Awww Kudo's for cancer man

You know.. I have to say.Although u cancers go MIA on us and test our patience to a max.. When u do come back around and make contact, it never fails that I get an instant smile on my face 🙂Y'all know exactly what to say .. Cancer sent me a message yesterday asking if I was available to celebrate his bday this weekend.. Now I know its not a big thing.. But for me its a progress haha..
I wont lie, yes miss Leo is a little nervous, its the first time ill be meeting his friends and all.. I know ill be put through the friend test.. No boudt I could see it right now.... :O Im sure to past the text with flying colors ( Leo Ego talking hahah) 😉

lmao ii know when dealing with a cancer man its like a baby taking its first steps , lol sooo CONGRADULATIONS too your progress and goodluck on your journey!! your going too need it much like I 🙂

This is true....butterflies and all.....=) when you "finally" meet the friends, yes! Definitely a step in the "right" direction =) and a big step for them too! Kudos on the progress! Good luck lioness =)

Posted by piscean
lmao ii know when dealing with a cancer man its like a baby taking its first steps , lol sooo CONGRADULATIONS too your progress and goodluck on your journey!! your going too need it much like I 🙂

Thx gurl lol .. Ive notice that patience is a vitue.. LITERALLY.. Good luck with urs aswell.. He does have good taste in songs.. Motivation is quite the love making song 😉

Posted by missscorp
This is true....butterflies and all.....=) when you "finally" meet the friends, yes! Definitely a step in the "right" direction =) and a big step for them too! Kudos on the progress! Good luck lioness =)

Miss scorp .. U hit i on the nose.. Butterflies Galore hahah.. But no worries.. Cool calm and collect it will be 😉Thx

Posted by wineaux
ladies...i'm going to feel neglected if you don't keep up the kudos thread!!! that's what it's for!!! support for all of the crustaceans in our lives 🙂

Awww Wineaux.. No neglecting u sweety .. I cant speak for others but uve help me understand quite abit about the cancer man and kudo's for u on that 🙂

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😢 Ladies lets hold off on the congratulations lol .. This was another one of his side step moves lol .. I got a text today saying that " btw u could come with some friends cause theres gonna be alot of people".. So basically I was just another friend that he was inviting .. Im assuming cause i wrote back.. Good idea cause ull probably be busy entertaining ur guest and I dont wanna be left alone.. The responce I was hoping for was: No worries.. I wouldnt leave u alone.. But noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo I get a responce as such " hahaha I know" Ur kidding me right lol ... I then told him ill meet him there with my girl and have a drink ... Inhale from the nose and exhale from the mouth hahahaha repeat 20 times ...Basically ... Im still gonna go cause i have no reason not too .. Looking like a billion bucks haha just went to buy these gorgeous red stilettos to wear with my black dress grrrrrrrrrrr ..

Although I wont lie, my heart will melt if i see him hooking up with some girl .. 😢 But I wont show it lol.. At that point ill just leave hahaha.. Lets just hope that wont happen 😉

hahaha love and support for the crabs. avg. wait time for crabs on my track record.... 6 months or 2 years. still very sweet though.

@ Caesar .. Thats exactly what I did.. I didnt make a big fuss over that comment thats why I went anyway.. He did invite me to celebrate his day and I was more than happy to go ...

