Annoyek
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Cancer Male FWB 'Dumped' Me....
Posted by Maddy
They always come back unless you've done something really bad to them. Give him time when he is ready he will come back
lol, that's hilarious
You say it's a FWB's. That is NOT a relationship.
He says it's run its course. He won't be back.
He says it's run its course. He won't be back.
How could he dump you if you were just a piece of ass on the side?
TO ALL:
Gee, I can't say "dumped" or "relationship"? *sighs*.....FINE! 🙂
-It was a Friend With Benefits........"thing".
-He said that it has 'run its course'=I found somebody else. Why couldn't he just said THAT?
-Yes, I liked him--duh--he was attractive and I wanted sex from him (which I didn't get). No relationship with him was in the cards. We only has sex once, it was terrible, and after that it was all about him and getting oral gratification. Not once did the mf-er returned the favor. Which led me to believe that he wasn't attracted to me from the beginning, but I digress...
- I'm upset as to how he carried it--I think he could've been a little less bitchy and just been honest instead of dragging it out or worse--ignoring me like furniture. Who does that?
Hope this helps some..........but I fear it doesn't. LOL
Gee, I can't say "dumped" or "relationship"? *sighs*.....FINE! 🙂
-It was a Friend With Benefits........"thing".
-He said that it has 'run its course'=I found somebody else. Why couldn't he just said THAT?
-Yes, I liked him--duh--he was attractive and I wanted sex from him (which I didn't get). No relationship with him was in the cards. We only has sex once, it was terrible, and after that it was all about him and getting oral gratification. Not once did the mf-er returned the favor. Which led me to believe that he wasn't attracted to me from the beginning, but I digress...
- I'm upset as to how he carried it--I think he could've been a little less bitchy and just been honest instead of dragging it out or worse--ignoring me like furniture. Who does that?
Hope this helps some..........but I fear it doesn't. LOL
Posted by Annoyek
TO ALL:
Gee, I can't say "dumped" or "relationship"? *sighs*.....FINE! 🙂
-It was a Friend With Benefits........"thing".
-He said that it has 'run its course'=I found somebody else. Why couldn't he just said THAT?
-Yes, I liked him--duh--he was attractive and I wanted sex from him (which I didn't get). No relationship with him was in the cards. We only has sex once, it was terrible, and after that it was all about him and getting oral gratification. Not once did the mf-er returned the favor. Which led me to believe that he wasn't attracted to me from the beginning, but I digress...
- I'm upset as to how he carried it--I think he could've been a little less bitchy and just been honest instead of dragging it out or worse--ignoring me like furniture. Who does that? Also, I'm pissed that I didn't have any fun!
Hope this helps some..........but I fear it doesn't. LOL
That is an AHOLE Jerk off Im a Cancer i aighnt Rude like that
what is FWB—
Friend with Benefits=FWB
Posted by MelanieM123
what is FWB—
Cunt-on-demand. Lay-there Sally. etc...
Posted by Cancer1986LeoCuspPosted by Maddy
They always come back unless you've done something really bad to them. Give him time when he is ready he will come back
lol, that's hilariousclick to expand
ya, seriously... and especially in this case
she sucked his dick... while he basically put in no effort and now he's BORED with that
what exactly would he be —cuming back?? for... bad head?
and what about you Annoyek? what were your benefits in this FWB scenario?
the world confuses me so... 😢
Posted by shellshockerPosted by Cancer1986LeoCuspPosted by Maddy
They always come back unless you've done something really bad to them. Give him time when he is ready he will come back
lol, that's hilarious
ya, seriously... and especially in this case
she sucked his dick... while he basically put in no effort and now he's BORED with that
what exactly would he be —cuming back?? for... bad head?
and what about you Annoyek? what were your benefits in this FWB scenario?
the world confuses me so... 😢click to expand
I don't see how getting praises after perfoming oral is considered as 'bad', but mkay. But everytime we got together, that is want he asked for. Other than the FIRST time we had regular sex, I tried to initiate regular sex again--and he gave me excuses...which again, made me think he wasn't attracted to me, yet I made sure my performance(s) were good to him. And for him to diss me like that too? So, I'M the bad one? 🙂
I didn't get any benefits! And I don't know why I still continued it--just giving him the benefit of the doubt, I guess. 😢
Dear, the fact he has decided to cut this is a blessing!
You need to respect yourself!
If the benefit was for him and only him, plus, now he is disappearing, well, is there anything left to say?
He always used you for his pleasure, and now he is moving on...
Forget the fact he is a Crab, it could have been any zodiac sign...
Respect yourself, it is better to be alone than to be in that situation..you are worth more than that, giving oral pleasure to a man who would never reciprocate...selfish bastard! really he is doing you a favour by "dumping" you....
You need to respect yourself!
If the benefit was for him and only him, plus, now he is disappearing, well, is there anything left to say?
He always used you for his pleasure, and now he is moving on...
Forget the fact he is a Crab, it could have been any zodiac sign...
Respect yourself, it is better to be alone than to be in that situation..you are worth more than that, giving oral pleasure to a man who would never reciprocate...selfish bastard! really he is doing you a favour by "dumping" you....
Posted by Aphrodite BullPosted by Annoyek
TO ALL:
Gee, I can't say "dumped" or "relationship"? *sighs*.....FINE! 🙂
-It was a Friend With Benefits........"thing".
-He said that it has 'run its course'=I found somebody else. Why couldn't he just said THAT?
-Yes, I liked him--duh--he was attractive and I wanted sex from him (which I didn't get). No relationship with him was in the cards. We only has sex once, it was terrible, and after that it was all about him and getting oral gratification. Not once did the mf-er returned the favor. Which led me to believe that he wasn't attracted to me from the beginning, but I digress...
- I'm upset as to how he carried it--I think he could've been a little less bitchy and just been honest instead of dragging it out or worse--ignoring me like furniture. Who does that?
Hope this helps some..........but I fear it doesn't. LOL
Are you sure you're a Taurus? I am a Taurus and we prefer sex/all nighters, & great orgasms. Bad sex is a definte no no! It's ALL or NOTHING with us. You want to resume a FWB relationship with a man who is lousy in bed, and who refuses to return the favor? It's not a FWB hon, it's one-sided. You're not benefitting from it PERIOD. It's more like a MWB (man-with-benefits) scenario. He was honest about it. It showed in his actions. When you didn't catch on, he verbalized it gently. In my opinion, he handled that quite well.click to expand
Yes, I'm a Taurus, but one who didn't pay FULL attention to his 'agenda'.
GOD, I just feel so stupid for not breaking it off when I had the chance! I give, and gave, and got nothing in return. And on top of that, though he said what he said, it was tactless. Am I that repulsive where I can't get decency and respect?? *sighs*--he got the power, and I allowed it.
Posted by PiscesArgie
Dear, the fact he has decided to cut this is a blessing!
I will disagree there. She probably will go from dick to dick now like the town slut, because she doesn't understand how she's perceived. At least before it was the same guy every time. It was like many relationships, in fact. A woman used for sex by one man is not as bad as a woman who's looking for sex.
"shud-ders"
Posted by mr.crabbyPosted by PiscesArgie
Dear, the fact he has decided to cut this is a blessing!
I will disagree there. She probably will go from dick to dick now like the town slut, because she doesn't understand how she's perceived. At least before it was the same guy every time. It was like many relationships, in fact. A woman used for sex by one man is not as bad as a woman who's looking for sex.
"shud-ders"click to expand
I hope that's fucking sarcasm. Damn, what's wrong with people--no fucking tact whatsoever!
So asking for some respect is a problem now?!
Posted by Aphrodite Bull
Yes, I'm a Taurus, but one who didn't pay FULL attention to his 'agenda'.
GOD, I just feel so stupid for not breaking it off when I had the chance! I give, and gave, and got nothing in return. And on top of that, though he said what he said, it was tactless. Am I that repulsive where I can't get decency and respect?? *sighs*--he got the power, and I allowed it.
Honestly, I do not think you really want this Cancer man. What Taurus woman wants a 'dud'in bed? We're the sign of Sexual Response which means receiving an orgasm is a definite MUST! I think your ego was crushed instead. Here comes this man with this sappy sex performance, gets off on your oral sexual labor...and then decides to cut you off. I think your comment is based on a woman with a bruised ego. If given the opportunity to win him over again, you would probably have him return the favor sexually...and then cut him off!
You seem like an un-evolved Taurus who went on looks alone (we have a tendency to do this at a young age). Looks take precedence over our common sense). But with growth and maturity, practicality kicks in and I'm sure you will eventually learn to make wiser decisions.
Good Luck, Bullette!
Thanks.
Isn't that the basis for Fuck buddies/FWBs--physical attraction? I've been told that 'feelings' didn't matter, so that's what I went on: PURE PHYSICAL attraction (though, we did chat). Yea, I'm a little embarrassed about it. Bruised ego, whatever it is--I'm feeling it. 😢 What kind of guy......nevermind.
FWB= You actually FUCK more than once, and you even LIKE IT!
What you had= One niter that just happened to turn into a few more blowjobs
I am not candy coating nothing,but i wont be rude either. Listen up. Us cancers dont like easy people. You working with him should of been your first no no. NEVERRRR mix buisness with pleasure. When things get bad, people talk. Number 2, Cancers are GIVERS, We like to please our mates to the core. He obviously thought of you as a quick fix for his hard on. And you were obviously willing,ready and on your knees. So he took it. There was NEVER going to be a permanent thing with this man. You gave in too quickly,once you agreed to give up the cookie he wasnt gonna say NO, because than he would feel like an ass for turning you down after you offered. So he took it. Than he probably started ignoring you,and reluctantly seeing you. Because to him, he doesnt care about you,2..he doesnt wanna hurt your feelings and 3.. He knew if he needed a blowjob you would be there. So untill he could find someone that would be more thrill to the chase to satisy him. You would suffice. A Cancer being bad in bed and selfish,should always be your FIRST clue that hes NOT into you! Sorry, good luck!
What you had= One niter that just happened to turn into a few more blowjobs
I am not candy coating nothing,but i wont be rude either. Listen up. Us cancers dont like easy people. You working with him should of been your first no no. NEVERRRR mix buisness with pleasure. When things get bad, people talk. Number 2, Cancers are GIVERS, We like to please our mates to the core. He obviously thought of you as a quick fix for his hard on. And you were obviously willing,ready and on your knees. So he took it. There was NEVER going to be a permanent thing with this man. You gave in too quickly,once you agreed to give up the cookie he wasnt gonna say NO, because than he would feel like an ass for turning you down after you offered. So he took it. Than he probably started ignoring you,and reluctantly seeing you. Because to him, he doesnt care about you,2..he doesnt wanna hurt your feelings and 3.. He knew if he needed a blowjob you would be there. So untill he could find someone that would be more thrill to the chase to satisy him. You would suffice. A Cancer being bad in bed and selfish,should always be your FIRST clue that hes NOT into you! Sorry, good luck!
Posted by Aphrodite BullPosted by mr.crabbyPosted by PiscesArgie
Dear, the fact he has decided to cut this is a blessing!
I will disagree there. She probably will go from dick to dick now like the town slut, because she doesn't understand how she's perceived. At least before it was the same guy every time. It was like many relationships, in fact. A woman used for sex by one man is not as bad as a woman who's looking for sex.
"shud-ders"
I believe that she was looking for sex with the possibilty of a relationship, but was short-changed in BOTH areas. FWB is a mutual arrangement where both parties benefit sexually with no strings attached. I think she did not know the PC term for their 'get-togethers.' Screwing around with different men is highly unlikely in her future. I think she has learned her lesson. I think her ego was bruised, if anything. It left her feeling embarassed, and used. But she's a Bullette. She will take this as a learning experience and make wiser decisions in the future.click to expand
You don't become friends with someone by putting his penis into your mouth. Whatever she wanted, she failed. I don't really care about the details. I just don't like to be reminded of how slutty and pointless women are today. Less naive, but just as dumb.
Apparently, Mr. Crabby is the jokster/asshole around these parts, so I'll just ignore him.
To everyone else: some of you don't have any tact or regard to how a person might be feeling....but I DO appreciate the responses. That's the thing about forums: you tell your issues/problems with like-mined or repsectful ones, however you always have a few that have to be dicks/pussies. Don't need that-uncalled for.
Anyways, I'm learning from this terrible lesson. Yes-terribly embarrassed that I allowed it, and wasn't smart enough to fully recognize the situation. Again, thanks to those that responed and actually made some damn sense 🙂, for others: well.....do you.
To everyone else: some of you don't have any tact or regard to how a person might be feeling....but I DO appreciate the responses. That's the thing about forums: you tell your issues/problems with like-mined or repsectful ones, however you always have a few that have to be dicks/pussies. Don't need that-uncalled for.
Anyways, I'm learning from this terrible lesson. Yes-terribly embarrassed that I allowed it, and wasn't smart enough to fully recognize the situation. Again, thanks to those that responed and actually made some damn sense 🙂, for others: well.....do you.
Posted by AnnoyekPosted by mr.crabbyPosted by PiscesArgie
Dear, the fact he has decided to cut this is a blessing!
I will disagree there. She probably will go from dick to dick now like the town slut, because she doesn't understand how she's perceived. At least before it was the same guy every time. It was like many relationships, in fact. A woman used for sex by one man is not as bad as a woman who's looking for sex.
"shud-ders"
I hope that's fucking sarcasm. Damn, what's wrong with people--no fucking tact whatsoever!
So asking for some respect is a problem now?!click to expand
Awww... hard truths are usually the ones you pay the most attention to.
Don't take it personal. We're just a bunch of random people and nobody knows you here.
Respect is earned sweetie... you shouldn't have to ask for it. Treat yourself with respect and others will follow your lead.
You'll be ok 🙂
Posted by Aphrodite Bull
LOL. The 'continous head performance' wasn't the original agreement. There was an initial sexual encounter, an awful one, but penetration was still involved. Apparently, he just wanted to be pleased orally snd shafted her each time. Why are you so crabby today?click to expand
I'm just trying to like women a little bit more, this isn't helping, lol.
I really wonder about what happened to women to make them think that pleasing a man will give them satisfaction in life. I don't see anyone being able to respect a woman if all she does well is kneeling in front of you and spitting on your shaft. What a fucked-up world.
Maybe that young brunette at school will give me hope once again. 😄
Posted by mr.crabbyPosted by Aphrodite Bull
LOL. The 'continous head performance' wasn't the original agreement. There was an initial sexual encounter, an awful one, but penetration was still involved. Apparently, he just wanted to be pleased orally snd shafted her each time. Why are you so crabby today?
I'm just trying to like women a little bit more, this isn't helping, lol.
I really wonder about what happened to women to make them think that pleasing a man will give them satisfaction in life. I don't see anyone being able to respect a woman if all she does well is kneeling in front of you and spitting on your shaft. What a fucked-up world.
Maybe that young brunette at school will give me hope once again. 😄click to expand
how young is young, crabby pants? *raised eyebrow*
She must be 21, maybe 20. I'm 29. We're in the same class. I don't know, we'll see.
Mr.Crabby, you deserve to be happy ...give things a chance...go for it!!!
Love exists and it is possible.
(I know you are thinking aaawww this Fish and her romantic view of things haha!)
I agree with what you say about some women whose only goal in life is satisfy a man and would lose their self-respect for it. I guess we are in this world to learn, some people only learn in the hard way.
But believe in us Women , don't lose hope. Not every woman is un-evolved...
What is the girl's sign—?
Love exists and it is possible.
(I know you are thinking aaawww this Fish and her romantic view of things haha!)
I agree with what you say about some women whose only goal in life is satisfy a man and would lose their self-respect for it. I guess we are in this world to learn, some people only learn in the hard way.
But believe in us Women , don't lose hope. Not every woman is un-evolved...
What is the girl's sign—?
It's not a Fish thing, it's a society thing. I can't respect someone if I don't respect their values and choices. Look up Elizabeth Hawkenson. I just read her story this morning and watched her video. Totally messed up.
I'm not sure I'll even talk to her. My stalking hasn't revealed much so far. Just that she's shy and that probably anyone could play her. Why would anyone have over 500 contacts on FB, anyway? She's dreamy, in a way, but it looks like the bubble could only burst. I'll keep dreaming while I can before finding out for sure. I wasn't in a romantic mood anyway, I'd have to force it on myself and I just wouldn't be charming or interesting right now.
I'm not sure I'll even talk to her. My stalking hasn't revealed much so far. Just that she's shy and that probably anyone could play her. Why would anyone have over 500 contacts on FB, anyway? She's dreamy, in a way, but it looks like the bubble could only burst. I'll keep dreaming while I can before finding out for sure. I wasn't in a romantic mood anyway, I'd have to force it on myself and I just wouldn't be charming or interesting right now.
Dont be negative , "anyone could play her". That person can be you..
Talk to her, that is the only way to get to know her and see if you could be interested...
A man like you, whose feet are on the ground, is the best option for a dreamy person.
Look at me and the Crab...opposites, yet, he flies a bit more with me, and I put my feeet on the ground a little bit more with him.
Somebody dreamy can give you what you lack, and viceversa.
You dont need to be romantic, if you are not. Not all woman want that. I for sure wouldnt like a guy who was so romantic, it is enough with me ...I need a man. period.
The only way to find out if you can respect her views and choices is by getting to know her...just go for it, you can't and won't lose anything, but you can win 🙂
Talk to her, that is the only way to get to know her and see if you could be interested...
A man like you, whose feet are on the ground, is the best option for a dreamy person.
Look at me and the Crab...opposites, yet, he flies a bit more with me, and I put my feeet on the ground a little bit more with him.
Somebody dreamy can give you what you lack, and viceversa.
You dont need to be romantic, if you are not. Not all woman want that. I for sure wouldnt like a guy who was so romantic, it is enough with me ...I need a man. period.
The only way to find out if you can respect her views and choices is by getting to know her...just go for it, you can't and won't lose anything, but you can win 🙂
Sex......how can it be so wonderful and cause so much heartache at the same time. We all live and learn. Annoyek, I hope you do and please listen to those here to are telling you to look within yourself for some respect. You will not get what you're looking for by doing what you're doing. You'll only continue to find guys that are willing to enjoy the sex without caring a thing about you. If you have the resources, find a good therapist.
Posted by PiscesArgie
Talk to her, that is the only way to get to know her and see if you could be interested...
Look at me and the Crab...opposites, yet, he flies a bit more with me, and I put my feeet on the ground a little bit more with him.
I would confidently make a move on another water sign(without considering rejection) and even they reject you they are gonna make it in a subtle way that you never know that you were rejected, this is especially true for Pisces...
as for flying , yes pisces makes crab fly...when dating a fish i would not notice how time flies so fast and always end up being late for something else
Posted by mr.crabbyPosted by Aphrodite Bull
I'm just trying to like women a little bit more, this isn't helping, lol.
I really wonder about what happened to women to make them think that pleasing a man will give them satisfaction in life. I don't see anyone being able to respect a woman if all she does well is kneeling in front of you and spitting on your shaft. What a fucked-up world.
😄click to expand
Maybe because once upon a time pleasing men DID bring them satisfaction and security in life. Times have changed and we're in the process of trying to adapt. It's not going to be an overnight thing so maybe practicing empathy, understanding, and a little compassion is key to veer away from being so jaded. You might not even see the full results in your lifetime. So instead of sitting around being resentful you could try on another perspective and see how it makes you more appealing.
