@Sagi2626
7 Years
Libra boyfriend needs attention from other girls
How to Address Attention from Other Girls in a Libra Relationship
To address your concerns, communicate openly with your Libra partner about how his interactions make you feel. Emphasize the importance of boundaries with female friends and discuss mutual respect. Understanding Libra's need for social connections can help find a compromise that reassures you while respecting his social nature.
it's not childish. it's just an old fashioned breadcrumbing.
stop being an active participant in it.
Time to stick to your boundaries
I have been dating this libra guy for 3 months, he is super caring, always makes time for me and introduces me to everybody like his girlfriend. but he has a lot of female friends, but they are not friends, just girls pining after him and he writes to them and likes their post on social media to keep them there for attention. I am so angry about this and we had an argument about it and he told me that he loves me and that he wanted to be with one of them he would, but he chose me. What should I do to make him understand that is not right ? It’s kind of childish.
How is he super caring if he’s doing this very thing that shows you he doesn’t care about your feelings? You bitches are delusional.
I left my Libra because of this very same thing.
I understood why he needed to have these 'friendships with women...over time it became apparent just how insecure a person he is. He masked that side of him very well though. In the end he took it too far and his actions was a blatant disrespect behind my back. Trust was gone and that was that.
He's not a bad person but I feel secretly he liked to test risky encounters with these friends...even more so when we were a bit rocky...playing fire with our boundaries. I just couldn't continue.
I have been dating this libra guy for 3 months, he is super caring, always makes time for me and introduces me to everybody like his girlfriend. but he has a lot of female friends, but they are not friends, just girls pining after him and he writes to them and likes their post on social media to keep them there for attention. I am so angry about this and we had an argument about it and he told me that he loves me and that he wanted to be with one of them he would, but he chose me. What should I do to make him understand that is not right ? It’s kind of childish.
It sounds like your a decent woman but just not enough to capture his full attention. It's ok just let him know you are open to others and watch him pine for you.
Your title says bf. In the op you say dating for 3 months. Clarify?
I have been dating this libra guy for 3 months, he is super caring, always makes time for me and introduces me to everybody like his girlfriend. but he has a lot of female friends, but they are not friends, just girls pining after him and he writes to them and likes their post on social media to keep them there for attention. I am so angry about this and we had an argument about it and he told me that he loves me and that he wanted to be with one of them he would, but he chose me. What should I do to make him understand that is not right ? It’s kind of childish.
Saggy female; JEALOUS!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Lol. Im a Libra woman...and have a lot of guy friends. But thats just what they are friends and just so you know libra flirts a lot it can get us into trouble but its not always intentional. Are there other red flags? Apart from him having friends lol
I will say this- and its so GD true. Most people do not understand Libra energy. Most people think us being friendly is flirting. We like attention, sure.... but we are very friendly people. All Libras I know have lots of friends of the opposite sex.
Dear Saggi,
Jupiter is in our sign. No one elses. This is your year to go after what you want.
Do you really want to waste this time with some guy who isnt making you happy?
Go be happy. Take control of your own life.
Take responsibility for your own happiness.
People can only pay their games with you as long as you give them a playground.
Self worth above everything.
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I have been dating this libra guy for 3 months, he is super caring, always makes time for me and introduces me to everybody like his girlfriend. but he has a lot of female friends, but they are not friends, just girls pining after him and he writes to them and likes their post on social media to keep them there for attention. I am so angry about this and we had an argument about it and he told me that he loves me and that he wanted to be with one of them he would, but he chose me. What should I do to make him understand that is not right ? It’s kind of childish.