Posted by AlaniaB
Give it to me harsh here. What is with this person.
He pursued me, but he won't take the plunge and be in a relationship with me
He calls me sometimes 3 times a day, wants to talk to me for hours about everything. His life, family, everything and he always wants to know everything about me and help me if I am sad / worried.
He seems to be completely crazy about me, sends me gifts and movie quotes he says remind him of me and song lyrics and long pages of texts about how beautiful I am, how perfect I am, like he has me on a pedestal as this untouchable goddess or something.
He is insanely jealous. I mean, like he is so insanely jealous that if someone else asks me out -even if I say "no", he will literally not talk to me for a week and he gets insanely jealous of all my male friends even if there is zero going on.
He will not shut up about how beautiful / perfect I am and seems totally convinced every other guy feels the same (they don't) but he says they would if they knew me like he did.
He told all his friends he's madly in love with me, and he is not interested in any other girl.
And yet he will just not take the plunge and date me, or even really see me. He keeps me at arms length. If I ask him why, he tells me I am too good for him, too perfect for him and that he will disappoint me. He tells me that I make him feel vulnerable and this scares him. He says he screwed up his first marriage and loses everyone he loves and he thinks he will lose me too.
If I get mad at him, he gives me the full-blown silent treatment but always comes back, no matter how long, saying he can't forget me.
4.5 months ago his parents died suddenly, and so for that reason alone I have tolerated a lot of bullbutter with him, been very supportive and patient, but I am tired, frustrated, sick of not dating ANYONE if he does not get himself together I am going to walk.
I am a Scorpio, so once I am done, i am truly done.
Can anyone explain this?
Is this the cancer man and how he behaves? or is he just a selfish idiot who is playing with me?
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Posted by sweetsammie
Hello- I am new to the site and want to run a story by you and what to make of this union- if anything. I will make it quick..
My best friend that I've known for 14 years (she is about 25 years older than me) 10 years ago I met her son who is a cancer and he is 6 years younger than me.. when we first met he was always trying to kiss me etc but I was not into it cause he was so young to me at the time! We've stayed friends over tyhe years..and 4 years ago he met a girl and they have been together since then. They don't live in the same state as me. They broke up a year ago and he came out to visit his mom who lives 15 min from me.. so well we all hung out. Him and I got together that evening and one thing let to another.. I was so embarrassed to tell his mom but I did and she was over the moon.( she wants us to end up together) Anyway, he ended up getting back with his ex. So fast forward to 2 weeks ago he called his mom and was asking about me and if im with anyone etc. Mind you, I am incredibly close with his mom ( we talk everyday) so he does go to her to ask about me..My friend also has expressed that she wants us to end up together and she will pray that we do lol.. So last night my friend calls me to tell me that he ended the relationship for good and is coming out in 2 weeks... it didn't even take 24 hours since the break up for him to reach out to me to ask how I am doing and to tell me of this break up.
Do you smell a rebound? Or not so much due to our history and my relationship with his mother.
Posted by SuperMissMan
treetrunkAND cancer men you can do MUCH better get yourself a real treetrunking guy, dating a cancer man is as good as becoming a lesbian. Since they're treetrunking women, always PMSing and they're treetrunking children too. You need to be their mommy not their SO
Posted by AnonymousTaurus41
We were together for close to 2 years. Part of it was long distance. He was SOOO in love with me, and he grew on me. I fell for him. Just a little over a month ago, things started to fall apart. He stopped calling. Then, he'd make the usual excuses about being busy, yet telling me he wants to get back to the way things used to be with us. Only, he'd never really put much effort. Then, the distance got to him (understandably), but he still wanted to be together. I gave him every opportunity to get out if he wanted. I told him we could breakup and I wouldn't beg or call or text. He kept telling me that isn't what he wanted. Well, over 2 weeks ago, he started to ignore my calls. He allied me back one day, started this whole crap about the distance thing, he loved me, PROMISED he would call back, but didn't. So, I called him the next day, no answer or call back. I haven't called or texted him since. It's been 2 weeks. Last week (after 10 days of silence), I get a dirty text from him. I never replied. I didn't want him to think he could ignore me, but contact me when he wanted sex. 6 days now, and nothing from him since then. I'm wondering if the text was accidental? Was it meant for someone else? Is that possible when I haven't contact him in 10-14 days? Now, I'm missing him like CRAZY. I thought about contacting him, but what if there is someone else?! I need some guidance here, please ??
