@bloobaz
12 YearsLeo
Amen sister!! 🙂 You said it
Lol - that was one funny post! But thats exactly how my friends behave as well! I have learnt to ignore them back when they do this and then they feel bad that i am ignoring them! I have told them that i love them but its a no-win situation every single time. Need to show them this post, it may just help €
I have a cancer friend.4 years ago we were dating for 2 months.He suddenly decided to do the crab thing,disappeared.Ok,I disappeared too.Thought am not gonna wait.After a few months he appeared and started begging.It's been four years and he is still begging for a relationship with me.When I give him some attention he is happy and then he pulls back again.Then I ignore him again.The begging starts.So yes ignore them.They come around.I asked him once what's with this behavior and he said "guys are stupid,act like children but if you ignore or disappear on them they will hunt you down".Go figure that out if you can.Very mature...Oh wait,they are mother Teresa,so emotional and everything is your fault! Yuck
Lololssss this is cute..
Yes, I do this.
You caught me.
Don't take it personal, just talk to us about it.Who knows, we might just give you an apology and a reason as to why we do this sometimes.
For now just check if we're alright when you encounter this behavior, give us a little space but let us know that you're there if we need you.
Posted by KsamCancer
Damn right! I don't get that either. I don't do that. I got a guy friend who does but he's a crazy vet anyway. I blame his on PTSD not his birthday. Poor guy. When he calms down he's like Shelby after a seizure
I don't do this.
*hit and run*.
funny!
But naw, I don't do this, I *may* overreact during an argument 😉, but I don't just take out random anger or stress out on someone I love.
I try not to do it.
I am sure I have snapped on someone because I was mad at someone else. 😛
haha ! this is so true OP.
Hahahaha it was meant to be funny 😄
I noticed this type of behavior on my lover but now I put him on IGNORE mode until he chills the fuck up. So it's all good. He comes all begging and loving afterwards.
@KsamCancer : I actually laughed out loud
Just wanted to make you guys laugh a bit
Smh 🙂
Makes me want to fling there crabby selves over a damn mountain, most annoying trait in the world
sounds like that type of anger that you may like at first and then begin to hate. youre all jokes about it now but in a few months/years youll get irritated af and will wonder why youre dating the lad and why you ever found him attractive.
Oh btw, I do that. Not intentionally, but my fam tells me i get mean af when i dont get my way or somethings bothering me.
The thing is I know it's not intentionally and I know that there are other issues which are causing him to be like this because he tells me about them and I understand. He also admits doing this unintentionally and always says that he's sorry.
Whenever he starts getting mean I shut him up with an exactly meanie line then ignore him. 🙂
He always 100% comes back
Posted by crabRiot
Lololssss this is cute..
Yes, I do this.
You caught me.
Don't take it personal, just talk to us about it.Who knows, we might just give you an apology and a reason as to why we do this sometimes.
For now just check if we're alright when you encounter this behavior, give us a little space but let us know that you're there if we need you.
lol
--Jack
hahaha. I remember my man when I broke up with him.. He was a nagger. It was annoying. Then he said I should have to give him a chance because
he realized his failures. then he kept on proposing and on and on... soo really weird sometimes but I am Scorpio and I can handle this kind of people.
Yesterday He had a big gift he said...so I was laughing if his to me are food. Then he said much better than food..He wanted me to look a wedding dress so he have an idea what do I want to look like. Prior to this we had a discussion how much he loved me and to be with me and be a mother of his children thru our text messaging and all those lovely voice messages from him. He called me last night and he have those compliments like he really loved to heard my voice and all those laughs. I loved him dearly but I don't have much expectation because we are far.
His moon is in capricorn and my moon is in cancer. So far, everytime we had argument I kept laughing and don't throw anything that made him hurt.
and he knows when I am upset or mad.. because I just copied all his messages and let it slapped in my other cheek. Most of the time he didn't retreat when
he is upset because he kept thinking I am the one who's upset.He is very sentimental yet funny.
bloobaz,
If you know how to respond and not to react it works for cancer men. They are very emotional and sensitive.
Hope it works for you.
renutzu,
The more you understand your partner, all the more she will loves you back. I bet she was October Scorp. If so, then She is very strong.
Regardless of zodiac sign partners should have the ability to balance the emotion and not get carried away with it. Emotion will decide.
Whether you are in highest high or lowest low. So avoid both extreme.
Posted by renutzu
Yes, she was oct. 26. I could always read her mind and know what words would offend her (because I have Scorp moon), but she would rarely do the same to me and end up hurting me many times. The highs were high, lows were low. It was too extreme as u mentioned.
Yep that scorpio placement is very strong but once you can handle that properly it will be a healing instead of curse. I myself have suffered being ruled by pluto, I somehow do some research because it's internal and no one can understand except those fellow Scorpios. Scorpio can read people. Pluto is very dark.. I always cried behind closed door and most Scorpios do the same thing. Once Scorpio get hurt they bounce harder and sting you all over again.
So you have to be very careful in activating that Scorpio moon in you. That intuition is very accurate though. Oh You lost her already but remember
Scorpio are very loyal people and Scorpio won't look back. Arrgh this will leave our partner dead. But this is how we live and Don't chase a Scorpio
woman because she won't give in until her anger won't fade. And once her anger fades... she will smile again but never her love returns just friendship
thing.. the woman you once love become a different person.
I just master my own and become a new creation. I no longer suffer being ruled by Pluto - evolved scorp are rare to find.
renutzu,
As I read above... believe me You already lived with that Scorpio moon. That dark shadow will never leave you until you learn to embrace it.
Remember she was your lover. Not your enemy. Most people I've encountered they are very hard with their exes and past and become bitter themselves.
Scorpio will chase but you have to let her won in her own game. We are just like fool. We utter * i love you* while angry. This is really funny about us.
A Scorpio in love has no pride..We swallowed it until we can't give even more. That Scorpio moon maybe too harsh for her and she cannot bear the pain.
So she left with a wounded heart..arrgh this is very painful in her part. Just like you she is water sign her feelings run deep so is her love.
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WHO the hell gives you the right to just drop your nerves on the ones who love you the most?
Every time you guys angry or stressed or grumpy I noticed at most of my friends and my lover included that you love to take it out on your dear ones and then go to your shell like what the hell, hit and run? REALLY?
I literally want to set you on fire then throw you over some bridge. I know you're struggling with your inner wonderland/work/finance and being SOOoooOO *sarcastic voice* sensitive but this gives you no right to act this way. KIDS! That's what you are. Spoiled little children.
I just want to poke you crabs with a stick.
*message should not be taken as serious as it may seems. I had a funny rage.