why was this women so jealous?

hello,

this is the thing that has been in my mind for ages.

i have been a normal , maybe not a very good girl but normal girl. since the age of 25 i changed to be more serious woman.

and then i met new friends who were very dedicated to work but on the other hand they were very open and party type of people.

in that circle of friends there has been my old high school friend who introduced me there.



[i am aries she is taurus]

because she knew that her male friends liked me she didnt invite me to many meetings and parties.

i was a bit shy, normal, fresh girl in her environment. i didnt drink as her, i didnt smoke as her.

she was considered as a big party girl and very curious about others lifes.

in her circle of friends i met my ex. we have been dating very short time but she was always interrupting. she could also didnt invite me somwehere but invite him knowing we were dating...

but claming she was my best friend and want all goods to me she was sticking her nose in my life.

of course she was taking attention from men that were interested in me. i didnt know that because i didnt care. i thought - ok she is my friend she knows me, its okey.

she always been saying i am busy at work i couldnt go to the party. i realised that some months after. when people started asking me why i didnt come or appear on party.

after one or 2 years some men from the company started to be interested in me.

started to invite me to common parties where she was as well.

i saw on fb private events that he invited me. i saw her posts always been popular like she would not tell me about the party but take everything to herself. not telling me about party even though claiming i was one of her best friends.

it was so fake. but the [party] case is not the only one and its not important here.

i is about everything- the attention of 'important people' that she must be the first in everything that she does anything to be the best in work or in a circle of friends. and when she gains attention or 'fake respect' she calms down and is nice to people because she 'did work for herself' and now she can be nice to people and controls the situation.





what do you think about people like that?

how to avoid people like that?

should i wear a mask everyday of being so happy and fake? she knew my insecurities, she knew everything that was in my life. not because i was posting on fb- but i was telling her as a good friend...

how to be stronger now?

i am stronger now but this person made a big hole in my 2 year- period of my life. and i started questioning people and relation that i had. i started to be very suspicious and i started not to trust people. when someone was nice to me i thought he would want to destroy me or take advantage of me.

its a nonsense because i can not think about people like that. not everyone is like that...