Posted by SuperMissMan
Oh how treetrunkING ironic I see this post right now. THEY ARE MANIPULATIVE EVIL treetrunkS. treetrunk them. treetrunk THEM. I hate cancer men. My concerned has lied to my friends making himself a victim in our relationship, and now months after we broke up he treetrunking goes behind my back talks to my best treetrunking friend who we just started falling for each other and talking butter about me but pretending to be there for me and help me with him. treetrunk HIM. What a scumbag I thought he actually treetrunking cared about me for a second and was actually helping me. Piece of butter
Posted by SuperMissMan
I hate them so much I felt a need to make a thread about it in the treetrunkING astrology thread. treetrunk YOU MANIPULATIVE LITTLE cookiemonster BOYS. GROW THE treetrunk UP AND BE ME. JESUS treetrunkING CHRIST. treetrunking go back in your shell where you treetrunking came from and get TF out of my face. I HATE cancer me. Hey are the most manipulative, lying, bastardous treetrunking retarded, and butter excuses of her man beings. I am FINISHED dealing with cancer me . If I find out someone is a cancer me. The phone gets blocked, good treetrunking bye, not even an explanation.
Posted by ScrumptiousPosted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by ScrumptiousPosted by SEXYSCORP777
It breaks my heart and kills me eveyday to live without my cancer man who left me 2 months back after a deep love affair because i really gave it off to him after his endless weeks of not being around.I tried everythng i could to get him back but he doesnt care for anything and calls my tears also drama...i know i hv made mistakes but i hv also appologized sincerly...it kills me everyday...
None can escape this thread....lol
she thought the scorpio forum would protect herclick to expand
Posted by libralotus
I have been on and off with a cancer guy most of this year. We get together for a couple weeks and I become really invested. He eventually calls it quits and the cycle repeats. I actually feel stupid for believing that he genuinely wants to be together but he's usually so convincing. I'm not sure if this past "break up" is for good or not, but as soon as he wanted out I didn't beg to make it work for the first time. I let him leave and haven't spoken to him in almost two weeks.
Anyways, I'm not sure if this is effective or not but sometimes I wallow in the person I've been hurt by. I listen to songs that remind me of them or check their facebook occasionally. I feel like being reminded of being hurt will eventually force myself to move on instead of just trying to forget about it.
Not sure if I'm making any sense but if I am, does anyone else do this?
Posted by Bittenbythecrab
I'm a Scorpio woman and have known this Cancer friend for more than 20 years. About 2 months ago, I met him at another friend's house. I trust him completely, so told him of my decision to separate from my husband. We got a little high that night and after everyone had gone to sleep, he kissed me. I was completely taken aback, oh, but I enjoyed it tthoroughly. I live in a different city, however, I was in his city again the next week and we got physical again. No sex, just necking. Over the past two months, we've met about 6 times. And except for the first two times, all meetings have been initiated by me. He doesn't call or text on his own. He has some excuse every time for not calling or texting. He's been demonstrative in front of our friends. I even went to his home once and reconnected with his family. The complication i think is I'm not working currently, am looking for a job. Also, my husband hasn't really moved out of my house and this my Cancer friend knows. I get hurt when he doesn't respond to my messages. He told me in the beginning to take this really slow, but I've pushed him a couple of times and he's gone off into his shell. My question to all - do you think he's into me? Should I forget him?