Cancer male fwb... coming back for what?

Ok ended up hooking up with a cancer male about a yr ago n I'm.a cancer female so I thought it would be great.We started hittin the sack very quickly non stop for about 4 months.until he started to pull away telling me we were just f******.basically tore my heart out n washed his underarms with it.so I'm heartbroken finding it hard to continue on while he basically cut off all contact with me so I had no choice but to leave him be .well now he's back...knowing I want a relationship not a cheap fling...does that mean he wants to secretly just get the p again or does he want the same thing I want this time around....I haven't replied to him yet I been doing a lot of thinking on one hand I don't want to get hurt again but on the other hand I had feelings for him n before now nothing woulda made me happier then to get back with him....ANY CANCER MEN WILLING TO GIVE A LITTLE ADVICE...I'm so conflicted

....just to.add we were starting to get close ....sleeping together n not leaving his house for days at a time so when he said that I was confused n hurt...he treated me like gold n vise versa...if he does want a relationship how can I stop being angry at him for hurting me...how do I give him a fair chance if hes really sincere about it.

Is crab on crab ever a cheap fling?

He just wants sex, and yes Cancer men can use you for sex.
Two Crabs doing this FWB is a disaster.
The best thing for you to do is, ignore him and move on.
Or you will be repeating the same cycle of having sex and expecting him to commit.

Eh, not exactly the same cycle. The sex won't be all that great now because you're all fucked up and over thinking.

Posted by aquavita
Wow life of billionaires 🙂. ( not leaving house for days ) 🙂

Lol let me rephrased that....I would spend nights at his house a lot

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by starlover
He is coming back for S-E-X

If you want to be totally sure, sit him down and say *i am not willing to be in a FWB thing anymore, i want commitment and a relationship*

See what he does

Yep don't have sex, do other things for a couple months, see if he'll stick around tell him what you looking for.

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sounds fair enough for both of you i guess.. if you can forgive him though. Don't start with baggage from the past. Anyway, if he pushed your boundaries (eg: sex n whatever u dont want this time) let him go for good.

You can't bait a man with sex. Smh. Most woman are doing that now a days... so basically he can get it anywhere anytime... what makes you think you're any different?

You have to base your relationship around more than just sex, but from what you are saying it seems like that is what your relationship is... just sex. Why should he want more if you're not offering more?

Def not baiting him with anything...he came back on his own knowing I want more then what we were doing....I just don't know his motives this time around.But again I'm def not baiting him with anything.I don't think u understood what I was saying.