Please Help me with my cancer man I upset him now he's not talking

Hi,

Ok I need help!

Last Wednesday I was texting with my boyfriend and told him I wanted to see him before my hospital shift started. Jokingly I said "I'm coming to your house and don't tell me no". Honest it was in a joking way, I would never show up like that. I respect his space.

So he then texted me back saying "Tonight won't work and that my text had really really upset him". I immediately apologized and tried to explain that is not how I meant it to come off. He didn't text me back again the rest of the day.

The next day I texted him another apology and tried to explain. He texted me once and then again to say goodnight.

Now its Sunday and I haven't heard from him. I texted him a few times on Friday and once early Saturday morning, but I havent texted him since then, thinking he may need space.

My question is should I text him again? Do you think he's gone for good or just taking time. I truly love this man and it kills me to know I upset him. I can't imagine life without him.

Please any advice on what to do would be greatly appreciated.

Man got upset over woman coming over?

What a moron! What do you love him for?

Sounds like he had another woman over.

No, there wasn't another woman, he was at work. No I think he was really mad I told him not to tell me no. Like I didnt respect him.

He really has a crazy job during the summer and I think maybe I was adding to his stress.

Posted by Libra14
He really has a crazy job during the summer and I think maybe I was adding to his stress.

Don't kid yiurself girl.

Honestly he can be very touchy. He really is a good man. He tells me he cant read me sometimes. Like he can't tell when I'm joking. Lots of people have told me that.

Do you think I should text him or give him his space?

Weve been together a little over two months.

I really think I made him feel like I was invading his space or demanding something of him because we are always at each others houses.

Are you exclusive?

What?

Uh uh girl.

Believe me there is a more mature man out there waiting for you who is ready to love you right.

when you read threads on dxp about cancer men and realize how lucky you're bc you're done with crabs

Yes we are exclusive. I made sure of that. I think he can be hard to get along with sometimes. Very set in his ways. I know hes cut other people out.

Posted by Libra14
No, there wasn't another woman, he was at work. No I think he was really mad I told him not to tell me no. Like I didnt respect him.

Another man then..?

I have to admit its nice to know other people think his reaction was a little extreme. Do you all think I should try texting him and ask whats going on?

Are you the clingy type?

I never thought I was clingy. I guess its just hard to understand why he would shut me out. He introduced me to his daughter a week ago. I really thought things were going ok.

Does he have Virgo placements in his chart?

I embarrassed to say I have no idea. Im just starting to really get into astrology. How do I find out this information?

You will need his birthdate, time & place. These can be found on his birth certificate if he doesn't know. Once you have this info, there are several sites online that will produce his chart free of charge. After that, the sky's the limit as far as how much you want to pursue astrological knowledge!

Thank you for the information. I just hope he comes back around.

Are you able to figure out the charts with the birth date and place?

Thank you everyone. I really appreciate your help.

Dont do it! He is trouble! Sorry but this sounds too familiar.... brace yourself!

I find that many Cancer men don't really like being texted and find it intrusive. I wish I had known this from him instead of from his action.

They also don't like it when you disturb them while they are on their 'shell time'. Unforch, many of them don't communicate their need for such time so you are left wondering if something had happened to them, which lead you to panic, which lead them to get pissed off since they feel you're disturbing their peace, etc.

I think it's just a clash of the different type of personality. It's something you need to know in advance if you want to get along with these men.