But when you turn the tables and show that you're the real deal, they have to leech that confidence off you.

I had an almost identical talk with my boy about this a very long time ago when we were still just friends. He said he loves what we have going on, in the sense that I always treated him like an equal and showed him proper respect. Because I didn't put him down in front of other people, even as a joke. Like too many guys like to pick on a specific person they call a friend, put him down and make fun of him and play mean jokes on him. If someone is a true friend, he wouldn't treat his buddy like that.

ive never thought my friends or people i would consider as friends would do sth.

they were 'professionals' a way before i met them. when i was 'only' studying and was pure and clear they didnt notice me. i was also awkward or weird in my own way. people say i am very funny and cute andsometimes it makes them weird. but its not a way that i am weak!!!

people put masks on themselves because they want to be someone they are not.... its so bad.

i always treat people equally i am very tolerant its i think because my venus and mars in aqua..

some of my friends were very picky and strict of me and my friends. like i was not a part of 'some community'. they would say hi only to me not to others surrounding me. it was very rude.

my friends are my friends. and they are needed to be treated the same way as me.

that were people thinking better of themselves because of complexes. usually people from outside the city. from villages. who never travelled and sticked to my city and thought of my city as of the kingdom.

i was livng in spain, france, england i am just 27. never people treated me as they would test me.

never even in paris.

its because of my inner confidence and the way i percive the world.

Being a professional whatever doesn't automatically fix their inferiority complexes. Many of them pursued that employment path because they thought it would make them feel better about themselves, as if power and respect are automatically granted.

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Being a professional whatever doesn't automatically fix their inferiority complexes. Many of them pursued that employment path because they thought it would make them feel better about themselves, as if power and respect are automatically granted.

i do not know why you write everything as i think 😛

everything is true.

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Being a professional whatever doesn't automatically fix their inferiority complexes. Many of them pursued that employment path because they thought it would make them feel better about themselves, as if power and respect are automatically granted.

i do not know why you write everything as i think 😛

everything is true.

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Maybe because you're an Aries sun and I'm Aries-dominant. I like to simplify things and cut to the chase. Long debates bore me because I already know the destination lol.

Or maybe you just erm........uh.....hmm hmmmm..........like me



and you think agreeing with me will help you score points lol. Heh my boyfriend is a current DXPer and he's mildly possessive despite his Cap moon.

lol no, i would tell you if i didnt agree with you.

or i would debate moreonmy point of view