Care to share with me?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by GlamGemini on Wednesday, September 15, 2010 and has 20 replies.

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@GlamGemini
16 Years

I'm starting to REALLY like this Cancer guy..
I've got a Cancer moon and Cancer in my 7th house (marriage & partnership) so I guess that's cool.. though I'm not usually attracted to Cancers lol this is a first for me but I'm liking it! πŸ˜„

But I'm just wondering, what have been your experiences with Cancer males or females?
It can be family, friends, lovers.. πŸ˜„

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@Didymoi81
16 YearsGemini

Just recently split with my cancer since he was unfaithful, but besides that he was wonderful and probably the best lay I have ever had πŸ˜‰ Good luck to you!

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@Didymoi81
16 YearsGemini

Forgot to mention too, my Best friend is a cancer as well, I call her my "voice of reason" since she can always talk some sense into me when I go into manic mode. She's loyal, trustworthy but she does get a little jealous for no reason sometimes, but very laid back and got with the flow.

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@ser9123
16 Years

I was with a cancer guy for 5 yrs an can honestly say best boyfriend iv had, he was sweet, caring, generous, amazing in bed
And was also my best friend. Unfortunately I got bored, and we had a break to try see if things wudnt b so routine,
An we both liked the single life, bt he's still a friend an a great guy!!!

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@ser9123
16 Years

I was with a cancer guy for 5 yrs an can honestly say best boyfriend iv had, he was sweet, caring, generous, amazing in bed
And was also my best friend. Unfortunately I got bored, and we had a break to try see if things wudnt b so routine,
An we both liked the single life, bt he's still a friend an a great guy!!!

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@MissPirate
17 Years1,000+ Posts

I'm not a Gemini but I have moon in Gemini and lots of experience with Cancers both male and female - two of my closest girlfriends are cancers.

Have had a couple of relationships with Cancer guys but found them to be too needy and hyper sensitive. Both made me feel like a princess but took EVERYTHING so personally. Hell with one I couldn't even make a joke without him thinking I was having a personal pop at him. If you have a lot of water in your chart and don't mind being swamped in a sea of emotion you'll maybe find it easier to deal with but I'm mostly air and it didn't float my balloon at all.

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@Kleo
16 YearsGemini

To be honest, I don't have sexual chemistry with Cancer & I have a bunch of it! Awe hell, I'm probably more Cancer than most Cancers. The attraction is def. there & we get along marvelously. As friends. Anyway. I can only speak for myself.

The biggest manslut that I know is a double Cancer (sun, moon). We drunkenly attempted at a hook up 1 night...and failed, miserably. Lordy can we shoot the shit though! Even though he is a dirty little taint...I love him to bits.

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@GeminiSoul
15 Years

Posted by MissPirate
I'm not a Gemini but I have moon in Gemini and lots of experience with Cancers both male and female - two of my closest girlfriends are cancers.

Have had a couple of relationships with Cancer guys but found them to be too needy and hyper sensitive. Both made me feel like a princess but took EVERYTHING so personally. Hell with one I couldn't even make a joke without him thinking I was having a personal pop at him. If you have a lot of water in your chart and don't mind being swamped in a sea of emotion you'll maybe find it easier to deal with but I'm mostly air and it didn't float my balloon at all.

So True, they are over sensitive and take everything personally. My ex cancer bf hated it if I ever complimented someone! Say for example I say oh he/she has a great taste in arts. He'll jump in and pretend to be an expert in arts showing you how very wrong you are lol! Or I might say wow that restuarant serves the best food, he'll say oh I've been their a 100 times (never said you didn't!).

Posted by angelbunnydarlinglibra
It not gonna work no way hunny .it willstart off great ,but you think libras are clingy ,cancers will pinch you and never let go lol
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Yes, they're so clingy and want to be connected with you 30 hours a day lol. At first it's sweet and nice, but then it feels like all you do is be with them/support them/talk to them/listen to them and any other thing with "them" included πŸ™‚