Cancer Women and a harsh exterior....

Do any of you ladies tend to come off a little hard? I never thought of myself this way until I paid attention to other Cancer women that I have come across.

I know that we are feminine, nurturing, etc. At first I thought this was mostly because I have nothing but male friends, and it just rubbed off on me. But I'm thinking about the demeanor when we are not around loved ones, maybe in a non-social, but more public setting.

Like pushit said, I also come off as icy and aloof. I've been asked a few times while out walking to smile because I looked angry/mean. In the past the few aries men I've dated couldn't figure me out when they were getting to know me and were convinced I wasn't at all interested.

I've only befriended one cancer girl and, even though she has an aqua moon, she definitely came across as all watery, mushy, and emotional from the start. even when you looked into her eyes it looked like she was on the verge of crying. she is also a crier. she resembles everything we know about the cancer sign.

my cancer bf, who also has virgo rising, does not usually look approachable in public and sometimes at home! he's just thinking though. i even have to ask him now and then if he's upset about something. then the angry lines fade from his forehead and he's looking at me all innocent. he usually says that he's perfectly fine and asks why i asked him. of course!

Sometimes, butttt i blame it on my lovely leo moon hehe

Posted by pushit
But I don't think I look mean in a catty way, if you know what I mean. For example, I don't look other girls up and down all bitchily and just look straight ahead if a girl does that to me. I think I just seem icy and aloof at first glance, and I'm a very fast walker.

George: Is it my imagination, or do really good-looking women walk a lot faster than everybody else?
Elaine: We don't walk that fast.

Elaine's reply is a bit ambiguous, but c'mon, cat lady! 😄