It was an overall good evening however not one of our best lol .. The ending wasnt so good.. I arrived to the club and sent him a text when i was inside so I could go meet him.. Before hand he text me before saying that he hopes I dont arrive too late .. haha Hes cute 😉 Bla bla we got there I intoduced him to my friend and he brought us to his table.. All his friends were there and some girls too.. He spoke to me for maybe 2 mins and left us there all night.. Didnt pay any attention to me so I went about my business while he was busy entertaining which I didnt really mind since it was his bday and his guest.. We took a walk around the club to check it out.. During that time get a text from him askin Where I was.. I Went back to his table he noticed me still didnt come to talk to us.. I Stood there for 2 hrs and some of his random friends came to talk to us asking who we were since mr Cancer never introduced us to anyone.. Then his friends start flirting with us... I finally make eye contact with Cancer cause apparentely he was staring at my every move as per my friend.. So I roll my eyes and give him a sign to get me out of here .. since he was to distant for me to approach him.. He then gives me the big eyes and continues along with his business.. I was pretty annoyed to say the least but I kept my calm as it was his important day .. But my patience ran out when some random chick grabs his ass and he then smiles and talks to her.. Well thats when I calmy finished my drink and left the club.. I went passed him and said by.. He panicked and asked my friend why we were leaving.. We get into the car and maybe 10 mins later I get a text from him saying That he cant believe I left and was hoping that he was gonna leave with me.. Well I replied that I wasnt gonna stand there alone while these random dudes come talk to me while hes getting his ass grabbed by some chick.. He then again said that he was hoping to leave with me but guess it didnt happen.. I didnt respond that night cause I was frustrated .. so I slept on it and wrote him the next day saying that i dont read minds and if he had the intention of coming home with me he should have told me when he saw me leave.. Instead he chose to continue talking to the chick who grabbed his ass. 😢

Oh and when his friends asked who we were I did specify that I came for my cancer and yet they continued to flirt .. One even told me when he too saw Mr cancer get his buns grabbed .. Oh well he's busy now so u could focus on me now.. Not sure how close that guy was to my cancer but to turn around and say that,. Rude .. Thats when I tried to get me cancers attention from a far,, However he didnt care less aswell haha

@ Wineaux.. What wud I do without u lol .. Ur my cancer decoder Idol 😉
Guess I felt like .. Why is he inviting me when he cant even talk to me for 5 mins. Lets flirt out way to my place haha if thats what u want.. So he cant tell me directly.. Well tell me indirectly, Dont just leave me there in a pool of sharks hahaha woooo me a lil .. He did ask at one point why I was so far from the table .. I just said it was too hot in that hurd of people.. Which was true but he didnt believe me.. He said ya right.. For no reason as a matter of fact.. At that point his friends wer'nt around.. it was just my friend and I.. Maybe miss ass grabber was a friend of his.. I just took it the wrong way .. guess I was overall annoyed and that just made the vase tip over.. Wineaux how long did it take u to master the cancer man lol.. This is quite the challenge lol .. Again I feel as though we are both on a stand still waiting for the other to express themself.. I knows that I would never reject his offers .. Ive told him numerous times.. And im hesitant to show some of my feelings since I feel unsure about him but in reality its that he shows his affection in a way im not used to .. oyyyyyy .. So in my eyes.. I feel that he doesnt care but yet he shows it in an under the radar type way.. oyyyy again

Posted by wineaux
aha! you didn't show him you were there for him...in his eyes. crabbie side step! oh, and using text messages instead of f2f confrontation is a lot easier (in my experience).

if he was interested in taking the ass-grabber home, he would have 😉

and TELLING him you would never reject his offers isn't SHOWING him. you have to SHOW him, and walking out was a mixed signal because you (1) rejected his offer of an invite to the party by leaving and (2) rejected his offer of being his bday present.

oh, and i'm still learning...and we're going on 15 months here of whatever the non-labeled hell it is we're doing. but then again, we've known each other for 6 years. practice makes perfect! if there really is a perfect. do you have any water in your chart?

I do.. My moon is in scorpio thats all.. Besides that im all fire.. and one earth ( virgo) .. We have identical charts except his moon is in cap.. sun and venus in cancer .. Besides those difference we are the same..

As for the face to face.. Thank you .. I have told him that a zillion times.. I hate text messages.. we spoke on the phone maybe twice and the rest is allllllllll text messages .. what can I do .. I cant force him if he doesnt like phone convos .. so I communicate via text and half the time it doesnt really sound like I want it too hahaha and when we're together we tend to just enjoy the moment and talk about other things so the subject from before never gets discussed in person.. I told him that night when he text why i left.. that If i wanted to have someone filting with me I would have went elsewhere else.. I came there to celebrate his bday yet I spent the whole night talking to some random guy .. he replys with " lol" .. Ok I get that im probably getting tested to see how I act.. And I was doing very well for a few hours till the ass grabbing situation ..Which I didnt make a big fuss about it there.. I just left lol .. Which may have not been the best decision on my part however that other guy was annoying me and since cancer was talking with that girl.. My first instinct was to flee the premisice lol

And I get that they are not upfront and direct with their emotions.. Which is fine but just give me a little something to work with .. Like come talk to me for a second and grab my ass discretely.. Somethinggg .. anything.. lol I gave him little flirting signals when

Oops it cut off lol ..

