I am so glad there is a forum to help me understand this man better! Things have been going great with my Cancer friend. Been dating for months, met through mutual friends that we all hang with a lot. Since we have been dating, I met his brother while he was in town, and he met my mother and brothers; I met more of his friends (we hosted a couple parties at his house together), but he still finds time to hang with his friends outside of me. We have been spending a lot of time together, and things have been going so well, and then all of a sudden he seems cold. As a scorpio, I despise rejection as much as the next cancer, and I know that they have that crab like behavior....but I'm getting irritated with the distance, and the lack of communication. He did tell me he had a lot going on with work, and his personal life (Yes he told me what it was), but I still feel like, "What does that have to do with me"? Especially when you ask me things like, 'will I be there for you no matter what'? Why push me away, when you want me there? SO, my questions is, should I express my feelings on the coldness from him I feel, or allow him more time and space to work through it? I'm just an over thinker and I will begin to think it's me, when I'm willing to work on whatever to make this work. Thanks in advance guys!
