CAN THEY BE FAITHFUL

If a cancer man has been unfaithful to everywomen he's ever been with, can eventually decide she's the one and become a faithful husband?

I think it depends on how every woman he has been with carry herself in his eyes. Yeah, he can find the right one if she stands out from the average woman who he is used to and now days because it is a female/male shortage, most women have become average. You have to be better than the average bear.

thats like asking a lion to be a vegetarian/vegan, it can happen, but don't bet on it.

Is your opinion a general opinion because he is a cheaters or because he is a Cancer man?

That's what I thought...

They say men in general get tired of runnin around and eventually want to settle down... That usually happens sometime in their early to mid 30's...

lol Yeah that explains it all... Your a baby!!!

why would a shortage make people average.

It should do just the opposite.

Well...

With a shortage of men...wouldnt woman have to become more than avergae to catch and keep the atention of their potential mate. You have to stand out from the rest to be chosen dont you. Scaricty brings compeition; especially if its a hot commodity.

True...but now due to the ratio of women to men...its the men who have become mediocre and it may not be all their fault, because many women let them.

I have many close male platonic friends and all of them have cheated in past relationships. However after a some of them found their Ms. Right and fell in love with her, they became faithful. Some of their signs are Aquarius, Libra, Virgo, Taurus, Sagittarius, and Scorpio. They are in their late 20s, early 30s and 1 is in his 50s. I once thought that "once a cheater, always a cheater" but these guys have proved to me that its not true.

The others that cheat have admitted to me that the person they were with wasn't the right person for them, the girl wasn't sexual enough, they had committment issues, they weren't ready to settle down or there were problems within the relationship & they were too chicken to work it out or break up. The players I know use the excuse that they are not married so it doesn't matter, yet if their girlfriend cheated on them they would hate it. Other players say that they can separate sex from love so they are faithful because only their girl has their heart & one-night stands are meaningless. I also know some guys that are faithful but once they decide they want to break up, they cheat while looking for a new girlfriend. Once they find a new girlfriend, they break up with the old one. These guys are the type that hate being alone so they go from one relationship to the next without a break.

So to sum things up, I think it all depends on the person.

Very good insight Cap

I think that men change. Just because he's a player, doesn't mean he will always be a player.

I read that men can get tired of being a player... they get tired of the same type of easy chicks, they get tired of feeling lonely and empty.

Sometimes they don't realize what they want, until they see their friends happily getting married and having children, then they start to think about meeting a QUALITY woman.

But once a dawg, not always a dawg. They do grow up.

True...but now due to the ratio of women to men...its the men who have become mediocre and it may not be all their fault, because many women let them.


This is so true, they do not want to be mediocre. That's why a woman who raises the bar, will always win. There's so many women fighting for men, it's sickening the things that some women tolerate and accept in a relationship.