Untitled23
@Untitled23
8 Years
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Posted by thatlibralife
Some thoughts:
Describe his flirting with other girls...texting doesn't mean too much. You don't know who he's texting and why is smiling doing it suspicious?..it could be a friend saying something funny..
When he's in the gym could he be concentrating on his work out routine? Why not just walk up and talk to him?
What do you mean lost interest? What signs he's with someone else that you are seeing?
I'm not seeing where he's "clearly" cheating..
Honestly seems like some insecurities on your part...
Cheating and losing interest to me would mean he is not calling as much, not taking you out, less intimacy....especially less conversation would be a big sign for him as the Libras I know including myself tend to be quite chatty especially with those we like. But if you piss me off or I don't want to be with you I'm shutting down all communication and go missing...
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He says he loves me often and as if i should never even question his love for me. However he has been doing things that make me so confused i dont believe him when he says he loves me:
-he texts nonstop in front of me smiling to himself...im not dumb i know this look its clearly some other girl he is seeing
-he flirts with other girls but will act as if he didn't if i bring it up
-acts cold and distant when i see him in the gym [where we met] and then asks me why i dont talk to him when i see him as if its not obvious why i am distant
He seems like he lost interest hes definitely talkking to someoen else though ive asked and he tells me he doesn't go out with other females but all the signs are there.
In any event i do love him i want to be with him but i just dont know what to do if i back off and give him space and leave him be he acts as though he is upset by it. But when i try to give him attention and effort he doesnt seem to appreciate it but will still complain if i dont shower him with attention and affection...I cannot figure out what to do at this point. It seems as though i cannot win with him. My friends tell me to ignore the fact that he is clearly seeing other people if i want things to work out but it feels like a knife in the heart to seem him act this way. Its extremely hard for me to do that...
Any libras that could weigh in here? How can he say he loves me with such conviction but take me for granted? How can he act hurt when i give im space and act indifferent when i give him attention?