Calling all cancer women out there. How do you like to be courted? How to impress you and get you out of your shell? I know every Cancer lady is different but just want to see if there's anything that sticks out. I like this Cancer girl, haven't known her long. Like to reel her in.
Cancer Ladies! How to impress you?

You're a Cancer man, how do you think we like to be courted?
You would figure I would know. But I'm just trying to be careful with this one. Good mannerisms, confident but not cocky, good hygiene, dress in style . Be romantic with a good sense of humor. I read something to be direct with you but I don't want to scare her off if I fail. Guess that's where fear of rejection comes in. I can get her to snapchat me a lot one day and texts one day like yesterday. But I snapchat and texted her today....no answer. And I can see she's seen my snaps. — What am I missing here? This is giving me flashbacks with the libra playing hot and cold.

Maybe you're trying too hard on making a good impression and she's not sensing you being yourself.

I am very interested in this topic too. My feeling is that perhaps for one thing you shouldn't try to rush things as I tried this recently with a fantastic Cancer woman that I was in contact with through a dating website who I am sure was perfect for me but I was pressing her to meet me (I mean, perhaps too soon) and this seemed to piss her off and she blocked me.

I don't know for sure what it was though as she didn't say. 😢
Well that's where I'm at. Not sure why im so impatient but trying to be careful with this one. After a handful of texts and snaps yesterday back and forth. I've sent one of each today and no response, so leaving it at that and trying to be patient. I would think I could click with this one since all of my best friends are Cancers. That was before I knew about astrology.

I click with Cancers, but haven't really had one that made a connection in the chemistry department. It always feels like siblings.
I've had no success with cancer in the love department. Just have a lot of friends that are cancers. I dated a Scorpio woman and goodness gracious that was an intense woman. I miss the feelings I had with her...but she cheated on me.
I turned down a Gemini, libra, capricorn, and Saggittarius. Will admit they looked pretty fine but didn't believe I would click with them.

Posted by Cancer2448
Calling all cancer women out there. How do you like to be courted? How to impress you and get you out of your shell? I know every Cancer lady is different but just want to see if there's anything that sticks out. I like this Cancer girl, haven't known her long. Like to reel her in.
what is your moon sign?
Scorpio

So many Scorpio moons in dxp these days. Should not be a problem for you. In a cancer-cancer dating scene, one of you need to take the lead and be the aggressive one in the beginning. Depends on what kind of cancer girl she is. I like to do simple and fun things on dates and I like a guy with a good sense of humor. I need to have an intellectual connection.I also get turned off by clingy guys. My other cancer girlfriends like classy places wine and dine and they are a bit girly girly. So it depends on what kind of a girl she is.
Well I don't think I've come off as clingy...yet and hopefully won't. I haven't been aggressive. I see on her social media site that she goes out and has drinks with her girlfriends, like wine. So yup you're right. I think upscale fits her too.

Be traditional and gentlemanly. Call her up. Ask her out to dinner. Pick her up at her place. Open car doors. Treat her like a lady.
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