As I was saying.. I gave him flirting signals when I would spot him. a Smile a yinks .. He seemed indifferent about them.. Didnt even smile back .. He was in the crowd with talking to his friends so Im surely not gonna run behind him like a puppy while he's doing his thing.. But its cool tho.. Baby steps I guess.. I have my faults awell.. Im a very " in ur face" type person when it comes to showing emotions .. Im very touchy feely like that .. physical affection is what gets me off lol I love to hear how my partner is feeling from time to time.. Therapy for my ears.. I also enjoy expressing it aswell .. So I have alot of learning to do.. His subtle ways of showing his interest is very new to me.. Lets just call it my adjustment phase if our " relationship" does go further.. I hope it does.. Cause I do like him despite what is said 😉

Ahhhhh U see Wineaux .. I have alot of work to do.. just re-read my post and noticed that im Talking alot about Myself .. I I I.. Yes I know its a leo thing .. Im soooo bad.. I shud be thinking about how he must be feeling about the fact that I left .. 😢 .. Maybe he was nervous .. Like u said .. Maybe he didnt know how to introduce me . So just avoided the whole thing.. Like does he say hey thats my friend jess and risk me getting all upset about the friend word..Which I wouldnt have since thats what we are right now.. But how cud he know that.. He cant read minds aswell hahaha 😉 Maybe my presence was good enough for him...oyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

Posted by wineaux
@wineaux "oh, and they don't chase
😢 it's not crab m.o. to run after you...if he had and you would have rejected him, it wouldn't have been a super big blow to his confidence, and on his bday of all days."

OH but they do or can... Winneaux... My crab.. chased me in 2007 with a vengence... He tried to get me to chase him to no avail....

I had him exactly where I wanted him....

1- I would call him and not leave a message.... He always called me back within 5 minutes.. Guaranteed.
2- He really really tried to get my schedule... The fact that he never knew when I was going to be there drove him NUTS.
3- He pissed me off on a Friday.. wanting to get me reduce my rate... OMG... The Roar came out later that day... and then the e-mail from Hell...lol.... The next day.. Saturday.. he expected me to show up... I was too pissed... so I went looking for a car... GM tried to kill me.. and I wanted a divorce from GM... I normally do not turn my phone on after 6 pm weekdays.. and never on weekends... But instinctavily.. I knew he would be looking for me... Yup he called just after noon hour... I didn't answer of course. 😉
4- He was always in my face... calling stupid meeting with only him and I .. I would usually acknowledge the whatever he was saying ... turn my back to him... and walk out the door.
5- I was suppose to be at the office... but needed a break.. from the BS... at the office... So I go visit other clients... He calls questioning why I did not show up... I hang up on him 🙂

Oh and how I can go on...I had so much fun with him...back in the day... and learnt more in those 12 months... then I have in the past 35 years of my life...He was so much fun... I had never seen a man do back flips, front flips.. standing on head... table dacing... and the like... until this one... .. and the stuttering... lost for words... balistic reactions...to me making direct comments... Like after he stepped on my shoe... I looked up at him... and said... "Oh.. You going to buy me a new pair of shoes now??"... He bacame balistic... Ran to his office ... came to find me in the warehouse... and dropped the $ $ he owed me ..from me buying a new keyboard and mouse. lol

His BD is tomorrow.. I can only imagine what he is thinking right now... lol.

Nope I won't be calling him..

Wineaux.. ( Or anyone who chooses to read lol ) I actually would like ur input on something.. Should I apologize for leaving ? I kinda feel bad .. Or shud I just leave it alone ..

