Cancer man... sociopath?

I met this Cancer guy about a year and a half ago on a dating website. He came on there saying that he only wanted to be 'friends'. Me being naive in the dating world thought nothing of it when he asked me to be his friend.

Things got weird when he started asking me questions like "what would you do if I kissed you?" and "can we cuddle when we meet?" I can't remember what I was thinking at the time, but I remember that I was a little intrigued regarding his intentions. 'Friends' indeed. Unfortunately, curiosity got the better of me.

When we first met, he made it clear that he wanted to be intimate with me, and he did not want me to date other men. I let his shallow compliments get the best of me (I have self-esteem issues), yet I made it clear that I was uncomfortable with having sex with him right away. We have never had sex.

I had never had a guy act so... 'lustful' towards me before that and although I hate to admit it, I 'liked' it. It made me feel so desired, so I bought into it. The next day when I met him however, he dropped a bomb on me saying that we couldn't be together because he was engaged (I don't know what's happening there now).

In order to ease my feelings he offered to set me up with his friend... long story short, I made it so I couldn't see him again, which ticked him off at the time. I deleted my online dating profile, only to set it up a few months later. He contacts me again and keeps begging me to text him.

He also asks me to come over to his place for a party so he can distract his friends from his ex (apparently he let go of the engagement, his ex is another girl), and I question why he doesn't just invite her over alone to spend time with him.

I get him to delete my number and we don't talk again.

Anyway, it is quite obvious to me that he didn't give two squirts of piss about me; only what he could get out of me. Are Cancer men known to be users? Can anyone psychoanalyse this guy?

He seems sociopathic to me. Stay far far away.

I don't know how to psychoanalyse his intentions because it seems all over the shop. He probably just wanted to see what he could get away with to feed his own ego.

Gays?? Did I miss something is Nexus male or female?

I'm a female

Posted by canmini

Posted by Nexus
I met this Cancer guy about a year and a half ago on a dating website. He came on there saying that he only wanted to be 'friends'. Me being naive in the dating world thought nothing of it when he asked me to be his friend.

Things got weird when he started asking me questions like "what would you do if I kissed you?" and "can we cuddle when we meet?" I can't remember what I was thinking at the time, but I remember that I was a little intrigued regarding his intentions. 'Friends' indeed. Unfortunately, curiosity got the better of me.

When we first met, he made it clear that he wanted to be intimate with me, and he did not want me to date other men. I let his shallow compliments get the best of me (I have self-esteem issues), yet I made it clear that I was uncomfortable with having sex with him right away. We have never had sex.

I had never had a guy act so... 'lustful' towards me before that and although I hate to admit it, I 'liked' it. It made me feel so desired, so I bought into it. The next day when I met him however, he dropped a bomb on me saying that we couldn't be together because he was engaged (I don't know what's happening there now).

In order to ease my feelings he offered to set me up with his friend... long story short, I made it so I couldn't see him again, which ticked him off at the time. I deleted my online dating profile, only to set it up a few months later. He contacts me again and keeps begging me to text him.

He also asks me to come over to his place for a party so he can distract his friends from his ex (apparently he let go of the engagement, his ex is another girl), and I question why he doesn't just invite her over alone to spend time with him.

I get him to delete my number and we don't talk again.

Anyway, it is quite obvious to me that he didn't give two squirts of piss about me; only what he could get out of me. Are Cancer men known to be users? Can anyone psychoanalyse this guy?

your both need help. Anyway Gays don't stay faithful. Gays are very promiscuous

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my friend is a loyal husband to his dude and hes gay.... sooo. no.

Posted by Librajean
Gays?? Did I miss something is Nexus male or female?

What canmini is trying to say is that he is gay as he is both a cancer man and doesn't stay faithful.

He did mention to me that he is bisexual if that has to do with anything...

Posted by Nexus
He did mention to me that he is bisexual if that has to do with anything...

Dont listen to canmini. He's just strange.

But that is weird that he would say he's bisexual. He sounds like a character.

He sounds like a character.

Oh believe me, he is

Posted by Nexus
He did mention to me that he is bisexual if that has to do with anything...

....And you believe that this will be a healthy relationship in the future how exactly?

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Posted by Nexus
He did mention to me that he is bisexual if that has to do with anything...

Dont listen to canmini. He's just strange.

But that is weird that he would say he's bisexual. He sounds like a character.

Yeah, it's sooo weird for him to be honest about his sexuality.

How dare he.. he's such a monster.

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Gahd not what I meant.. jeezuz christ.

I just think this guys' character in general is very all over the map.