It is not the world that is fucked up. The world is spinning on its axis nicely and all is how it should be. It is us that perceives it as such. Remember, hate only begets more hate. Try to embrace the differences even when you struggle to comprehend. We are only human here, after all, and we are all subject to being faulty.
Embrace the lesson, eschew the mistake. She needs disapproval, not empathy.
Posted by PiscesArgie
Dont be negative , "anyone could play her". That person can be you..
Talk to her, that is the only way to get to know her and see if you could be interested...
A man like you, whose feet are on the ground, is the best option for a dreamy person.
Look at me and the Crab...opposites, yet, he flies a bit more with me, and I put my feeet on the ground a little bit more with him.
Somebody dreamy can give you what you lack, and viceversa.
You dont need to be romantic, if you are not. Not all woman want that. I for sure wouldnt like a guy who was so romantic, it is enough with me ...I need a man. period.
The only way to find out if you can respect her views and choices is by getting to know her...just go for it, you can't and won't lose anything, but you can win 🙂
Scribbles notes...
I don't think it will happen, but you never know. I'm not sure I need more disappointment.
Posted by Cancer1986LeoCuspPosted by PiscesArgie
Talk to her, that is the only way to get to know her and see if you could be interested...
Look at me and the Crab...opposites, yet, he flies a bit more with me, and I put my feeet on the ground a little bit more with him.
I would confidently make a move on another water sign(without considering rejection) and even they reject you they are gonna make it in a subtle way that you never know that you were rejected, this is especially true for Pisces...
as for flying , yes pisces makes crab fly...when dating a fish i would not notice how time flies so fast and always end up being late for something elseclick to expand
ahah Exactly what I hate. I'd rather have a clear "no" and move on. Otherwise it's just guesswork about shyness or rejection or past issues or whatever. Took me a year and a half to get a "no" from a Scorp. She can go straight to hell.
Crabby don't expect disappointment all the time. You may be surprised!
Remember no pain, no gain!
It is easier to just expect the worst and not make a move at all...
With your perception, I'm sure you can tell whether it is a yes or a no...all of us water people can sense it...you sense whether somebody means something or is lying...Ok, Crabs distrust...was forgetting that. But you can TELL...
Maybe it is not the time for you, but just because you can get hurt, don't rule out loving.
I'm sure under that crabby guy there is a sweetheart wanting to go out and love... .🙂
Remember no pain, no gain!
It is easier to just expect the worst and not make a move at all...
With your perception, I'm sure you can tell whether it is a yes or a no...all of us water people can sense it...you sense whether somebody means something or is lying...Ok, Crabs distrust...was forgetting that. But you can TELL...
Maybe it is not the time for you, but just because you can get hurt, don't rule out loving.
I'm sure under that crabby guy there is a sweetheart wanting to go out and love... .🙂
Posted by Annoyek
Apparently, Mr. Crabby is the jokster/asshole around these parts, so I'll just ignore him.
To everyone else: some of you don't have any tact or regard to how a person might be feeling....but I DO appreciate the responses. That's the thing about forums: you tell your issues/problems with like-mined or repsectful ones, however you always have a few that have to be dicks/pussies. Don't need that-uncalled for.
Anyways, I'm learning from this terrible lesson. Yes-terribly embarrassed that I allowed it, and wasn't smart enough to fully recognize the situation. Again, thanks to those that responed and actually made some damn sense 🙂, for others: well.....do you.
Hmmm.. Let me get this straight.. We are dicks because we told you the truth? You are either naieve,or very insecure. Maybe both,. But the point is, you gave it up fast, you didnt even BOTHER getting something first, you blew him and he left and you did it not once,not twice,but three or more times. I am trying to grasp the concept on how that makes US the shmucks?? If you didnt want the truth you shouldnt of spread your words over the forum like you spread your legs for the cancer guy. Sorry, but thats life kid. You live and learn. Next time make the guy chase you, and take you out a few times before you ever go there again. And if it sucks the first time, do NOT go back! Move on, walk away, and ignore him... For good! AND.. Dont bother being friends with cancer guy because all he wants is to see how miserable you are without his dick in your face.
