would you forgive and forget ? ( to fire signs)

Hello,

i have been active recently here on the forum. It is because i have made achange in my mindset and kind of i am coming back to the old environment with a new perspective, new confidence and new mindset.

I look better, i am not naive, i learnt my lesson that even friends can betray you. But i am coming back among almost the same people. The same people that hurt me in the past.

I know i may have been too sensitive, toochildish - not prepared for an adult life. but even though those people treated me like someonethey must have taken care of, mothered me like i would be a teenager.

I do not know why i let it.

So i started to realize that ifi want to change something in my life i need to leave the company , live my own life, beconfident and work hardon my character and the way i persue the world. Because i may be very emotional and deep ( like my Gemini Mum)and it makes me feel sad and depressed because i analyse everything.

So the person that hurt me and didnt want to be associated with me was my Virgo ex. Because i was not popular in the company - that was pretty awful because he wasobserving me all of those 2 years and i felt like he tested me. But now its gone i have moved on. I dont want to be associated with him because i re-gained my power and i feel strong now.

Another person that was a drama queen attentive woman in a company - was a Taurus girl- she claimed to be a best friend of a Virgo ex. She was even jealous of him having her own boyfriend.. Which was toxic and unnapreciated. She 'scared me' like an animal before him. c0ck block me before him... She was /is so possesive and jealous.

She had a depressive and suicidal attempts before and she was taking my energy and power. So what i want to say is that she was also my high school friend who knew a lot of my secrets that later she told among company. I felt devastated and betrayed even she was not a close friend.

She must have been a queen, an attentive person that everyone liked and recognised. Finally my ex broke up with me, they are stll friends with Taurus woman. even though she has a boyfriend and he is still single having casual chicks.

So after those 2 years when i was working on myself andi was working onmy careerto be powerful i regained my power and my strength. I worked on very good projects , became more recognisable and better payed. I also became more confident and more open minded- i moved to the other country for 7 month where iwas studying and working in my profession.

So when i started to do it and when i stopped posting anything on facebook and other social media, when i cut the contact with Virgo and Taurus - they are back.

I mean not officialy back but isaw Virgo ex last week during the weekend, started spying me the day after on social media and following me again.

Taurus girl started liking my old pictures and started 'attending' the same events on facebook where i click - attend 100% .

So what is going on?

She made me feel very bad last years, she took my power, i feed her with my strenght, because she was so depressedshe sucked my happiness and became the queen in the company. I felt like trash , when i cut the contact she was crying all the time at the party. Whenever i was in the company stealing her attention she must 'cut me ' in a conversation being stressed or idk. Whenever i wanted to be nice to people, common friends she must have done sth to make me feel bad or tell people about my past failures at school or soone that i was making a joke and took as a joke then. That was bad.

I didnt care, i didnt apologise just moved away. It is a stranger to me now.

Would you forgive her and forget?

I became more egoistical, stubborn and selfish during last 2 yeras, i am my priority and noone gets my power again.

She was a drama quenn everyone was looking at her and she got into new relationship and after two years she is stable and calm and probably wants to be friends again.

Would you forgive that person?



This is our synastry. Thank you

im not gonna let her in again. but i wonder if i should say 'hi' in the company and say sth like- how are you, thanks and you? in a diplomatic way

ijust dont want her to be back and mess around

yea she added herdelf tothe party where i wil be attending next week. its a friends bday. id why is she coming there even though she is not his friend. but its ok i just dont care.

i just wonder if she will play nice and 'poke' my aem to have my attention.

hopefully not.

sometimes i just cant talkabout myself in hercompany because before she was just loading herself like feeding with people's sectrets andso one.

she is always present in this company. shecant lose it. shen she loses she will cut herself or make a drama.

i let her cut herself or make a drama because i dont care.

3 years ago my ex was dating half polish half italian girl. she was very creative, keen on slpeaking few languages on advanced level, very open, very nice. immidiately taurus girl became her best friend when she was dating virgo.

sucked her happines and creativity, played poor and mothered everyone even virgo guy.

virgo broke up with that girl.

taurus remained in a company and every eye were on here because virgo ex tought her italian language, tought her many other things.

so shekicked off the rival ( virgo ex). and remained in the center.

the same with me.

but i am back.

taurus explaines herself as one who suffered but stayed strong during her life- she is 28. she had mental problems depressive soul. asking everyone to help.

and young men, especialy virgos like to serve so she uses that. 😉

but i am not gonna stay in the shadow.

inside she is very sad and fragile. when i cut the contact and didnt recognise her in company she cried on a party.

but good for her. first bitter lesson in life. i was her best friend from high school.

i am not gonna let her moody behaviour ruin my relationships.

i ll let her be.

hopefully she will not disturb my presence and my may.

The fact that you still

have connections to

these people says it.

Why is she still on FB

in your circles and how

do you know their steps?

Why keep trying with

anyone who hurt you

so badly before then?

Punishment glutton.

Is quite an issue with

many people here, ne.

They don't know how

to cut ties to nonsense.

Posted by TachibanaSan
The fact that you still

have connections to

these people says it.

Why is she still on FB

in your circles and how

do you know their steps?

the problem is how does sheknow my steps 😉).

im not friends on fb anymore with her.

she is popular. whenever she asks someone of her 'guards'-'security' ( our common male friends) they NEED to answer or do what she wants.

even though they are in relationships or not.



the weirdest thing is that only 1person of her guards is in relationship. she has some kind weird and toxic influence on those men because almost 80% of them are single.

i know she slept with 3of 5 from the company.

i dont know about MY VIRGO EX.

but she holds the 'key' idk how to say it. she presses the button.

in that environment. because she is not creative person. she is IT person works in IT uses computer andFB as life. she told me this 3 years ago. she is so lonely at home she must stalk people.

for me fb is nly messanger and when someone tags me on pics. i even dont have profile picture.

BECAUSE I HAVE MY FAMILY AND I HAVE MY LIFE . AND EVEN WHEN I GET BORED I CAN ORGANISE MYSELF AND GET ENTARTAINED.

she cant she 'follows' not creates.

she is beta. not alpha.



so she is interested in other people's lifes.

shen some interesting girl comes by she immidiately surrounds herlike octopus. wants to get to now her and

so one. and they tells things she learnt by her in a male company and everyone gives her an attention.

im just asking about that because i was surprised she is attending MY FRIENDS' party.

my city is small and fromour environment everyone knows each other.

i know that guy from our projects that we have been doing to school 2 years ago- and still in contact.

she was introduced in the company by the virgo guy.

thank you for the answer.

i am not very mad at my ex Virgo because iknow that also he was /is still immature. So kind of after a very long talks with my other male friends i understood that maybe his personality and behaviour were pretty immature and he willbe on the same level as me in his 30s or sth like that.



But i was/ i am kind of unplesantly surprised about this Taurus woman. She is manipulative always surrounded by guards especially when she was single.

Before my relation with Virgo she told everyone from her company about my past issues with men, what they did to me, if they were violent and so one. Fr me it was awful and shedidnt understand saying that she told them because they were her best friends ( not true-she claims to be everyone's friends, changes companies very often).

So i felt that she wanted to make me very weak as a victim ( of life). Because i was not luck in love- maybe a bit from poor family and so one but cool person. and kind of i think she was jealous of me.