Am I readying my Cancer Man all Wrong?

I met my cancer about 4 months ago at a mutual friends party, and since then, I feel like I have found my twin, my soulmate. We are both busy with work but I see him a few times a week, and on the weekends. I have met his brother and his close friends (his parent live out of town), and he met my mother and brother. We have hosted parties together at his place etc, but when it comes to his feelings he never expresses, but allows me to. I am a scorpio so I hate being vulnerable as well, but I try to make it clear how I feel at times. When I asked about where we were going with "us", He says he rushed his last relationship and wants things to organically happen with us. He always refers to he and I and "us" or "we", but he is so in and out with texts etc. Its almost like he is in and out, and I have a hard time wondering if I did something, or if there is someone else. Can anyone who knows cancer men well help me out?

He's just feeling you out. Unwary crabs jump right into things; full steam ahead. Those who've been hurt do things a little more carefully. You won't get a whole lot out of this guy until he feels secure with you as this sign is all about taking low risks. Also, don't look too much into pronouns like "us", and "we".

You also spoke in terms of finding your twin or soulmate, and I wonder if you are pursuing too aggressively. If a crab feels this way, it can close them up, or even make them retreat. They like to move things along at their pace, I'm afraid.

Man, you are absolutely right. I have been known to pursue aggressively when I know what I like, and want. But his crab like ways give me a chance to slow down and enjoy getting to know him. And it also gives him the opportunity to fall for me as well. Thank you Crabra!!!