Cancer Female and Gemini Male

Every single book I read says we suck together! Does anyone have any feedback? :-) I have been dating a Gem for 2 years now and sometimes it does suck. hahahah

well my dads a cancer 7/17 like u, and my moms a gemini. they've been married for 35 years. sometimes i think they should have gotten a divorce. i know they love each other but i can see the differences and problems. it seems to be alot of work.

Those who suck together stay together until someone get a bucket of cold water.

I second the book burning

If you can read this thank a teacher its in english so thank a soldier also.

Hey cj7, there you are-where have you been my little friend?How are things going for you-better I hope. I posted a reply for you on the Libra board-k. crabby 69, I don't know much about a Libra and Genini paring except that all the books say the same thing about my Cancer. They say that Libra and Cancer are not a good match, we do have our little ups and downs but have been together for awhile also. I thing I will check it out though just to see if your paring is any better than mine. Bye Tw2

I guess I should burn the books hahah. We get along really good...but sometimes I feel like I am talking to a toaster. He doesnt make any sense and then he changes his mind......but all in all he is a good cookiemonster....hahaha Thanks guys

I didnt write cookie monster in there by the way...but now i know you cant say the Bit@# word hehe

Hey Parallax.....I hear your from New Jersey—? Me too. Blueberries are good huh?

Parallax, how long was the relationship? If you don't mind my asking. (Just curious.)

Parallax...yes, I do remember that story. I was just thinking about it the other day, actually. I certainly do remember.

How do you feel about her now?

Also I've never heard the term "pagan Catholic", or were you making the point that her family sees all Catholics as pagans? ("Pagan", I thought, meant without religion...I could very easily be wrong on that.)

I really admire the fact that you stayed true to what you really believed. In this way, you will attract whoever you are truly meant to be with.

Do you feel like you've moved past the whole thing now?

You asked what made me remember that story...actually I've never really forgotten it. I think it's one of the earliest posts by you that I'd read...I *think*. I actually plan on responding to your first post on the Pisces board, soon. (If that was your first post.)

I agree very much about laughter and having fun being important elements. Any relationships I've ever had with guys who didn't make me laugh, didn't last long at all. Of course there needs to be a balance between being able to laugh and being able to be serious with each other/be taken seriously -- but there must always be the laughter. There is so much inherent trauma and sadness in life, that your partner should be the person who can pull you out of it and lighten your heart.

Does love really get harder as you get older? That's an interesting perspective. I was hoping it would get easier. Very cool about your Pisces friend helping you through the thing. I do think that's very much fate, or God, or at least some kind of divine influence. You know I really wish I would have responded to that post of yours as soon as I'd read it - I've wished that many times. I'm not sure why I didn't; definitely not a personal thing, it was either (and this is nearly always the case) that I lost track of the thread, or thought that other poster(s) gave a better response than I could have. Anyway, I'd still like to respond to it but also I completely get that you don't want it bumped back up to the top, so I will fenagle (spelling??) something (I'll figure something out). 😛 (There are a few threads I've started and/or posted on, that I wish would die, never to be read again...lol. Perfectly understandable, teaser. lol!) Although I suppose there is something to be said for those people who look back at something they said unapologetically, and remain militant about it, based on the reasoning that "it was the way I felt at the time". But I'm not really one of those people, so I don't know what I'm saying...🙂 Actually I just now in this moment decided that I think it's more admirable to be humble about what you (meaning "someone") has said or ranted about in the past. Because it indicates that you've grown past the anger. And that is an accomplishment and one of the hardest things to do sometimes.

Now, about this outing thing...I'm not sure whether you meant to say "ousting", or "outing", but we'll go with "outing" meaning "made people aware of". (In a non-sexuality-related sense.) But do correct me, if I'm wrong. I did "out" Suzy-Q based solely on the fact that she was decieving everyone here including myself on purpose and I had a big huge moral issue with that. On top of the deception she was also an unnecessarily mean, judgemental and in her last days here, outright harrassing personality who had by that time called me every single name in the book as well as a lot of others here and I was fully prepared to leave the boards and never, ever come back if she was going to be allowed to do all that. So if you meant "ousting", I didn't actually do that - dxpnet (the moderator) did that, and not just because I wanted him to, either it was because she was a horribly negative, deceptive and harrassing person. Her final posts before she was officially banned from the boards are gone now, they were so nasty, and my fight with her got so nasty that I asked dxpnet if he would please just delete them. She even used disgusting, harrassing language toward the moderator! So anyway, you might already know all of this but on the off-chance that you didn't (lol...) I felt the need to explain. It had nothing, nothing nothing to do with having multiple personalities - if that's all it had been, I wouldn't have cared. It was the lying and pretending to genuinely *be* all these different people (not to mention the nastiness) that bothered me. Sorry about the lengthy explanation. I just didn't want you to think I had been unreasonable.

