Cancer MALES with Gems?

I was wondering if any of you Gemini gals ever dated a Cancer male..
How did it go?
If it ended, why did it end?
what are your placements and his if you know them?

My Cancer so far is cool..tho he's always like "Tell me who you belong to.. tell me who you loveeeeee! tell me! let me hear it!"
LOL.. weirdooo 🙂

Yes, I'm a Gemini and I've been with 3 cancers lol. All relationships ended in the very same (funny) way. In all 3 it started with a simple friendship, communication, hanging out. Then they get a bit interested and try to get closer to me. My first was a real weirdo because he wanted me to break up with my (ex) and hook up with him lol. He kept nagging and doing all he can for me to break up - which I did .. not for the cancer guy, but for other reasons. I gave myself space and then hooked up with my first cancer and OMG it was a disaster lol. At first he was that sweet guy who cared about me and we did have our talks. But then he turned into a needy, clingy, and controling guy. He won't even listen to what I have to say or for example if he asks me about my opinion and I say oh let me just think about it he'll say No say yes (if that's what he wants). Total creep I broke up with him, but he chased me for years until I had to lie to him and say I was with another person. My other experience ended up due to jealousy. My third ended up because OMG the amount of needniess and low self-confidence is scary given the fact I was a Gemini. Can you imagine a guy who clings to you wanting to talk 24 years about HIS problems and HIS complains and HIS personal matters and always needing support and advice even on simple little things? Well not me! My life turned into a disaster so yeah broke up too.

I guess cancers are not for me lol

GooD LucK 😄!

24 hours not years lol sorry wrong wording.

LOL Oh no
You guys are scaring meeee !

😢

Don't be scared as who knows you might as well have better luck 😉

lol oh mannnnnnnnnnnn
well like.. was he okay at first? when did he turn so moody n stuff?

lol my guy?

Virgo rising
Cancer sun
Cancer moon
Cancer mercury
Gemini venus
Pisces mars

Posted by GlamGemini

My Cancer so far is cool..tho he's always like "Tell me who you belong to.. tell me who you loveeeeee! tell me! let me hear it!"
LOL.. weirdooo 🙂

LOL that's so cute! 🙂

Posted by Maddy
Don't get me started on cancers lol, my cancer is wierd im trying to figure him out god help me. They are so complex, so hard to get to know them lol they want things only their way or no way. They will come to you only when they need you. Good luck. Im running out of patience here will see whats going to happen with my cancer he changes hours after hour

I should say your post made me laugh as I reflect on previous relationships lol

My cancer was amazing..got a bit boring after a while but was still cool, we broke up and NOW hes a douche! Trys to make me jelous etc but we are still friends..Go for it..get ur own experience..theyr good guys but ARE needy and ARE a little self absorbed!

I keep attracting and getting attracted to Cancerians, I've had incredible chemistry with more than a dozen (platonically, I do not date around) and we get along and get each other perfectly.
I have mars in cancer though and I read mars indicates 'ideal man' in a fem chart...too true for me, i am drawn to water males all the time and the interest level with cancers specifically is ridiculous!
Sparks fly! And great communication as well...
(btw, many cancer males will probably have venus in gemini so that's another one to throw in...so I find they are naturally attracted to gem gals)

Yes, it is possible for this combo to work, I ve found we complete each other in many a great and fulfilling ways...

I'm a libra and I just wanna chime in and say ,I was married to a cancer .the duration of rhe whole partnership Lasted 12 years .Gemini dear,it will not can not work .The crab will start off mirroring your actions ..when the crab feels like he is safe and secure then he will start with the emotional blackmailing they are famous for .don't get me wrong ,he was a great guy ,I still love him very very much ,but you won't get the freedom you require not to mention the jealously from you connecting with people he will think your flirting and cry and whine about it .if a libra can't make it work ,then there is no chance a Gemini will make it with a cancer !! No way !! Get outta there ! Make your famous exit 😉

Oh come on Ange, give them a chance 🙂, it always depends on the other placements and of course the individual...
Agree to a point but it is what and how you allow others to treat you...cancers are sweet and caring, yes, at times and many of them maipulating situations but only if you permit them to or cater for their (unreasonable) whims...
They need emotional security...but i found they like to chase as well, to get you to open up...and then complain you re aloof...and then if you get closer shut off....haha too funny
gotta love them! 🙂)))

Posted by Lilith
Oh come on Ange, give them a chance 🙂, it always depends on the other placements and of course the individual...
Agree to a point but it is what and how you allow others to treat you...cancers are sweet and caring, yes, at times and many of them maipulating situations but only if you permit them to or cater for their (unreasonable) whims...
They need emotional security...but i found they like to chase as well, to get you to open up...and then complain you re aloof...and then if you get closer shut off....haha too funny
gotta love them! 🙂)))

Lol I did give him a chance !! For 12 years !! ,I think I'm bitter from my divorce and mabye there is a part of me that wants him back ,he was sweet and I was a little mean lol sorry crabs you know I love ya !!

Posted by Maddy
It was good in the beginning, but even then he was moody, he is sweet too, but god you dont know what to expect minute from minute. He changes so fast I cant keep up with him, it's like I have to watch my mouth everytime I say something, and being a gem I'm not used to that I always talk without really paying attention much. With him is different, he is super sensitive, it's annoying sometimes, but then again everyone is different regarding their signs

I can't agree more! One minute we're good the other minute they're upset about something happened two hours ago. They're so moody, sensitive, and unpredictable. I remember once I was talking to my cancer friend joking and teasing and my cancer got it and started teasing me too. I thought we were good and had a good laugh - But was I wrong! My friend won't talk to me now unless I appologize!! Excuse me? We were joking and teasing one another why should I appologize!! That pretty much ended it 🙂

LOL but how come my Cancer man isn't moody? We've been together for a month now and he hasn't EVER went
"hot n cold" on me lol he's always so romantic and playful

He's a Cancer sun/Cancer moon/Cancer mercury..

Or is this how they are in the beginning ? then they change?

I've never been in involved with a Cancer before lol..

Does ur Cancer have a Gemini venus?

I guess my Cancer has lots of Cancer placement so it balances it out
He even has me as his phones wallpaper LOL!

Awwwww well what do you plan on doing then?
I think he'll come around soon..

Posted by WiseOldOwl
Cancer males: if I wanted someone to follow me around whimpering I'd prefer a cute little puppy.

LOL .. I'm sorry but that's really funny.

LOL wow... these are some interesting inputs..

and Maddy hows ur relationship goin with ur Cancer? 😛

Maddy - WOW lol really? that sounds confusing.. I had a relationship like that but it was with another Gemini
I understand that it gets on your nerves ..I think us Geminis can't help but love the chase sometimes lol.

My Cancer and I are AWESOME, lol he's always very very attentive and we talk non stop.. he's so romantic n playful and funny..It's been good.. SO FAR lol let's hope it stays this way..

How long have you been seeing your Cancer anyways Maddy?

Oooh so you got history together! lol thats a bit of time..
Just keep on letting him chase you.. 😛

AWWW lol you guys are so cute haha.

You have to keep me updated 😄

Hows it going for u Maddy?
any update?

lol for some reason I like coming back to this discussion and checking out your posts 🙂. It's like when I go out with my friends .. updates, updates, updates ..

Sweet 🙂

lol for some reason I like coming back to this discussion and check your posts .. 🙂 It's like when I go out with my girls all we do is updates, updates, updates .. sweet 🙂

GeminiSoul AWW lol are u talking bout me? thats sweet

Well guess what?
My Cancer & I made 'us' official on 10.10.10 😄 !

What bout you guys? ANYMORE NEWS?! 😄

wineaux OMG THATS SO SWEET! lol so do you think he'll be yours to keep n cling onto you now or do you still have some bumps to work on?

GlameGemini - I meant the whole talk and share .. sweet 🙂

Yeah ofc it's cool to know what other gems are up to

ANYMORE updates?
anyone wanna share? 😛