A year ago I started talking to my grandsons coach (47yr old cancer male) In the beginning he actively pursued me. He use to stare at me all the time and started calling me and texting me all the time very late night somtimes and our conversations on the phone last for hours. He has confided in me and told me all his problems and deep secrets (by the way he is a widower of 10 yrs) and throughout the year we have become very close... He has told me he loves me SEVERAL times, that I'm the only person he can trust and talk to and say absolutely anything to, he said that I'm his life but that his son absolutely comes first which I fully respect, now his 12yr old son is very close to me. He also told me that he has never met a good woman before until me..He is still my grandsons coach so I see him all the time... I never had sex with him because I don't want to get hurt and I don't want to give impression of a booty call.. 2 days ago I asked him what he felt for me because I have fallin in love with him...I'm there for him and his son 24/7 and he said that I'M LIKE A SISTER HE NEVER HAD..WTF!!! I feel so stupid right now but I know I didn't imagine that we were super attracted to each other before........ I don't know what to do— I'm like mother figure to his son and if I stop talking to his dad its like he's losing a mother again 😢 any advice please... Thank you...
