Are they freaks? Please elaborate. Gifs/links welcome.
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Posted by CluelessCancer
wow, you sure are not wifey material, if that's how you're going to approach a cancer man, i mean ya they'll probably rub off one on you, if that's what you want.
Not trying to be wifey material but a few friends of mind were saying they're prudes. My brother is a Cancer and based off conversations from his girlfriend (which I thought was an overshare) he's DEFINITELY not a prude.
Posted by trashedblissPosted by CluelessCancer
wow, you sure are not wifey material, if that's how you're going to approach a cancer man, i mean ya they'll probably rub off one on you, if that's what you want.
Not trying to be wifey material but a few friends of mind were saying they're prudes. My brother is a Cancer and based off conversations from his girlfriend (which I thought was an overshare) he's DEFINITELY not a prude.click to expand
Yup. We're all prudes.
Posted by cancersunpiscesmoon
This is a perfectly fine question. Why would it not make someone "wifey material"? wtf....
I think it depends on if the cancer gives a crap about you. If they do, you will not be disappointed... Cancers are extremely attentive to their partners needs, and a lot of the times even going beyond that and giving them more than they ever thought was possible. I also think mars placements are very representative of how someone will act during sex. (I'm a Virgo mars = need to please and give explosive orgasms)
As a cancer guy it really turns me off if the girl is acting weird about sex. But I don't know I think that's more due to me acknowledging and undoing all the social conditioning that makes sex taboo and evil. OH and I love boobs. Big boobs. (Not to discriminate to all the lovely ladies with small breasts 🙂 )
Yep! Perfectly said about Cancers in general! We really do love sex (unless there's some psychological issues happening). We have a tendency to need/want love and sex at the same time....it's that emotional connection thing that we just love.
Posted by cancersunpiscesmoonPosted by MoonArtistPosted by cancersunpiscesmoon
This is a perfectly fine question. Why would it not make someone "wifey material"? wtf....
I think it depends on if the cancer gives a crap about you. If they do, you will not be disappointed... Cancers are extremely attentive to their partners needs, and a lot of the times even going beyond that and giving them more than they ever thought was possible. I also think mars placements are very representative of how someone will act during sex. (I'm a Virgo mars = need to please and give explosive orgasms)
As a cancer guy it really turns me off if the girl is acting weird about sex. But I don't know I think that's more due to me acknowledging and undoing all the social conditioning that makes sex taboo and evil. OH and I love boobs. Big boobs. (Not to discriminate to all the lovely ladies with small breasts 🙂 )
Yep! Perfectly said about Cancers in general! We really do love sex (unless there's some psychological issues happening). We have a tendency to need/want love and sex at the same time....it's that emotional connection thing that we just love.
Yeah that's what I was trying to say. It's the water sign thing. If we are really connected to a partner we will literally rock their worlds. Sex is love. I can separate the two, but really have learned that there is usually no need to. Sex + emotional connection is what it's all aboutclick to expand
I can separate them, too, but it's like comparing the best dessert you've ever had with a fun sized candy bar from halloween. Sure, the candybar will satisfy the sweet tooth but it won't compare to the besst dessert ever.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by cancersunpiscesmoon
This is a perfectly fine question. Why would it not make someone "wifey material"? wtf....
I think it depends on if the cancer gives a crap about you. If they do, you will not be disappointed... Cancers are extremely attentive to their partners needs, and a lot of the times even going beyond that and giving them more than they ever thought was possible. I also think mars placements are very representative of how someone will act during sex. (I'm a Virgo mars = need to please and give explosive orgasms)
As a cancer guy it really turns me off if the girl is acting weird about sex. But I don't know I think that's more due to me acknowledging and undoing all the social conditioning that makes sex taboo and evil. OH and I love boobs. Big boobs. (Not to discriminate to all the lovely ladies with small breasts 🙂 )
The question irked cause it' was so superficial.click to expand
Maybe it's superficial or maybe the OP was curious. We've all heard about the big traits that each sign is known for and if we don't know many or any people in a certain sign we're curious if it's true.