Posted by CancerianGoddessPosted by Annoyek
Apparently, Mr. Crabby is the jokster/asshole around these parts, so I'll just ignore him.
To everyone else: some of you don't have any tact or regard to how a person might be feeling....but I DO appreciate the responses. That's the thing about forums: you tell your issues/problems with like-mined or repsectful ones, however you always have a few that have to be dicks/pussies. Don't need that-uncalled for.
Anyways, I'm learning from this terrible lesson. Yes-terribly embarrassed that I allowed it, and wasn't smart enough to fully recognize the situation. Again, thanks to those that responed and actually made some damn sense 🙂, for others: well.....do you.
Hmmm.. Let me get this straight.. We are dicks because we told you the truth? You are either naieve,or very insecure. Maybe both,. But the point is, you gave it up fast, you didnt even BOTHER getting something first, you blew him and he left and you did it not once,not twice,but three or more times. I am trying to grasp the concept on how that makes US the shmucks?? If you didnt want the truth you shouldnt of spread your words over the forum like you spread your legs for the cancer guy. Sorry, but thats life kid. You live and learn. Next time make the guy chase you, and take you out a few times before you ever go there again. And if it sucks the first time, do NOT go back! Move on, walk away, and ignore him... For good! AND.. Dont bother being friends with cancer guy because all he wants is to see how miserable you are without his dick in your face.click to expand
For those who gave ASININE comments--they are the assholes--and they know who they are, so no need to go into detail.
You're fine, so this speech wasn't necessary. You all don't know the FULL story, but thank god we all don't know each other. I made a mistake...and I'm learning. Sorry I'm not a fucking genius, but we all start somewhere. I do appreciate some of the points in your paragaph, so again, Thanks. =_)
Posted by treefroggerPosted by Annoyek
For those who gave ASININE comments--they are the assholes--and they know who they are, so no need to go into detail.
You're fine, so this speech wasn't necessary. You all don't know the FULL story, but thank god we all don't know each other. I made a mistake...and I'm learning. Sorry I'm not a fucking genius, but we all start somewhere. I do appreciate some of the points in your paragaph, so again, Thanks. =_)
annoyek, canceriangoddess and others who gave honest advice wasn't giving you asinine comments.
sometimes people who are in the actual situation have a difficult time seeing things clearly. i know i've been in that position before. it was until those people made it clear to me that i finally saw the truth. the reason why i saw it is because they took what i said and told me. they had to tell me that way because i was so stuck in that one position... and the only way to REALLY get me to look at it was to put it in my face. it worked. it hurt and they knew that, but i also knew it was necessary.
please, just try to see it that way too. their advice is good and meant to help you.click to expand
I know. Her comment-though blunt-was honest, and I took it in. I'm speaking about those who just say stuid things to be funny. Though some people in forums just look for a reason to get smart with you--like you're supposed to know what you did, etc--they too, get on my nerves, but also give sound advice-SOMETIMES. She's alright, no ill-feeling. It's just hard explaining oneself, I suppose. Give advice--don't be a jerk. I don't ask for that. 🙂
Posted by Annoyek
I know. Her comment-though blunt-was honest, and I took it in. I'm speaking about those who just say stuid things to be funny. Though some people in forums just look for a reason to get smart with you--like you're supposed to know what you did, etc--they too, get on my nerves, but also give sound advice-SOMETIMES. She's alright, no ill-feeling. It's just hard explaining oneself, I suppose. Give advice--don't be a jerk. I don't ask for that. 🙂
I hope things get better for you. More importantly, I hope you get the message that you are on the wrong track. You don't have to like either me or my attitude. I don't want you to feel supported, I want you to feel that you're wrong, that you messed up, that you need to change.
Ever hear of experience over speech? Hi, I'm the experience and I'm nasty.
Posted by mr.crabbyPosted by Cancer1986LeoCuspPosted by PiscesArgie
Talk to her, that is the only way to get to know her and see if you could be interested...
Look at me and the Crab...opposites, yet, he flies a bit more with me, and I put my feeet on the ground a little bit more with him.
