Hey ..i met this guy over Tinder ...we chatted for a few weeks before we met up. We had two dates and on the second day we slept with each other. he was sweet and caring . Msged me almost every day, but then a few days after our second date he changed. He wasnt all that communicative. Stop msg and went all quiet on me. When i told him i didnt like it , he said he needed to be quiet. I told him i wont msg him again as i dint want to msg someone who wasnt wiling to be spoken to. Also that when he reads and ignores my msgs i don like it. its been a week and he hasnt msg me back. Should i msg him / wait for him to make the first move/ forget him and move on. Any advice guys ?
Cancer guy goes silent

You should probably forget him and move on. You could wait a lifetime on one of us cancers too come back too you. Stay off tinder! if you want too meet a good guy. Try okcupid or matchdotcom. Dont sleep with a guy after the 2nd date. I wanna rant but ugh live n learn...

You were an option from the get go. Move on. You gave services before a relationship contract was given.

whats with people sleeping with others really quickly these days—?
its not a race
its not a race
Posted by nyx100
whats with people sleeping with others really quickly these days—?
its not a race
isn't that the point of tinder though? lol

🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva

Are you still only messaging through the app?
If so, he was just in it for the booty.
Someone whose interested in more, even just a repeat of the sex would've hit you up for the digits.
If so, he was just in it for the booty.
Someone whose interested in more, even just a repeat of the sex would've hit you up for the digits.
Posted by Cannedcappie88
You should probably forget him and move on. You could wait a lifetime on one of us cancers too come back too you. Stay off tinder! if you want too meet a good guy. Try okcupid or matchdotcom. Dont sleep with a guy after the 2nd date. I wanna rant but ugh live n learn...
It is quite stupid from a cancer guy to judge a girl based on when he slept with her. Even though he never tried to get to know her. There are many couples who ended up in a relationship after sleeping on a first date. Cancers are just limited in their way of thinking.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →