Advice about a Cancer man

Taurus girl here. I met a Cancer man in November of last year. We started as friends, but over the course of a few weeks, he started to show an interest in me and there was a lot of flirtation. It was magnetic. I was ending a relationship (of only two months) at the time with an Aquarius. (Before that, I was with someone for 8 years. It ended in divorce).

After the first meeting, I started to see the Cancer man more and more, and we texted a lot. I smiled so much with him, my face hurt. The way he looked at me was so right, he was really listening to what I said. One night, he said to me, "I want to kiss you." We kissed. And I've never been kissed like that. Things were moving really fast for me though, but I liked him so much, I went with it.

One night, because it was so cold outside, I said you can come up to my door and say goodbye to me there. I didn't expect it, but we ended up going into my apartment and having super passionate sex. I wanted it in the moment, but, afterwards, it felt like a mistake. It just felt like it was too much too fast. I told him the next day what was in my heart and he acted unphased, said he understood and not to worry.

I thought I really messed everything up and we sort of had little communication, but still he would text me about once a month with a friendly tone. I couldn't tell if he just felt guilty and like he had to or if he really wanted to because he still felt something.

It's now 6 months later, and we decided to see each other again. I was so scared but I went to see him. And the chemistry is still there. He makes me feel so nervous and shy, I actually sweat. I feel so comfortable with him and like he just makes everything okay. I told him I was still thinking of what to do in my life and what I wanted, post-divorce I have been feeling so confused. He said he understood, his longest relationship was 2 years even though he's a few years older than me.

I mentioned maybe once I go home for a visit and come back, I'll be able to reassess and have a clear picture of what I really want to do. He asked if I had been seeing the Aquarius again. I said no. And then he said, "So, in 2 months, you'll know what you'll want to do?" Awww, it was so sweet. It made me feel so happy to know that maybe there is still a chance for us. We hugged goodbye and he said, "We'll keep talking, okay?" Since then he still texts me, giving a respectful distance and space. It's like he wants me to keep him in mind. Like I could ever forget him...

Cancer males, am I reading it right? Is he still considering a future with me in some way? Would you Cancer males come back after something like this happened? I can see myself with him when we are both oldies, sitting on the couch watching tv 🙂

Posted by sweetcrabby
I would say keep doing what you doing. It might blossom into something. In 2 months time you will know who you want. On the other hand let him have the last word. Let him come to you. If you really like him and have feelings for him continue with this and don't feel bad you had s** with him. Should be a win, win situation.

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