@roxyfalcon2006
15 YearsVirgo
Are cancer men kinky?
The Cancer boy Im currently involved with is so sensual and gentle he likes touching he always has to be touching me in someway the first night we spent together we did allot of foreplay and he was so gentle and he held me all night so when we actually had sex I expected it to be the same way NOT AT ALL it was like a completely different person he was really rough and really fast he was hurting me allot it just came out of nowhere not what I was expecting at all Cancers are very receptive so he knew he was hurting me so he stopped and asked if I was alright and ok I said yes u just suprised me. So yea Cancers can be very kinky and naughty indeed kind of refreshing.
Posted by Ariesgirlonfire
The Cancer boy Im currently involved with is so sensual and gentle he likes touching he always has to be touching me in someway the first night we spent together we did allot of foreplay and he was so gentle and he held me all night so when we actually had sex I expected it to be the same way NOT AT ALL it was like a completely different person he was really rough and really fast he was hurting me allot it just came out of nowhere not what I was expecting at all Cancers are very receptive so he knew he was hurting me so he stopped and asked if I was alright and ok I said yes u just suprised me. So yea Cancers can be very kinky and naughty indeed kind of refreshing.
My cancer is the same with the foreplay and all of that but it continues through to actual intercourse as well.
I've tried so hard to get him to be a little more...intense or imaginative...but it doesn't work. Even tried finding out his fantasies...at first he said he didn't have any and then when he finally told me them they were very tame 😛
I'm hoping the 'kinky, naughty' side of him is just shelled up somewhere waiting to surface 😛
Posted by Ariesgirlonfire
The Cancer boy Im currently involved with is so sensual and gentle he likes touching he always has to be touching me in someway the first night we spent together we did allot of foreplay and he was so gentle and he held me all night so when we actually had sex I expected it to be the same way NOT AT ALL it was like a completely different person he was really rough and really fast he was hurting me allot it just came out of nowhere not what I was expecting at all Cancers are very receptive so he knew he was hurting me so he stopped and asked if I was alright and ok I said yes u just suprised me. So yea Cancers can be very kinky and naughty indeed kind of refreshing.My cancer is the same with the foreplay and all of that but it continues through to actual intercourse as well.
I've tried so hard to get him to be a little more...intense or imaginative...but it doesn't work. Even tried finding out his fantasies...at first he said he didn't have any and then when he finally told me them they were very tame 😛
I'm hoping the 'kinky, naughty' side of him is just shelled up somewhere waiting to surface 😛
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Shelled up in there is correct. I'm a cancer man, would take a very high comfort level to get that out of me but it's there.
Posted by Ariesgirlonfire
The Cancer boy Im currently involved with is so sensual and gentle he likes touching he always has to be touching me in someway the first night we spent together we did allot of foreplay and he was so gentle and he held me all night so when we actually had sex I expected it to be the same way NOT AT ALL it was like a completely different person he was really rough and really fast he was hurting me allot it just came out of nowhere not what I was expecting at all Cancers are very receptive so he knew he was hurting me so he stopped and asked if I was alright and ok I said yes u just suprised me. So yea Cancers can be very kinky and naughty indeed kind of refreshing.My cancer is the same with the foreplay and all of that but it continues through to actual intercourse as well.
I've tried so hard to get him to be a little more...intense or imaginative...but it doesn't work. Even tried finding out his fantasies...at first he said he didn't have any and then when he finally told me them they were very tame 😛
I'm hoping the 'kinky, naughty' side of him is just shelled up somewhere waiting to surface 😛
Shelled up in there is correct. I'm a cancer man, would take a very high comfort level to get that out of me but it's there.
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My Cancer is on a cusp a Gemini Cancer maybe thats why hes a little freaky deaky? & I know Cancers are known for being into breasts but hes the opposite hes really into my bum 🙂 & Typical Scorpio yes im sure he has a kinky side but maybe hes just not comfortable letting it all out how long have you guys been together?
Cosaxi - Awesome, that gives me a bit of hope 😛 I just find it hard to believe when someone says they don't have a fantasy...but then again Scorps are supposed to be the most sexual of the zodiac so maybe I'm generalising too much.