So what I'm saying is...I think it would be awesome if you posted under a different username as well as "Parallax". Because we all know that you are an honest person who would never dream of lying to anyone around here. 🙂 (Ahem...do it, do it. 😛)

I have read your Cha

Interesting that you and the Gemini got along so well - usually water & air combinations are cautioned against. I briefly, briefly dated an air sign (Libra) and, well, it was very brief. 🙂 I could most definitely pick up on the differences in temperment between the two of us.

When did you start getting interested in Astrology? Would you say you've dated a lot of Geminis? Ever known a Scorpio in your everyday life?

And this ends the interrogation period. 😛 (sorry...)

Cracklin' Oat Bran...I've never tried that! And I consider myself to be somewhat of a Cereal Conoisseur. Spelling? 😛 How do you feel about Honey Bunches of Oats? I love it. I love the thinly sliced almonds and delicate flavor of honey. And the crunchy nutball things. Not sure what they are but boy, are they yummy. 😛

Poor Parallax, being verbally harrassed by the bluebird (those things really can be noisy sometimes, same deal at my place. lol) So did he shut up like a good little bird? 🙂

How was your vacation? Or is it still going? I wish I could take one again now, because all the back-to-school hoopla is making work pretty busy and draining. Oh well, it'll be over soon. And then, CHRISTMAS! (In retail-ese: NIGHTMARE!) 🙂 I have a work thing I'm going to ask your advice on soon.

Thank you for backing me up on the Suzy thing. I am glad that you don't think I was unreasonable. Sometimes scorpios do actually care what others think, 'specially *important* "others". You called me a little tiger, and that was cute and made me laugh. lol. I do have a temper, but it's latent for the most part until I really think it needs to come out and smack someone, figuratively speaking. As I get older and wiser, my temper...is tempering. 🙂 I highly doubt that you would ever be the target or cause of it - we get along too freakishly well.

I completely knew your train of thought when I was reading the story as far as Abigail getting to do some rescuing and not being just the damsel in distress. When you say you were thisclose to not doing it, do you mean you almost didn't add the part about the hospital? I'm so glad you did - it added so, so much to the depth of the entire story. Now we've got a new/added setting, and therefore a bigger cast of characters, and therefore more opportunity for dialogue, and as a result of all of this we now have a whole new slew (sp?) of options for where the story could go. Her brother was adequately annoying, yes. 😛 I would have definitely thrown something at him. Good choice there.

I did pick up on the doctor's name, and thought it was very clever! I noticed the asterisk and now I'm all excited to learn more about the Stone of Scone. I could, of course, research it myself and save you the trouble of having to explain it to me (if you'd like). You always make information more interesting somehow, though. 🙂

I think you have an exceptionally healthy outlook on astrology. You accept enough to get the general idea but reject anything that would be too exclusive or inclusive. Very balanced. I started studying astrology when I was about twelve, was instantly fascinated and started accumulating a lot of books on the subject, started following my horoscope (not so much anymore, but sometimes I still do), and found that my favorite astrologer and the only one I truly trust is Linda Goodman. The very first astrology book I ever bought is called "Sun Signs" and it's authored by her. It was published I think in the late 60s. She has a wonderfully funny, but shockingly accurate style about her writing and I really think the next time you're in a bookstore you should skim through some of her sign descriptions (she's got quite a few books - another good one is Love Signs). I think you would like her. She died a while back but she is definitely one of the most respected astrologers of all time.

Your mom is a scorpio, that rocks. I bet that's one of the best mother/child combos out there. Leo sister - I am not suprised about the childhood fighting but I'm also not suprised you've both grown out of that now. 😛 Are you the older brother or the younger brother? About your old cancer girlfriend being jealous of your friendship with the gemini - I can see both sides. You make perfect sense, perfect, logical man-sense - lol - but water signs (particularly scorpio and cancer) can be very easily made jealous. Not all, of course

P.S.

I speak on behalf of all Scorpios when I say this: we are delighted that you would be intrigued to date one of us. We are delighted also to inform you that we would be intrigued to date one of you Cancers, just the same. 🙂