We left it off last night.. He sent a text saying: Thx for coming yesterday, Appreciated.. I replied No problem.. Wouldnt have missed it" .. What do u think? 🙂

Posted by Jessica777
Wineaux.. ( Or anyone who chooses to read lol ) I actually would like ur input on something.. Should I apologize for leaving ? I kinda feel bad .. Or shud I just leave it alone ..

We left it off last night.. He sent a text saying: Thx for coming yesterday, Appreciated.. I replied No problem.. Wouldnt have missed it" .. What do u think? 🙂

You owe him nothing more.... imo... You have done more then could be expected... Appologies don't work with these bad boys... Action does... Stay the course. Don't take ownership for his BS... If he really wanted you... He should have said something, done something... to show you... Do Not be his puppet. 😉 All imo

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Posted by wineaux
@wineaux "oh, and they don't chase
😢 it's not crab m.o. to run after you...if he had and you would have rejected him, it wouldn't have been a super big blow to his confidence, and on his bday of all days."

3- He pissed me off on a Friday.. wanting to get me reduce my rate... OMG... The Roar came out later that day... and then the e-mail from Hell...lol.... The next day.. Saturday.. he expected me to show up... I was too pissed... so I went looking for a car... GM tried to kill me.. and I wanted a divorce from GM... I normally do not turn my phone on after 6 pm weekdays.. and never on weekends... But instinctavily.. I knew he would be looking for me... Yup he called just after noon hour... I didn't answer of course. 😉
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I should add .. that during the tele converstion... on the Friday... I stated to him that when he starts paying my bills... we may be able to negotiate my rate... lol... NOT!!!!!

Posted by catin

Posted by Jessica777
Wineaux.. ( Or anyone who chooses to read lol ) I actually would like ur input on something.. Should I apologize for leaving ? I kinda feel bad .. Or shud I just leave it alone ..

We left it off last night.. He sent a text saying: Thx for coming yesterday, Appreciated.. I replied No problem.. Wouldnt have missed it" .. What do u think? 🙂

You owe him nothing more.... imo... You have done more then could be expected... Appologies don't work with these bad boys... Action does... Stay the course. Don't take ownership for his BS... If he really wanted you... He should have said something, done something... to show you... Do Not be his puppet. 😉 All imo

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@ Catin .. Are u a Leo Gurl ? .. Cause damn u fiesty.. thought I was bad but guess I just met my match lol 😉 Thx for the advice.. Hmmm advice from a fellow leo.. Thats disaster waiting to happen.. In a good way of course lol 😉

@Winneaux... I had to delete you post as my rebuttal would never make the word count... lol 😉

Don't know the water thingy...as I don't know the time of birth whatever... Heck I do not know mine... My mother can't remenber when I was born... lol. All I know is that I am a Leo.. and he need to fight for me.. I want/need a real man.. not a she-male.

He has his share of women..chasing him...let me tell you.. He was getting texts in 2007 and would tell them to F/O.. in text.. in my presence.. He booted his gf.. out of his condo.. because of me.

He has a seperate cell phone to keep the females at bay... imo... Yup female v-mail message... so that it would get the chasing types to back off.. I instinctly knew it was him...tho.. and kept him on hold for 8 days.. over the 2010 holidays...I did not know the number but just knew it was him... As I noted previously.. I needed to catch him.. So BOO BOO.. was my message... and I caught him exposed. 😉 lol

"And why do Cancers run away? One you made them or Two they really like you."

I believe that I did both... because he did not run from me... I'm the one that walked away after he disrespected me after 12 months of being my office husband.. in which he can after me and not the other way around...

"Did they never come back? If they did, it's your fault... and if they came back, they were ready. "

He contacted me over the holidays....some 3.5 years later... OK.. he also contact me in 2009.. never leaving a message of course... hence imo.. wanting me to chase him...... He leaves me with "Soon" Well we all know that this can mean anything in a Cancer's mind... hence proceed with CAUTION. lol

Winneaux... what you missed is that most everything I wrote above happenned in 2007... Trust me it was fun.. and yes he wanted to control me.. or at least know when I would be at the office... I kept his life on hold so to speak... because I was told that he had never spent so much time at the office until I came along.