Airesgirlonfire - My cancer's venus is in gemini and he's the 28th of june...so he misses the cusp by a few days but he has a big gemini influence in his chart.
I try to figure out what he likes in woman but he tells me "It's not the appearance I care about, it's the heart and our connection that gets me."
We've only been together for 2 and a half months but we went to primary school together so I don't know if that would help him feel more comfortable with me or not.
I found that when I would ask him he would mention things like school uniforms or other things and then say he was joking...which kinda threw my confidence so I've backed off trying to find out.
He also jokes about handcuffs but he says it in such serious ways that I feel put down when I try supporting what he says.
Posted by TypicalScorpio
Cosaxi - Awesome, that gives me a bit of hope 😛 I just find it hard to believe when someone says they don't have a fantasy...but then again Scorps are supposed to be the most sexual of the zodiac so maybe I'm generalising too much.Airesgirlonfire - My cancer's venus is in gemini and he's the 28th of june...so he misses the cusp by a few days but he has a big gemini influence in his chart.
I try to figure out what he likes in woman but he tells me "It's not the appearance I care about, it's the heart and our connection that gets me."
We've only been together for 2 and a half months but we went to primary school together so I don't know if that would help him feel more comfortable with me or not.
I found that when I would ask him he would mention things like school uniforms or other things and then say he was joking...which kinda threw my confidence so I've backed off trying to find out.
He also jokes about handcuffs but he says it in such serious ways that I feel put down when I try supporting what he says.
How cool! my Cancers Venus is in Gemini also! it sounds like hes using jokes as a way to cover up what he really feels hmmm or maybe he feels guilty for having even having taboo fantasys like hes almost repressed them away or something or he probably hasnt fully explored that part of himself yet maybe as you continue to earn his trust he might open up and want to try new things with you. Cancers dont like change or anything new and if they are even considering anything new they have to think about it for a very long time so hes probably comfortable with the way you guys are having sex right now maybe he just needs a little time before he wants to switch things up.
@ariesgirlonfire...right! The cancer can surely surprise you...mine very gentle...gentlemanly but our first kiss very rough...rape like...my first instinct was to panic as I am very protective of myself...he def has a kinky side...very rough and soft at the same time...but rough?! Normal? Different from most other relationships I've had? Gentle yet extremely rough??
@missscorp LOL yea thats exactly how I would describe mine Gently rough so funny!
My cancer guy is Virgo ascendant and Leo Venus. He's also close to the Gemini cusp too (June 26) does that make a difference?
If there's a great connection with the girl, then I'm all for it as long as she's taking a lot of pleasure out of it. That's honestly what's more important to me than my own needs, and if she's kinky, then I'll be kinky too 😛
If there's not much of a connection, it's just whatever. Then again, I guess it depends on what you mean by "kinky" since we all have fantasies
Me and my Cancer are both Venus in Gemini I notice in social situations we both give eachother allot of space to socialize we both talk allot abt nonsense and we have the same sense of humor. Sometimes he'll flirt with girls right infront of me and Ill flirt with guys infront of him we don't really get mad at eachotherPpl will tell me you were flirting with that dude right infront of him that's so mean and ill be like ew no not even I was just talking to that dude so yea we have no intention of flirting its like the furthest thing from our minds but it just looks that way.
Cancers are so GOOD in bed awesome!!!
Breath taking!!
mine was very gentlemanly and sensual at first...a lot of foreplay. definitely loves to hold me all night.
but when we actually got down to it, i realized that he's definitely got a really strong drive and is intense.
it's the strongest connection i've ever felt and the best sex i've ever had....
i've never met anyone who can match my drive and intensity until this cancer guy.
I would say I'm kinky when my partners kinky and rough when they like it rough , I can admit to the starting soft and ending rough but for me its always tied to the responses my partner gives me. If I see that she isn't enjoying herself I immediately adjust things to get the love coaster back on track 😛 . I am a reciprocator,I get pleasure from giving pleasure ,so when she has a cupidity for soft ,deep ,and sensual I'm fine with that, but if she wants to take it up a few notches I'm prepared to accomodate such inclinations 😉.