Posted by CluelessCancer
I wonder what Cancer on Cancer love making would be, probably like this:
Oh, I know what its like. But to quote Capt. John H Miller from "Saving Private Ryan": "No, that one I keep for myself."
Posted by CuteGem
is it a cancer thing to like strawberries? Every cancer I known this far is obsessed with strawberries.
I think its a general berry thing.
Posted by CluelessCancer
I wonder what Cancer on Cancer love making would be, probably like this:
Bathe together:
Drink some champagne:
Feed eachother strawberries:
Play some Marvin Gaye:
Posted by cancersunpiscesmoon
This is a perfectly fine question. Why would it not make someone "wifey material"? wtf....
I think it depends on if the cancer gives a crap about you. If they do, you will not be disappointed... Cancers are extremely attentive to their partners needs, and a lot of the times even going beyond that and giving them more than they ever thought was possible. I also think mars placements are very representative of how someone will act during sex. (I'm a Virgo mars = need to please and give explosive orgasms)
As a cancer guy it really turns me off if the girl is acting weird about sex. But I don't know I think that's more due to me acknowledging and undoing all the social conditioning that makes sex taboo and evil. OH and I love boobs. Big boobs. (Not to discriminate to all the lovely ladies with small breasts 🙂 )
I loved reading this & the first paragraph is really what sex should be about.
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by CluelessCancerPosted by cancersunpiscesmoon
This is a perfectly fine question. Why would it not make someone "wifey material"? wtf....
I think it depends on if the cancer gives a crap about you. If they do, you will not be disappointed... Cancers are extremely attentive to their partners needs, and a lot of the times even going beyond that and giving them more than they ever thought was possible. I also think mars placements are very representative of how someone will act during sex. (I'm a Virgo mars = need to please and give explosive orgasms)
As a cancer guy it really turns me off if the girl is acting weird about sex. But I don't know I think that's more due to me acknowledging and undoing all the social conditioning that makes sex taboo and evil. OH and I love boobs. Big boobs. (Not to discriminate to all the lovely ladies with small breasts 🙂 )
The question irked cause it' was so superficial.
Maybe it's superficial or maybe the OP was curious. We've all heard about the big traits that each sign is known for and if we don't know many or any people in a certain sign we're curious if it's true.click to expand
Thank you. I definitely didn't mean to offend it's just Cancer isn't known in the sexual dept as the Scorpio or Aries are.
Posted by CluelessCancer
I wonder what Cancer on Cancer love making would be, probably like this:
Bathe together:
Drink some champagne:
Feed eachother strawberries:
Play some Marvin Gaye:
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by MoonArtistPosted by CluelessCancer
I wonder what Cancer on Cancer love making would be, probably like this:
Bathe together:
Drink some champagne:
Feed eachother strawberries:
Play some Marvin Gaye:
That's the creme de la creme of loving!
Posted by trashedblissPosted by MoonArtistPosted by CluelessCancerPosted by cancersunpiscesmoon
This is a perfectly fine question. Why would it not make someone "wifey material"? wtf....
I think it depends on if the cancer gives a crap about you. If they do, you will not be disappointed... Cancers are extremely attentive to their partners needs, and a lot of the times even going beyond that and giving them more than they ever thought was possible. I also think mars placements are very representative of how someone will act during sex. (I'm a Virgo mars = need to please and give explosive orgasms)
As a cancer guy it really turns me off if the girl is acting weird about sex. But I don't know I think that's more due to me acknowledging and undoing all the social conditioning that makes sex taboo and evil. OH and I love boobs. Big boobs. (Not to discriminate to all the lovely ladies with small breasts 🙂 )
The question irked cause it' was so superficial.
Maybe it's superficial or maybe the OP was curious. We've all heard about the big traits that each sign is known for and if we don't know many or any people in a certain sign we're curious if it's true.
Thank you. I definitely didn't mean to offend it's just Cancer isn't known in the sexual dept as the Scorpio or Aries are.click to expand
We keep it under wraps a bit more. But if you ever meet a Cancer we pretty much ooze sexual aura.
Posted by CluelessCancer
I want a cancer man so badly, even for just like 3 months, i just want one-Please god. I'm going to pray on it.
lmao.
