Asking a Cancer for sex??

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loonylibra
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10 Years

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We were supposed to have sex a few days ago but things went wrong during(i got my period) and he pretty much dropped me. We're still friends though. I've tried moving on but I really can't. I cant even satisfy myself if you catch my drift. So should I just ask him to try again with me? How do I do it? I'm super blunt and I'll just straight up ask him (Libra sun,Gem moon,Leo Venus,Sag mars) but I dont know if I should. I dont know if I should let him come to me or not or just drop it. Hes a cancer with a libra moon,leo mercury,virgo venus and scorpio mars pls help??!!!
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WildHHeartGemini
@WildHHeartGemini
10 Years

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^^ Agreed. If all you want is sex and not a relationship or any kind of connection with a man then it's pretty simple.

Here's what you do. Go out to a bar and the convo may go a little something like this with about 90% of the men in there.

You: Hey! How's it going?

Random Guy: Ummm.... Hi! Good.

You: Wana have Sex?

Random Guy: Does a bear shit in the woods? (Meaning: HELL YES!!!!) LOL!

Problem solved. You're in. No muss No fuss. No feelings involved and you get what you want. Just make sure you use protection and the buddy system LOL! 😄
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KittenLaRouge
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Posted by WildHHeartGemini
^^ Agreed. If all you want is sex and not a relationship or any kind of connection with a man then it's pretty simple.

Here's what you do. Go out to a bar and the convo may go a little something like this with about 90% of the men in there.

You: Hey! How's it going?

Random Guy: Ummm.... Hi! Good.

You: Wana have Sex?

Random Guy: Does a bear shit in the woods? (Meaning: HELL YES!!!!) LOL!

Problem solved. You're in. No muss No fuss. No feelings involved and you get what you want. Just make sure you use protection and the buddy system LOL! 😄
lol @ wanna have sex 😆
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CrabTwinsFish
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13 Years

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Establish a long lasting friendship and understanding relationship first. Sounds like you have nothing really going on with your guy. Women need to know and understand that a great guy will be with you in the good times and the not so good times. If he is really worth it, he will always be aware of your needs, desires, and will be willing to share. A great, great guy will not be thinking ... it's all about ME.
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RabidTalker
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If you were about to have sex and you turned him down right beforehand saying you are having your period he could be thinking it was rejection or game playing.

If you guys were in the act of having sex then it is on him. Sometimes friendships are weird for a little time after any intimacy at all. You could go ballistic on him as some are suggesting, you could try to see if the friendship is worth saving (which I assume you evaluated before suggesting more than friendship). You could wait a bit to let it blow over but I think you are ok to straight up ask him.