Posted by littlearcher
mine was very gentlemanly and sensual at first...a lot of foreplay. definitely loves to hold me all night.but when we actually got down to it, i realized that he's definitely got a really strong drive and is intense.
it's the strongest connection i've ever felt and the best sex i've ever had....
i've never met anyone who can match my drive and intensity until this cancer guy.
You put the words right out of my mouth...!!!
Exactly..it's the strongest connection and best sex I've ever had. So intense, deep & amazing!
Hmmm Cancer men...........
I would agree with pnoklo, I think for all of a cancer's selfish tendencies, in bed, we are pleasers. We like to put you first, and take enjoyment from that. I feel that there is very little that is off limits for me sexually. Very open minded, and "kinky." I think breeching the subject with the partner is often the issue... we are shy you know, so if you show your cards I'll put mine on the table... and I often have kinkier tendencies than most would've thought.
yes i m kinda kinky.... i will like to try different stuff from time to time ...but a connection is very necessary.
I'd definitely have to agree! Very much so...mine was so slow to get started it almost worried me & now he's like this hungry beast! Who knew
Posted by pnokio
I would say I'm kinky when my partners kinky and rough when they like it rough , I can admit to the starting soft and ending rough but for me its always tied to the responses my partner gives me. If I see that she isn't enjoying herself I immediately adjust things to get the love coaster back on track 😛 . I am a reciprocator,I get pleasure from giving pleasure ,so when she has a cupidity for soft ,deep ,and sensual I'm fine with that, but if she wants to take it up a few notches I'm prepared to accomodate such inclinations 😉.
^that
That is the typical cancer way imo.
Pleasure derived from giving pleasure, therefor if partner seems sensual, sensual sex it will be, if partner seems to want kinky, it will be kinky.
we are very receptive.
X husband is cancer, as well as a few x bf's.
true for all.
Does it require some type of comfort level on a cancers behalf before they show that side? Took me by surprise
lol Me Kinky? NEVER! More like freaky...
Kinky is all fun and games.
Freaky might get you arrested and a book deal out of it.
Kinky would make your best friend blush.
Freaky would make your family disown you.
Kinky is where you think you should have your own porno of it.
Freaky is where you can't believe there is a porno of it.
Enough said?
You know...Scorpio is the 5th sign away from Cancer.
The Fifth House: Self-Expression, Creativity, Pleasure, & Romance ...Scorpio sex, death and rebirth, personal growth and transformation, regeneration.
I see there's quite a difference!
Posted by missscorp123
Does it require some type of comfort level on a cancers behalf before they show that side? Took me by surprise
Absolutely.
Cancers is probably the most insecure sign. If they are confident enough to show a side of themselves that could potentially be rejected by you they are showing great trust in you.
I've heard about the inaecurity thing, however the come across completely different
So in other words this side don't just come out at random, there's trust involved
Posted by missscorp123
I've heard about the inaecurity thing, however the come across completely different
So in other words this side don't just come out at random, there's trust involved
Or he knows you are a Scorp who likes it kinky and is simply catering to your needs.
Why not ask him?
Posted by pnokio
I would say I'm kinky when my partners kinky and rough when they like it rough , I can admit to the starting soft and ending rough but for me its always tied to the responses my partner gives me. If I see that she isn't enjoying herself I immediately adjust things to get the love coaster back on track 😛 . I am a reciprocator,I get pleasure from giving pleasure ,so when she has a cupidity for soft ,deep ,and sensual I'm fine with that, but if she wants to take it up a few notches I'm prepared to accomodate such inclinations 😉.^that
That is the typical cancer way imo.
Pleasure derived from giving pleasure, therefor if partner seems sensual, sensual sex it will be, if partner seems to want kinky, it will be kinky.
we are very receptive.
X husband is cancer, as well as a few x bf's.
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this has been driving me batshit since yesterday
I meant PERCEPTIVE not receptive.
Why are there no edit options on posts 😢
-has fit-
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So my cancer's friend was telling me how he's drunkenly admitted to them that he likes it "rough and naughty", not really sure what that means exactly but it kind of surprised me lol. I saw him this weekend and he held me the entire night, something I normally hate but with him it was very comfortable. It just seems like totally different behavior from a guy that apparently likes it "rough and naughty" haha. So how do most cancers like it?