Cancer guys please help

You have been posting about this guy for the last 2 weeks. Almost the same, word for word. And each time, everyone has told you to move on. At this point, you are kinda becoming a broken record.

So with that, I will just paste my last comment, in your last thread, about the same guy.

Posted by nikkistar
First, I don't know how people fall in love in a matter of weeks. That's ridiculous to me, personally.

However, here's a hint, if a guy/girl ends up talking about an ex more often than not, they aren't over their exes.

On a side note, Cancer men imo, tend to want the ever-after type of relationship once they get married. If there is a chance at reconciliation with someone they loved very deeply, they will. Even if that person has done a multitude of crappy things, and even if the new person is amazing, they will go back.

Does he care about you? Yes. Does he miss you? Yes. But to him, she holds more value because he has history with her. There's nothing you can do or say to persuade him to leave her, he's going to have to learn things the hard way.

And chances are, she only reached out to him because she probably knew about you. And she doesn't want him to move on from her.

Delete his number and all other contact info, and burn the bridges that can lead him back to you. Sail away.

If there is an ex involved whether or not they are back together, you gotta bounce. I would not underestimate a crab's ability to cling and hold on to something or someone, and you will waste a lot of energy and not get anything in return.

I agree with the above posts. Why would you want to compete for someones attention. The fact is he has chosen his ex and it shows a low self confidence that you would continue to want someone who doesn't want to be with you. Work on yourself and in the future you will probably meet someone who is more reliable and emotionally available.