Are you being facetious or sincere? Lol ask Santa
Posted by CluelessCancer
TrashedBliss. John Mayer on Sex with Jessica Simpson (a Cancer). She was a Sex bomb. Bomb. Hiroshima.
lol. I don't know about generalizing zodiac signs, it's tough you know, it's all about practicing, and listening to your partner, and being open enough to want to try new things.
Why does John Mayer get such flack?? Is he really a bad guy? I know that's off topic lol
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by CluelessCancer
I wonder what Cancer on Cancer love making would be, probably like this:
Oh, I know what its like. But to quote Capt. John H Miller from "Saving Private Ryan": "No, that one I keep for myself."
Was it atleast good?click to expand
Of course not. We're all prudes. 😉
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by trashedblissPosted by CluelessCancer
TrashedBliss. John Mayer on Sex with Jessica Simpson (a Cancer). She was a Sex bomb. Bomb. Hiroshima.
lol. I don't know about generalizing zodiac signs, it's tough you know, it's all about practicing, and listening to your partner, and being open enough to want to try new things.
Why does John Mayer get such flack?? Is he really a bad guy? I know that's off topic lol
because he talks about his sexcapades. he comes off as douchey.click to expand
Ugh nothing worse than a man who can't hold water
Posted by CluelessCancer
I want a cancer man so badly, even for just like 3 months, i just want one-Please god. I'm going to pray on it.
lmao.
I'd give it a go, but I really think the same sign mix is too sibling like. I've seen it happen too many times with other signs of the same sign.
Posted by CluelessCancer
I agree, me and this cancer guy hung out for like four days, wow the pinchers were out, we were so mean to one another, but he's hot, i wish i slept with him, just sent him a FB msg. I'm not trying to marry a cancer, just want to sleep with one, he was definitely sensuous.
In regards to Cancers and relationships-I know three Cancer couples right now-they seem to find one another and marry. It's funny and cute. Depends on the cancer though. One thing i notice tho, they love talking about how much money they make. One guy tell him he needs to make atleast 150k to get with you, that's the kind of men you deal with, basically trying to tell me he makes that kind of money. The guy i was hanging out with, i bring in about 300k a year (LIES)...rolls motherfuking eyes-than why you so cheap Miser.
Anyways
My placements, my environment, my background, makes me a very nasty individual. I mean i'm very nice, but i'm an a44hole too. So Cancer males run. They can't handle this FIRE.
Too much of a generalization. I never talk money. Too many gold diggers out there.
Not cheap, either, but I want to make sure that whatever bling I'm dropping coin on doesn't turn green the next day, if you catch me.
Your fire don't scare me. 😛
Posted by trashedbliss
Are they freaks? Please elaborate. Gifs/links welcome.
To seriously answer your question?
If its someone (at least in my case) I'm really into and care for, sure some freak is on.
But its more indulging my partner.
Most of the Cancers I've known are similar.
But I think my preference is more on the sensual side--trying to make my partner still tingling the next day with something not quite forgettable. Its a turn on.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Opps sorry for hijacking your thread trashedbliss, i have a tendency to do that, i will not comment anymore, until you've had a smattering of posts from other Cancers.
Girl I don't care lol
I seriously get off on seeing how far I can send someone over the edge.
Posted by MoonArtist
I seriously get off on seeing how far I can send someone over the edge.
How about bringing them to that edge without quite taking them over so they're in that state for some time?
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by MoonArtist
I seriously get off on seeing how far I can send someone over the edge.
How about bringing them to that edge without quite taking them over so they're in that state for some time?click to expand
That too! There's sooooo many OPTIONS for love play and they're all wonderful.
Why wasn't it good? Sorry, not trying to be snoopy, but I'm curious where it all went wrong.
Posted by CuteGem
I wish one day I sleep with a cancer man that manages to satisfy me. I had 2 cancer guys and it was not good at all.
Maybe it was wrong that I am a gemini ... maybe if I was a scorpio I would had like it?
Maybe you have to turn off that mind and go with the flow, or, get inside their head.
