Why can't I get Cancer out of my mind?

Ughhh!

Posted by KsamCancer
What is your moon sign?

Cancer

Posted by seraph
You need a Fire or Earth Sun with a low-drama chart, Jynj.

'Kay!

I'm coming to get you, Seraph!

*Ties shoelaces*

🙂

Sigh.

I just miss him. I should never have thought this was more than just a friendship.

Cancers are unforgettable we leave an impression good or bad 🙂

Idk, but this is how my ex & ex crushes feel.Lol
I guess its cause we do things differently

You guys, there's no drama.

I met Cancer last March at a brief meeting after settling a brief problem at my sister's school, but I didn't think much of it. After that, I traveled for a while, not knowing that Cancer had tried to contact me several times.

When I returned, Cancer man was waiting. I went back to my sister's school and he virtually waylaid me. We had fun hanging out, leading to another weekend together celebrating his birthday in his favorite resort in some mountains -chilly, but that was amazing too.

The following weekend, he was here to help with my nephew's wedding, spending even more time at dinner three times every week after that. We spent my birthday evening alone together, we talked about life, love...

I'm just realizing now that I might have read all that wrong and he just considers me a friend.

Now, its up time to me to unromanticize our relationship and that's no easy feat.

I just miss him like mad.

Doesn't sound like he considers you Just A Friend.

+1 to what Monty said, does not seem like a "just friends" situation at all. I think you're being a little naive about a man's intentions.. 🙂 Why not ask him what he thinks of the situation? The answer might be exactly what you want to hear. What have you got to lose here? If he is a real friend, he's not gonna back away from you just because you brought it up.

Posted by Montgomery
Doesn't sound like he considers you Just A Friend.

yeh cancer men... sneaky

Did you prematurely cut the line without realizing a fish was on it? 😉 I feel you friendzone him to keep yourself from getting attached, not knowing you already were. Just wondering how long since last contact and who initiated it?

Posted by crabbycrab76
Did you prematurely cut the line without realizing a fish was on it? 😉 I feel you friendzone him to keep yourself from getting attached, not knowing you already were. Just wondering how long since last contact and who initiated it?

He talks about other women, how glad he is to take a walk with a woman here, his interaction with a patient (he's a surgeon) and how he and her just hit it off nearly instantly, he's cooking for a friend tonight and he wanted me to share my recipe.

He posted a profile picture of us (Leo rising loves to takes selfies, eh?) for a while, now there have been three other profile pictures with three different women.

I'm not that special.

He called all day today, but I ignored him, then he called from his Aunt's phone an hour ago to which I replied.

I like him like that so talking to him about my favorite recipe alone is difficult.

You get me?

I feel ya! Yeah, given all that, you were right to cut the line.

Posted by 037

Posted by crabbycrab76
Did you prematurely cut the line without realizing a fish was on it? 😉 I feel you friendzone him to keep yourself from getting attached, not knowing you already were. Just wondering how long since last contact and who initiated it?

He talks about other women, how glad he is to take a walk with a woman here, his interaction with a patient (he's a surgeon) and how he and her just hit it off nearly instantly, he's cooking for a friend tonight and he wanted me to share my recipe.

He posted a profile picture of us (Leo rising loves to takes selfies, eh?) for a while, now there have been three other profile pictures with three different women.

I'm not that special.

He called all day today, but I ignored him, then he called from his Aunt's phone an hour ago to which I replied.

I like him like that so talking to him about my favorite recipe alone is difficult.

You get me?

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Think about this ^^^^ more and not how you felt when you were with him. It will help you get over him quicker. I think women get stuck on men in general because of how they made them feel and not so much on the disrespect that was shown. I should've known you had good reasons to back away, but I thought you were just running a bit scared. Sorry. 😢