cancer guys...

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Tex-Can
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** cancer-taurus relationship not working, where have i seen this before? **

I'm one and sure not the only one I bet haha. 🙂

Can I get one thing straightened out? When you post a private message is that the message that pops up as "The user who posted this message has hidden it."? That means only the person they intended to read can see it right?

As for the original topic at hand... I demand an astrological experiment. Need to get 5 women from each sign to my place and make out with me in order to find out if Cancers are really good at making out. I'll publish the results in a 50 page report and write a book about it, hopefully landing a movie role in the process. :p

As for this fight, I'll just steer clear out of this one and watch from the sidelines. Popcorn anyone?
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YaMama
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18 Years

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I usually stay on the sidelines but let's assume for a moment that everything said is true. It may be time for the bull to take her horns and move on. Only the 2 people involved really know what's going on but in my opinion if you've asked for privacy and that's not respected then the only thing you can do is walk away.

I'm sure there's more to it but just from reading what's been posted here it's gotten out of hand. If you've asked anyone to refrain from doing something because it hurts you and they continually keep doing it knowing it hurts you then that says to me that it's time to let them go if they are not willing to compromise. You can't change a person's behavior they have to want to change it themselves out of respect and consideration for the other person.

I'm not taking sides in the situation but I am trying to be objective given the information that's been posted here. A person's actions do speak loud.

Peace of mind is priceless!
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YaMama
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Then it sounds like acceptance may be the rule of the day. If 1 person has made a decision about something important to both parties then the other person should find a way to either accept that person's decision and be able to be acquainted with that person on a friendly basis or let that person go.

Maybe some time and space is needed to allow the person to come to terms with the decision the other has made. It's a sensitive area that we are speaking about and when it comes to matters of the heart it's never cut and dry. If both parties have communicated clearly what they want then both parties should be on the same page. However, knowing something and accepting it are 2 different things. Once the mind accepts the decision then the emotional part can follow but that takes more time. Patience and the passage of time...I know easier said then done...one day at a time.
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Tex-Can
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** or you can accept the realtionship is completely dysfunctional...move on..and try to get a real life...non message board oriented relationship. highly advisable. for all parties and observers. **

Damnit leokitten, I was hoping I'd find my wife here... 😉

Seriously though angel and cj, it might be time to re-evaluate your relationship and whether or not it's worth continuing.
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YaMama
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Sometimes you just gotta know when to hold 'em and when to fold 'em...know when to walk away and know when to run. Each person has their perspective on the situation and you both may have to agree to disagree about who did what to whom and when, how and why it happened. It may be time for some serious reflection and eventually come to a decision whether or not you both want to keep going through this. It just doesn't seem to be working for either of you.

Again, I'm trying to be objective and give a sincere, unbiased opinion...albeit unsolicited. I have been in this situation several years ago myself and eventually had to just let it go for my own sanity!
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xangelfishx
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one more thing: leokitten, mspisces, and starfish - You three need to get a life. You think you're a bunch of bad asses running around here judging everyone.

I hid my comments [I'm referring to the original ones] and that is all I can do - I can't delete them and I made the best effort I could to keep anyone from reading them. Saying something I regretted later in a moment of anger and hurt has nothing to do with being insecure. So if the three of you want to pick on me go ahead - who the hell are you to judge me?

"stop hijacking threads with your crazy emotions" Who the hell do you think you are?
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BlackKnoxx
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18 Years

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huh— TGIFfffff did i hijack the board by saying TGIF?lol. But yes we are the best makeout people in the world, huggggggssss angelfish come one now. Hey evryone vents and touches a nerve sometimes. BUt anyways if its anything the BEST THING in THe world that is free is AIRRRRRRRR... my crazy cancer thought of the day.And by the way things going on this planet earth we might pay for air. HAVE A TGIFFFFFFFF.
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Lady_taurus
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"You know...when MULTIPLE people all agree on what to call your conduct...maybe it is not the "people" who are wrong...maybe the "people" actually have a point. Maybe, just maybe, you are the one with the problem."

As I recall... there are a few people on here that vent...the same few are the ones calling the kettle black. Seems like the you guys just wanted to jump right in and sink your teeth into this one. Like CJ said it is not a big deal... why aggravate the situation. Ok she said some things... but she was angry and she hid them after she wrote some stuff out of the act of anger.

Move on... ya'll are some real haters! Just because CJ and Angel are actually members of DXP... it doesn't make it any different from someone who comes on and vents about the issues that they are facing in their current relationship... the only difference is that the other person probably has no clue that their business is being discussed on a public forum and if they had a chance they would also attempt to defend themselves, hence the public fighting.

Ya'll need to grow up and stop attacking people. It's so funny that with all the good advice that Angel posts on here no one jumps on it and agrees, but the minute she shows any kind of weakness... ya'll are on her like a vulture on dead meat. That speaks volumes on the kind of people you really are.
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xangelfishx
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I really would love it if this whole thing would just DROP - but I'll say it once more....LK you DON'T KNOW WHAT I SAID because I hid the posts. So you can't talk about the comments being appropriate/innapropriate or otherwise - even cj doesn't know what they said. So no one can comment about that - and my other comments afterwards were defending myself about the angry comments posted AFTER I already hid what I wrote. So you're only proving my point here by continuing to talk about how my comments about cj's original post make look insecure, etc. YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT THE COMMENTS WERE SO YOU DON'T KNOW HOW THEY DEPICT ME.


So let's just drop it....unless you REALLY have NOTHING better to do......