I've been with some Geminis and never had a complaint.
Posted by CuteGem
cancer #1 He removed my clothes, did what he did without caring how much I was into it and then he left the bed and got dressed. No hugs. It was a ONS so he might wanted to keep a distance. We were both in the same class in kung fu. I refused to go out on a date with him but I wanted to just have sex with him.
cancer #2 It was a two year relationship. He was removing only the necessary clothes, satisfying himself and then he was gone. No foreplay. Nothing. Max intimacy I got during sex was that at the days he was in a good mood he was constantly kissing me. Final time I had sex with him we were keeping a distance.. as much as someone can keep a distance while having sex.
The first one was definitely just in it to get his rocks off and since it was a one night stand was a big enough douche to not care if you enjoyed it as much as he did. The second one sounds exactly like my ex (taurus) with the exception that he refused sex for the last 7 yrs. of a 15 yr marriage. I have no idea wth is up with that other than there's some serious fucked-upedness in them concerning sex, intimacy and love.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by CuteGem
cancer #1 He removed my clothes, did what he did without caring how much I was into it and then he left the bed and got dressed. No hugs. It was a ONS so he might wanted to keep a distance. We were both in the same class in kung fu. I refused to go out on a date with him but I wanted to just have sex with him.
cancer #2 It was a two year relationship. He was removing only the necessary clothes, satisfying himself and then he was gone. No foreplay. Nothing. Max intimacy I got during sex was that at the days he was in a good mood he was constantly kissing me. Final time I had sex with him we were keeping a distance.. as much as someone can keep a distance while having sex.
hahhahaha i'm sorry i'm laughing, but when you wrote the first post, i had an inclination what you would write, sorry dear, you came upon the lazy selfish cancer-i get that way sometimes. as soon as i'm done, im done-i'm not even curious about the other person's needs.
it's something to work on for sure.click to expand
Maybe it was a selfish Cancer. Yes, they do exist.
I've never been that way. Maybe its placements. *shrug*
Posted by cancersunpiscesmoonPosted by CuteGem
I wish one day I sleep with a cancer man that manages to satisfy me. I had 2 cancer guys and it was not good at all.
Maybe it was wrong that I am a gemini ... maybe if I was a scorpio I would had like it?
That's why "good sex" is so subjective. It's all about two people connecting and vibing. If one person isn't comfortable then it throws everything off. To me sex with other water signs is a completely immersive experience. Most of my exes have said I'm the best, but at the same time I've had a lot of uneventful/even bad experiences. it just dependsclick to expand
yep! There has to be mutual respect, enough comfort in each other to communicate well and no hang ups. But holy hell is it good when those are all in place and with the emotional connection!
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by MoonArtistPosted by CuteGem
cancer #1 He removed my clothes, did what he did without caring how much I was into it and then he left the bed and got dressed. No hugs. It was a ONS so he might wanted to keep a distance. We were both in the same class in kung fu. I refused to go out on a date with him but I wanted to just have sex with him.
cancer #2 It was a two year relationship. He was removing only the necessary clothes, satisfying himself and then he was gone. No foreplay. Nothing. Max intimacy I got during sex was that at the days he was in a good mood he was constantly kissing me. Final time I had sex with him we were keeping a distance.. as much as someone can keep a distance while having sex.
The first one was definitely just in it to get his rocks off and since it was a one night stand was a big enough douche to not care if you enjoyed it as much as he did. The second one sounds exactly like my ex (taurus) with the exception that he refused sex for the last 7 yrs. of a 15 yr marriage. I have no idea wth is up with that other than there's some serious fucked-upedness in them concerning sex, intimacy and love.
Refusing me sex is akin to me traveling to Italy and finding it there with a hot italian lover boy who paints during the day and dances at clubs at night.
click to expand
Yep! Add verbally and emotionally abusive and a controlling bastard to the mix and....well, I ended it.