He actually raised my self-worth and self esteem... Why.. because I was analysing him.. and not allowing another man to play with me... without me actually questioning their motives.. and where they were at..

I trusted him fully until he disrespected me... I walked the day he did. He had 9k of my earned money.. but that doesn't matter. As I advised him back in 2008.. the money never mattered but he did... Now he needs to live with the fact that he did not do right by me... I kn

Part two... arrgggggg

I know in my heart that he did not pay me.. because he wanted control.. but I never gave him that.. Just saying...

Apparently this is a game... which I don't play fair... according to my Cancer Guy... as in his words ... "You play hard ball" lol 😉

May the Cancer family chime in on this.. 🙂

I also need to add... since I had stopped dating useless... men for quite sometime... I learned to listen to his words... which allowed me to throw it back at him... when convenient... I was very very discerning... and would not allow some flacky dude... get into my pants... without earning it...first.

I showed him and expressed to him my feelings... about him... however I was never ready to just give it up.. without the talk... If he threw me the I want to be friends.. BS... That too would have made me walk that day... I think he knew this... and instead chose to say... "I don't know where you are coming from" More games... He knew... and I knew...

His problem.. and never mine.

I thought this was supposed to be a cancer man KUDOS thread?

Hahaha that didn't even last 1 page!!!

Honestly, the Lioness ego is painful to read. So much... I,I,I, me, me, me.

The lesson to be learned is... Leo's should not date Cancers. period.

and wineaux... you have the patience of a saint 😉

Posted by shellshocker
I thought this was supposed to be a cancer man KUDOS thread?

Hahaha that didn't even last 1 page!!!

Honestly, the Lioness ego is painful to read. So much... I,I,I, me, me, me.

The lesson to be learned is... Leo's should not date Cancers. period.

and wineaux... you have the patience of a saint 😉

Your not being very helpful... considering you are not chiming into why the Cancer's behave his way...I gave up a lot of info... which you could actually help in the psychosis ... lol

The man was great.. treated me like I would want to be treated... always that year.. until he disrespected me... in which I had to walk due to his skating the real issue.

I could never had that much fun.. if he had not participated.. Just saying.

I was just expressing what I ... Yes... I saw that year.. I surely cannot speak on his behalf.. That would be a lie. Although he stated we would talk.. more then once... he never delivered the goods...hence being on my guard. and proceeding with caution... was prudent...

Now can we have some real input.. rather then more Cancer BS. 😢

btw Shellshocker

As much as he treated me well that year .. and made me feel like a Queen.. I treated him very well... and he felt like a King.. You had to be there.. I Guess... 😉

Posted by Jessica777
Ahhhhh U see Wineaux .. I have alot of work to do.. just re-read my post and noticed that im Talking alot about Myself .. I I I.. Yes I know its a leo thing .. Im soooo bad.. I shud be thinking about how he must be feeling about the fact that I left .. 😢 .. Maybe he was nervous .. Like u said .. Maybe he didnt know how to introduce me . So just avoided the whole thing.. Like does he say hey thats my friend jess and risk me getting all upset about the friend word..Which I wouldnt have since thats what we are right now.. But how cud he know that.. He cant read minds aswell hahaha 😉 Maybe my presence was good enough for
him...oyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

@ Shellshocker .. Read the above ... Im admitting to my faults.. If it was all about me me me .. I wouldnt be asking for some advice.. The Bitching fest above is between catin and Wineaux .. Catin is here to vent .. Let her be lol

Yes Wineaux has the patience of a saint However she is giving advice to those who are willing to explore the cancer man.. So for you to say Cancers shud not date leos.. Sorry but no thanks.. start a new thread saying cancer hates Leo and this is way and ill let u vent all u want without saying squat.. Unless u generalize ur comments. We are not allllll bad just like everyone else and their signs .. Yes im a Leo and proud to be However willing to adapt and understand the cancer man and tame my roar if needed .. Without being played for a fool that is lol 🙂

Posted by catin

Posted by shellshocker
I thought this was supposed to be a cancer man KUDOS thread?

