libralotus
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Why do suck at making friends?
i thought sucking makes fwb
keep trying.
Posted by Arielle83Yes, this.
Maybe you're too hot!
Sizzle!
Posted by bricklemarkThat's a possibility. Women will hate you and men might fear you. Does this sound right to you?Posted by Arielle83Yes, this.
Maybe you're too hot!
Sizzle!click to expand
Posted by SeasonOf course! It's intimidating! If you get rejected it will hurt more than anything you've ever known, and you might learn stuff about yourself that you really don't wanna know! Lol and women are jealous af.Posted by bricklemarkThat's a possibility. Women will hate you and men might fear you. Does this sound right to you?Posted by Arielle83Yes, this.
Maybe you're too hot!
Sizzle!
click to expand
Posted by Seasonwell I saw she said her personal planets are in 8th house.Posted by bricklemarkThat's a possibility. Women will hate you and men might fear you. Does this sound right to you?Posted by Arielle83Yes, this.
Maybe you're too hot!
Sizzle!
click to expand
and libra sun 8th house Monica Bellucci is hotter than hades even at her middle age years.
even hotter than many 20 year olds.
Sun, moon, mercury in 8th...where is your Pluto?
Posted by nyxxeePluto is in my midheaven and 11th house.. Sagittarius
Sun, moon, mercury in 8th...where is your Pluto?
Posted by blackphaseI have a few male friends and a lesbian friend. I just can't befriend a female for the life of me. I am vain to a certain extent. I don't think I'm better than anyone else. I just care about what I look like because presentation is everything to me. I don't think my "attractiveness" should be a reason even if it is. It actually sucks because I get lonely sometimes and I don't have a whole lot of trustworthy friends to confide in.Posted by SeasonIf you are speaking in regard to befriending women, I think this is part of the culprit. I can't speak as to how you act in real life (I've never seen any self depreciating humor from you) from what I have seen here you seem a bit more on the vain side (sorry, please don't take offense, it's not uncommon for Leebs and you're hot so why wouldn't you be) But many women do not want to befriend an attractive woman who flaunts it.. it's just the way it is. 😢Posted by bricklemarkThat's a possibility. Women will hate you and men might fear you. Does this sound right to you?Posted by Arielle83Yes, this.
Maybe you're too hot!
Sizzle!
click to expand
Not to mention my family is practically nonexistent so I don't have them for support either.
Posted by nyxxeePluto is in my midheaven and the eleventh house. It's in sagittarius if that matters.
Sun, moon, mercury in 8th...where is your Pluto?
Posted by tw34k3rYes, this is true. I had a low white blood cell count that wasn't alarming but I was referred to a specialist for example.
Hard aspects between Moon and Jupiter tend to manifest as physical illnesses.
What about your health? Do you pay mind to it and take taking care of yourself seriously or do you ignore problems and hope they go away?
I've been more active and am working on my nutrition.
My moods by far are very up and down. I actually was really depressive and had periods of mania. For moon and jupiter it says you have a lot of enthusiasm which can be followed by restlessness. This is why I relate so much to it because I was recently diagnosed bipolar.
What about your hobbies? Like I have different friends for different things. Like my cycling friends, when I did my first marathon, I met a great friend thru my running group, still friends 10 years later. I have my networking, happy hour friends. Which I've met some great gals networking and from there we've become good friends. I don't know if that makes sense but it's hard to make friends once you're out of college, so I've found groups to do different things with and then from there some friends have grown out of it.
I honestly thought maybe you had Pluto in the 12th or 1st because I was assuming it was people being put off by the vibe a Scorpio Asc/Pluto contact to ASC/Hades Moon gives off. Somewhat surprised it's in the 11th....but there's the problem. With it in the 11th, you are drawing on your 8th house to interact with them (because that's where Pluto really wants to be and it doesn't forget). Those 2 houses -where Pluto is and where it would rather be- are now linked together. Just from the start you could say "Friends" and "Sex" are related (2 most common keywords of 11th & 8th). Because you have Sag there, I'm guessing you make more friends with males around your age or older (Jupiter says hi). Just working like that with keywords you can make all kinds of statements about the link and get some insights into what could be happening.
8th House Sun is very similar to Scorpio Sun. Same with the Moon. Pretty sure this qualifies as Hades Moon but if you have a Pluto/Moon aspect you should really look at the info on it. Both of these planets make you want to really KNOW people. You should be really good at figuring out motives and what makes people tick. You see men and women and you can watch them for a bit then you can inform them of all their insecurities and you will be right. It makes perfect sense to you too...because you are willing to expose your own insecurities and deal with them you learn to spot them in others. The downside is you kind of expect them to be okay with you sort of forcing their hand on dealing with them. And even if you don't SAY it, they will FEEL it. It's an intense vibe...and for some people a little too intense and can feel like you're exposing all their sensitive spots for judgment. So...the reaction your getting (if this is the case) is protective on their part.
This is all just my 2 cents having an 8th house like yours (with Venus included) and a lot of Scorpio influence. My chart is overall different but I have this issue too so it's got to be something with Pluto and Scorpio. That's why I asked what I did. I've been told I come across as intimidating, too intense, and bitchy. Couldn't be further from the truth. I'm just an introvert who doesn't talk much.
Please correct me if I'm wrong on anything here. I'm still learning.
8th House Sun is very similar to Scorpio Sun. Same with the Moon. Pretty sure this qualifies as Hades Moon but if you have a Pluto/Moon aspect you should really look at the info on it. Both of these planets make you want to really KNOW people. You should be really good at figuring out motives and what makes people tick. You see men and women and you can watch them for a bit then you can inform them of all their insecurities and you will be right. It makes perfect sense to you too...because you are willing to expose your own insecurities and deal with them you learn to spot them in others. The downside is you kind of expect them to be okay with you sort of forcing their hand on dealing with them. And even if you don't SAY it, they will FEEL it. It's an intense vibe...and for some people a little too intense and can feel like you're exposing all their sensitive spots for judgment. So...the reaction your getting (if this is the case) is protective on their part.
This is all just my 2 cents having an 8th house like yours (with Venus included) and a lot of Scorpio influence. My chart is overall different but I have this issue too so it's got to be something with Pluto and Scorpio. That's why I asked what I did. I've been told I come across as intimidating, too intense, and bitchy. Couldn't be further from the truth. I'm just an introvert who doesn't talk much.
Please correct me if I'm wrong on anything here. I'm still learning.
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