Posted by CuteGemPosted by MoonArtistPosted by CuteGem
cancer #1 He removed my clothes, did what he did without caring how much I was into it and then he left the bed and got dressed. No hugs. It was a ONS so he might wanted to keep a distance. We were both in the same class in kung fu. I refused to go out on a date with him but I wanted to just have sex with him.
cancer #2 It was a two year relationship. He was removing only the necessary clothes, satisfying himself and then he was gone. No foreplay. Nothing. Max intimacy I got during sex was that at the days he was in a good mood he was constantly kissing me. Final time I had sex with him we were keeping a distance.. as much as someone can keep a distance while having sex.
The first one was definitely just in it to get his rocks off and since it was a one night stand was a big enough douche to not care if you enjoyed it as much as he did. The second one sounds exactly like my ex (taurus) with the exception that he refused sex for the last 7 yrs. of a 15 yr marriage. I have no idea wth is up with that other than there's some serious fucked-upedness in them concerning sex, intimacy and love.
Wow that's horrible being in a sexless marriage. I was in a sexless relationship for a year and it was horrible. I didn't like him because of that.click to expand
Oh, I flat out hated him for it. I'm slowly getting to the point where its just a life lesson and experience, though. Gotta pity someone who is so messed up that they can't enjoy life.
Posted by CuteGem
so how was she freaking the shit with that mind-body-spirit connection if she was insecure, immature and was playing games?
With all respect this makes me think that you were more into her than her into you.
When scorpios like you play games to make you get addicted to them and make you need them. It is their seduction game. You have to fall under their spell to be with them.
I was good at faking that I fell for the spell and got a 5 year relationship with a scorpio man...
ohhhhhh, that can't have ended well! They don't like being lied to (well, no one does, but water signs take it personally). 😢
Posted by CuteGemPosted by CluelessCancerPosted by CluelessCancerPosted by CuteGem
so CC what do you do if you get into bed with a cancer and behaves like that? Is this how things will always BE ? .. In case I find a new cancer guy..
Did you complain? Virgo in Mars. I'm critical as hell.
Had to be after sleeping with a Capricorn for two years and never getting off. I mean he would go for hours on end, but had zero concept of foreplay...but a LEO taught me that Sex can be phenomenal and i'm not going to regress in that department.
I had one leo he was boring. I had two caps and they were great. 🙂click to expand
Leo female and I? Might as well have had the room and ceiling all in mirrors.
I mean, those can be fun, but come on....
Posted by CuteGem
@MoonArtist
Did he ever find out? LOL
I am not proud of pretending that I was faking that I needed him. It happened.
I liked him as a person. I kept him as a friend after the relationship.
A few of my stalkers have been Gemini. No offense...
Posted by CuteGem
@MoonArtist
Did he ever find out? LOL
I am not proud of pretending that I was faking that I needed him. It happened.
I liked him as a person. I kept him as a friend after the relationship.
Very much so! I don't think Pisces is as vicious this way as Cancer and Scorpio, but as a triple Cancer I can be downright cruel and cold when I've gotten to the point of that much hurt and resentment. So, yes, I've told him. In fact, I've told him that I'd rather slit my wrists than ever go back to him, that if he died any time soon I wouldn't mourn him in any way, that any feelings of love I had for him I have purposely burned to ash and I've said all of it with no emotion other than icy cold.
Posted by CuteGemPosted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by CuteGem
@MoonArtist
Did he ever find out? LOL
I am not proud of pretending that I was faking that I needed him. It happened.
I liked him as a person. I kept him as a friend after the relationship.
A few of my stalkers have been Gemini. No offense...
What mind games did you play to them? Was it a game of emotions?
You cancers are awesome in these things.click to expand
No mind games. Seriously. Just being one's self.
**First it was innuendoes that were ignored.
Then gifts (if you read up on it, Cancers can't be bought).
Then phone messages when they've found out you're dating someone, long after you've told them it was over.**
^^^Cancers see through this. Never done that myself, but it was definitely recognizable.
Then attempts to actively interfere in your dating relationships by finding out who you were dating and contacting that person.
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by CuteGemPosted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by CuteGem
@MoonArtist
Did he ever find out? LOL
I am not proud of pretending that I was faking that I needed him. It happened.
I liked him as a person. I kept him as a friend after the relationship.
A few of my stalkers have been Gemini. No offense...