Hahaha that didn't even last 1 page!!!

Honestly, the Lioness ego is painful to read. So much... I,I,I, me, me, me.

The lesson to be learned is... Leo's should not date Cancers. period.

and wineaux... you have the patience of a saint 😉

Your not being very helpful... considering you are not chiming into why the Cancer's behave his way...I gave up a lot of info... which you could actually help in the psychosis ... lol

Now can we have some real input.. rather then more Cancer BS. 😢

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I doubt you're going to get much useful advice with your shitty attitude. Looks like most Cancers have left the building... all the crying depresses us.

But here's a tidbit you can use.... suck my dick! 😛

@ Catin ..

vent??ed, vent??ing, vents
v.tr.
1. To express (one's thoughts or feelings, for example), especially forcefully.
2. To release or discharge (steam, for example) through an opening.

Here's a lil definition of the word "vent" and tell me which part makes u assume that im Judging u or saying that ur dilusional and all in ur head ..

I just replied to shellshocker saying that u are expressing ur thoughts and to leave u be ( Using the word vent) .. I could have plain out told u to solve ur own BS on ur own thread.. So Miss catin leo I aint ur cancer.. so chillax.. ur dealing with another Leo here so trust me I think u know I could roar just as loud..

Wineaux was giving advice based on My cancer and Not urs.. Therefore no need to bite her head off aswell .. It wasnt relavant to U .. Yes I know its hard sweety.. Its not always about us .. We have to give the spotlight to others sometimes 😉

And May I add to ur story.. I actually agree with ur action.. I probably would have done the same thing after 4.5 Yrs.. However Im sure u will make the right decision in the end if and whenever he chooses to prove to u he is worthy 😉 So good luck with that '_

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Posted by catin

Posted by shellshocker
I thought this was supposed to be a cancer man KUDOS thread?

Hahaha that didn't even last 1 page!!!

Honestly, the Lioness ego is painful to read. So much... I,I,I, me, me, me.

The lesson to be learned is... Leo's should not date Cancers. period.

and wineaux... you have the patience of a saint 😉

Your not being very helpful... considering you are not chiming into why the Cancer's behave his way...I gave up a lot of info... which you could actually help in the psychosis ... lol

Now can we have some real input.. rather then more Cancer BS. 😢

I doubt you're going to get much useful advice with your shitty attitude. Looks like most Cancers have left the building... all the crying depresses us.

But here's a tidbit you can use.... suck my dick! 😛

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Your a player.. nuff said...

update lol ... 😉

As I promised my cancer a first time home cook dinner for his bday.. I invited him last night.. And the turn out was pretty good.. We had dinner and I actually wanted to talk about his bday evening at the club to clear out the so called tension.. So I asked him.. so, what else did u do for ur bday did u enjoy urself.. He then said.. besides the fact that u left me on my birthday it was ok . AHA .. Exactly what I wanted to talk about I said to myself.. So before explaining myself.. I apologized to him for leaving and told him why.. He acknowledge the fact that he was all over the place that night.. He claimed that he wanted to introduced me to his friends but I was too far from the table and thought I was doing that on purpose because I did not want to be near them.. .. He also said that he nodded his head for me to come closer... I told him that I did the same and he seemed to have been upset.. He said that he was upset because of some incident that happen with the bill at the end. I told him that it wasnt the case and was very happy to be there with and for him.. the convo continued and explained the whole situation.. So I was happy we got that out of the air 🙂 ..

As for the rest of the night.. It was very nice.. U cancer's are trully sweethearts 🙂We chilled and spoke about his job and stuff and the fact that he might be leaving for a few months for the company.. 😢 Im sad about that..

The cutest part is that.. at one point he took my hand and was rubbing it and during that time I said.. Oh I want to change my nail polish .. But ill do it tomorrow.. Well he actually said.. Ill do it for u .. I was like u want to paint my nails.. He was like .. Ya why not.. So I said ok what color would u prefer.. he said Red.. So I got the polish and he did my nails.. He did a very good job for the first time.. And I told him that with a big hug and kiss to follow..