I would confidently make a move on another water sign(without considering rejection) and even they reject you they are gonna make it in a subtle way that you never know that you were rejected, this is especially true for Pisces...
as for flying , yes pisces makes crab fly...when dating a fish i would not notice how time flies so fast and always end up being late for something else
ahah Exactly what I hate. I'd rather have a clear "no" and move on. Otherwise it's just guesswork about shyness or rejection or past issues or whatever. Took me a year and a half to get a "no" from a Scorp. She can go straight to hell.click to expand
Good for you that it did not work !
For some reason i think i would end up with divorce if i went for a scorp... i can not back up this statement with anything i am just saying hypothetically. This is perhaps due to wild emotional fluctuations , not forgiving things and plus personally i want to know where i am heading in relationship, i wanna be in charge...this makes pisces and taurus perfect for me...
I am 24 and wanna have family , perhaps it is instinct or smth but dunno yet who i will end up with...
I have a lovely pisces though in consideration, but we have huge cultural differences...
CancerLeoCusp:"I have a lovely pisces though in consideration"
n CONSIDERATION—??
You love this woman!!!
You will be able to break those cultural barriers Im sure!
You love each other, and there is no other force stronger in the universe than love.
n CONSIDERATION—??
You love this woman!!!
You will be able to break those cultural barriers Im sure!
You love each other, and there is no other force stronger in the universe than love.
Like a Finnish Pisces said: "And the key to the universe is looooooove!"
Posted by PiscesArgie
CancerLeoCusp:"I have a lovely pisces though in consideration"
n CONSIDERATION—??
You love this woman!!!
You will be able to break those cultural barriers Im sure!
You love each other, and there is no other force stronger in the universe than love.
Dunno...people say those differences come in the long run. A friend of mine says that when marrying one can aim for 99% success but still end up in 1 % failure group, lol OR as my fish says "marriage is like a lottery...."
Mr Crabby don't tease this Fish...somebody has to believe in love...! maybe this can rub off on you a bit 🙂
CancerLeo: well, I guess it depends on the adaptability of your Fish for those changes she will have to make, and she will, for love. Fish are mutable creatures, we adapt. That doesnt mean she cant have her own beliefs and personality, but she will probably be more flexible than you for sure!
CancerLeo: well, I guess it depends on the adaptability of your Fish for those changes she will have to make, and she will, for love. Fish are mutable creatures, we adapt. That doesnt mean she cant have her own beliefs and personality, but she will probably be more flexible than you for sure!
Posted by PiscesArgie
Mr Crabby don't tease this Fish...somebody has to believe in love...! maybe this can rub off on you a bit 🙂
It's a shitty song, to be honest, but he's a good guy, albeit with serious mental problems. Well, he's a Fish. 😉
Well Crabs also have serious mental problems, that is why Crabbies and Fishies get along so well 😉
Besides, life is boring without a little bit of insanity, isn't it—
Besides, life is boring without a little bit of insanity, isn't it—
Pffft! *rolls eyes* she called us MENTAL!
Glad i could help annoyek, and good luck sweetie!!!!!!!!
Posted by PiscesArgie
CancerLeo: well, I guess it depends on the adaptability of your Fish for those changes she will have to make, and she will, for love. Fish are mutable creatures, we adapt. That doesnt mean she cant have her own beliefs and personality, but she will probably be more flexible than you for sure!
Totally agree fish is willing to give up more to adapt but it seems to me that those things true for that particular moment...For example, in a really romantic moment if you ask Pisces a hypothetical test-question (for some reason i do it a lot) like "Would you leave your comfortable urban life and move with me to some village which may be not comfortable but live with me" She will say Yes !!! and she means it, i know...but it is true for that moment when she was emotionally overwhelmed. Like this you can ask a Pisces any question and she will be honest with you...you can ask would you do to the end of the world with me ? she will reply Yes, and again i know she means it, which makes me so happy...but in the long run her thoughts may change easily. That's why i am considering cultural differences that may become a problem over time...
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