What mind games did you play to them? Was it a game of emotions?
You cancers are awesome in these things.
No mind games. Seriously. Just being one's self.
**First it was innuendoes that were ignored.
Then gifts (if you read up on it, Cancers can't be bought).
Then phone messages when they've found out you're dating someone, long after you've told them it was over.**
^^^Cancers see through this. Never done that myself, but it was definitely recognizable.
Then attempts to actively interfere in your dating relationships by finding out who you were dating and contacting that person.click to expand
rofl...I'm soooooo sorry! Unfortunately that's true of many Geminis. I still adore them, though. Yes, I can see my best friend doing some of this...because she kind of has.
Posted by CuteGemPosted by MoonArtistPosted by CuteGem
@MoonArtist
Did he ever find out? LOL
I am not proud of pretending that I was faking that I needed him. It happened.
I liked him as a person. I kept him as a friend after the relationship.
Very much so! I don't think Pisces is as vicious this way as Cancer and Scorpio, but as a triple Cancer I can be downright cruel and cold when I've gotten to the point of that much hurt and resentment. So, yes, I've told him. In fact, I've told him that I'd rather slit my wrists than ever go back to him, that if he died any time soon I wouldn't mourn him in any way, that any feelings of love I had for him I have purposely burned to ash and I've said all of it with no emotion other than icy cold.
I have to disagree. This is not cold. Cold is packing your things, without saying a word and leaving without the expression of any emotion at all.
The opposite of emotionally reacting is not emotionally reacting in a cold way. It is not emotionally reacting. Not bothering.click to expand
From a Cancer stand point it's cold because it's the opposite of being warm, receptive and caring towards someone.
Posted by CuteGem
@canceronthecusp
That's a very strange behaviour for a gemini.. buying presents? Gems are not materialistic in this way. This sounds more like an earth sign. Gems are only materialistic in guarding their possessions.
Were they calling you AFTER you had sex with them?
Not buying presents. Making things and sending them with a note in a Google translator language (from a heritage discussion) meant to impress.
Sex with one, no sex with the other.
The latter was a LOT of conversations, but I was being social in a friend sort of way.
Posted by CuteGemPosted by MoonArtistPosted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by CuteGemPosted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by CuteGem
@MoonArtist
Did he ever find out? LOL
I am not proud of pretending that I was faking that I needed him. It happened.
I liked him as a person. I kept him as a friend after the relationship.
A few of my stalkers have been Gemini. No offense...
What mind games did you play to them? Was it a game of emotions?
You cancers are awesome in these things.
No mind games. Seriously. Just being one's self.
**First it was innuendoes that were ignored.
Then gifts (if you read up on it, Cancers can't be bought).
Then phone messages when they've found out you're dating someone, long after you've told them it was over.**
^^^Cancers see through this. Never done that myself, but it was definitely recognizable.
Then attempts to actively interfere in your dating relationships by finding out who you were dating and contacting that person.
rofl...I'm soooooo sorry! Unfortunately that's true of many Geminis. I still adore them, though. Yes, I can see my best friend doing some of this...because she kind of has.
Really? I don't do these things and I am a 3x gemini. That's strange...click to expand
I'm sure it depends on the Gemini. Like every sign, no one is identical, but there's similarities.
Posted by CuteGem
that's interesting MoonArtist what you say about stalking. It is a good topic to bring up to the gemini board. I was completely unaware..
I don't think Geminis see it as stalking. They probably pass it off as "seeking knowledge". 😉
Posted by cancersunpiscesmoon
Its sad to know that you and someone else connect on another level, another reality. But in this physical realm you can't detach yourself from your ego and merge with another person's spirit. If you don't love yourself you can't love someone else... you can't open up your heart.
Very sad! And no, that's your water talking. I know what that feels like and I won't settle for anything less than it.
Posted by CuteGemPosted by MoonArtistPosted by CuteGem
that's interesting MoonArtist what you say about stalking. It is a good topic to bring up to the gemini board. I was completely unaware..
I don't think Geminis see it as stalking. They probably pass it off as "seeking knowledge". 😉
Knowledge? LOL that's what you call gossiping!