To end the night, I said wow this polish goes with those red shoes i bought and whore at ur baday .. He said Oh yes those shoes.. Could u put them on again .. hahah well I did 😉 and ill leave the rest of the details out lol 😉 ..

Cancer men are very sweet .. Well I cant speak for all but this one is a gem 🙂 however I still have alot of work to do in refining my Leo Attitude lol

Posted by wineaux
see! sometimes you have to read between the lines http://media.photobucket.com/image/wink emoticon/mbillgates/Emoticon/wink.gif?o=13" target="_blank">

Wineaux: I couldnt have done it without you.. Again Thx a million uve been in a huge help in understanding the cancer's ways .. Lets just hope he's real about us.. Well let me not think about that and just enjoy the moments 🙂

Im curious to hear another cancer man's input on my situation.. Meaning that the nail polish thing really caught me by surprise, no man has EVER asked to put nail polish on me .. It was a really cute gesture on his part so how could I refuse to put on my red shoes and parade around the house for him .. lol ( But Shhh dont tell him that I was planing too put them on anyways.. the bday gift he never got that night haha 😉

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Posted by Jessica777
😢 Ladies lets hold off on the congratulations lol .. This was another one of his side step moves lol .. I got a text today saying that " btw u could come with some friends cause theres gonna be alot of people".. So basically I was just another friend that he was inviting .. Im assuming cause i wrote back.. Good idea cause ull probably be busy entertaining ur guest and I dont wanna be left alone.. The responce I was hoping for was: No worries.. I wouldnt leave u alone.. But noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo I get a responce as such " hahaha I know" Ur kidding me right lol ... I then told him ill meet him there with my girl and have a drink ... Inhale from the nose and exhale from the mouth hahahaha repeat 20 times ...Basically ... Im still gonna go cause i have no reason not too .. Looking like a billion bucks haha just went to buy these gorgeous red stilettos to wear with my black dress grrrrrrrrrrr ..

Although I wont lie, my heart will melt if i see him hooking up with some girl .. 😢 But I wont show it lol.. At that point ill just leave hahaha.. Lets just hope that wont happen 😉

Maybe he just doesn't wanna seem obvious...

People are crazy!

Why does everyone have such a weird misconception of cancer? Why not just go into the situation w/ the energy you felt when he initially contacted you and even if you are with friends make your little play for him. Play his game. Check if he's receptive and then if not move on. Be like oh well it's been nice hanging out gots ta go! But you're doing yourself a disservice especially if you like him (and you know he knows it...) to not throw yourself at him once if you like him.

-CK

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Hey CK... Ur quite the cutie patootie ... Nice pic ..

Posted by Jessica777

Im curious to hear another cancer man's input on my situation.. Meaning that the nail polish thing really caught me by surprise, no man has EVER asked to put nail polish on me .. It was a really cute gesture on his part so how could I refuse to put on my red shoes and parade around the house for him .. lol ( But Shhh dont tell him that I was planing too put them on anyways.. the bday gift he never got that night haha 😉

i've heard of the nail polish thing before, it was also a cancer man and the only other time i've heard of it though, it is sweet isn't it? 🙂

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Posted by Jessica777

Im curious to hear another cancer man's input on my situation.. Meaning that the nail polish thing really caught me by surprise, no man has EVER asked to put nail polish on me .. It was a really cute gesture on his part so how could I refuse to put on my red shoes and parade around the house for him .. lol ( But Shhh dont tell him that I was planing too put them on anyways.. the bday gift he never got that night haha 😉

i've heard of the nail polish thing before, it was also a cancer man and the only other time i've heard of it though, it is sweet isn't it? 🙂

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It really was .. very sweet of him.. Showed me a side of him that I hadnt seen .. He always walks around with this rough exterior.. and to see his softer side was really nice 🙂

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maybe a feet thing for da crabbies?? anyone?

that i havent heard of for crabbies, and i'm not into it, lol. not even when i dated a pisces with beautiful feet, well, she had beautiful everything, i still wasn't into the feet.