Stalking is obsession and includes bad intentions.
I hope you are not one of those people that considers stalking checking someone's facebook page.
Stalking is proper spying..click to expand
Lets just say that even proper spying can be disguised as "seeking knowledge". It doesn't bother me one bit. I'm usually the one who either talks her out of it or supports it.
Posted by cancersunpiscesmoonPosted by CluelessCancer
A cancer with Pisces moon you must be drowning.
Not if you learn to swim. I love it.click to expand
AMEN!
Posted by CuteGemPosted by MoonArtistPosted by CuteGemPosted by MoonArtistPosted by CuteGem
that's interesting MoonArtist what you say about stalking. It is a good topic to bring up to the gemini board. I was completely unaware..
I don't think Geminis see it as stalking. They probably pass it off as "seeking knowledge". 😉
Knowledge? LOL that's what you call gossiping!
Stalking is obsession and includes bad intentions.
I hope you are not one of those people that considers stalking checking someone's facebook page.
Stalking is proper spying..
Lets just say that even proper spying can be disguised as "seeking knowledge". It doesn't bother me one bit. I'm usually the one who either talks her out of it or supports it.
How is that saying... pot called kettle black?click to expand
Well, it all depends on what the knowledge seeking is for and how its being used. For trying to get that person who already told you to get lost: bad and wrong! For finding out if someone who means you harm is planning something or up to something they shouldn't be: sensible.
Posted by CuteGem
@moonartist
I see.. it seems that we have the same opinions on the subject... The question is why did you label your best friend stalker?
She's not an actual stalker in the bad sense, but I've seen her utilize the searching on FB, following, etc. as a way to find info out and on the most basic level you could classify that as stalking because it IS a form of stalking. She just doesn't do it to harass men who don't want her (and she's married and not wanting other men). She's also a private eye and works in public defense so it suits her in the workplace, too.
I very much have a fb account....several, actually. Wait, make that 5 accounts. And I love fb!!
Candycrush and farmville2. But most of the other accounts are for my art and jewelry. Might have miscounted. Lets see: 1 normal account, 2 fake accounts for giving game stuff to myself, 1 for jewelry business, 1 for art business. ok, I counted right.
Have a good night and sweet dreams, Gem!
Have a good night and sweet dreams, Gem!
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So cancer man broke up with me. it's really a long story, but basically I've been through a lot and have some things to
I'm so confused by my Cancer man. I have been dating him since June of this year. We are not exclusive but we have b
It's been about a month that I've been chatting to this Cancer Man online... we flirt with each other quite a bit, and I
I cant figure out if this guy likes me or not. I am 39 yr Pisces female who has dated a few guys in my time, but I have
He's saying he wants nothing to do with me any more (as I upset him) yet he's still texting me over n over being a tauru
We've been seeing each other for 13 weeks, and tonight I asked him was he talking and meeting other woman (due to someth
Help. We have only been dating a short time. Havent seen him in 2 weeks. He called me a left a message. I texted.. we c
Well first off im a cancer 7/11 and so is my friend 7/16..Basically we us to be fwb but he cut it off abruptly one day w
I'm a Capricorn and I've been seeing this Cancer man for about two months. I read that Cancers and Capricorns are exact
So I've been dating this Cancer guy and things are going great. He's a bit full on asking if I see a future with him and
I hear that most Cancer men don't just sleep around? Any cancer men that engage in one night stands or strictly sexual r
Hi there, I just met a cancer man. I am a Leo, Capricorn Rising, Moon in Scorpio, Venus in Cancer. He is a Cancer,
So in a nutshell everything we had was perfect the chemistry but he just didn't put in enough effort to see me thus I co
About a year and a half ago I fell in love with a cancer man. He swept me off my feet. He started telling me that he fel
How would you cancer men feel if a woman expressed her feelings towards you? I'm a cancer and he's a cancer also and I f
so I have been living with my cancer BF for 6 months.... he was cheated on by previous wife,she took all of his savings,
Ok my cancer man, sometimes acts like things are great. Every Sunday I go to his house, I am off mondays and I cook and