Hell no !!!! They use it to manipulate other people into fighting for them. They are the experts at gaining pity, they are always the victims in their minds and their sensitivity is used to obtain this.
It's not hidden, it creates the opportunity for them to be pity-freaks.
Of course they do.. we all do, call it investment protection policies?! Now we've got this P-angle that got answers for every creature in this 12 signs of zodiac, a Fish that is expert on Virgos and cancers? what's next..??
Besides cancers, I know some other pity-freaks though.. capisci——— GOOD!
People are always naggin' about how sensitive we are, so what do we do? We use our shell. So y'all won't be bothered and move on or something. But once we're in that shell, y'all want us out again cause we can't sulk for five minutes!! What's the matter folks??
So yes, when I feel that there is something wrong I need to take some distance. A lot of people will take that personally and blame us for being manipulative or something dumb-a.s.s. stereotype like that. It's probably their ego barging in.. Sometimes we just don't care aight—
And something else.. when a taurus or an aqua or a leo cries all day long, no one points any fingers. But when cancers feel sad (it HAPPENS sheesh) and yes (it's only human to) pity ourselves from time to time we're crybabies.. PLEASE!!
I dare say I'm sensitive, but I try to put things in perspective! And yes, when I got hurt, there's always my shell
Do you really believe on that shell stuff thing....?? lol?. If you get hurt? you may chose to say nothing? if I get hurt.. I'll destroy the world that caused it?.!
Matter of choice.. and don?t let idiots get under your skin and tell you other wise? cheers
Sags are pretty good at it too. At least, the ones I know.
Alot of people let out how sensitive they are, but,more probably hide it. I don't that the crab is so good at hiding it. They normally wear their emotions on their sleeve and everyone knows this. The hiding in the shell part seems to happen more when they want to sulk. That's not necessarily hiding their emotions - that's more like pouting. Like a Pisces, they hide in fantasy when they are sulking.
Cancers relish the idea that others will go to bat for them. They are comfortable in sitting back with a team of defenders to fight for their integrity. Just the way their made. I've seen it even in here with C-Lady. Haffo said something bad about her and she said nothing. Everyone else however, reamed him and got him put in time out. That is where the Cancer likes to live. Perhaps saying pity-freak is a little strong, but, it all comes out the same in the end. If you allie forces to battle for you when you're hurt, then, that's convincing others that you've been victimized.
But, that's ok, for we all different and we all have our issues. We understand this about Cancers and love them just that much more it. We love all our people, right?
If Cancerlady wouldn't say anything against this stupid retarded haffool.. was because of her elegancies and not because of she couldn?t say anything and wanted to act like a victim?. See.. that?s why you fishes are idiot kind of miserable retard from outer space something? and totally out of order?(in human sense)?.
Tally ho, fishy types! Last time we left you locked in a room with no apparent means of egress. Some would say that?s exactly where you should remain till anyone that cares (snigger) can suggest a reason to release you. However, I?m too jaded to engage in frivolous debate! Frivolous because no such person (i.e. anyone that cares) exists! Thus, we will simply turn to the vile and bitter prognostications for guidance on the matter of your ghastly future.
Welcome to the Goldfish Bowl, frightful fishes. At first you don?t know what to make of this enforced seclusion. But then, as you don?t know what to make of anything you encounter or even life itself, this observation is hardly worth the candle. The amiable youth that brought you here is notable by his absence. Mischievous Mercury moves to neurotic Cancer and you decide to fill the idle hours by creating a masterpiece with your coloured pencils. Deep in thought, you pour a drink while trying to decide what to draw. And, with marauding Mars in Leo, you?re soon practicing your favourite exercise routines such as playing submarines in the bath and falling backwards off the couch while inebriated, the masterpiece a forgotten thing, like so many of good intentions.
Vamping Venus gropes miserable Saturn and you chafe at the restriction of having no one to talk to. But, as Venus lays bare her private parts for cranky Chiron to fondle, you invent an imaginary companion to fill the hours of solitude. As jolly Jupiter becomes involved in these gross practices, you fantasize (with this imaginary friend) about travelling to faraway locations, sampling spicy food, quaffing exotic brew and engaging in insouciant converse. Do remember that this last is not a foreign sexual practice, except perhaps for the French!
As a Full Moon comes in silly Sagittarius, you rage and scream about the confines of your prison, demanding to know who?s in charge of your life because, as usual, it certainly isn?t you. Mischievous Mercury makes sleazy advances to Uranus, the idiot god. You decide to draw a picture of yourself, locked up in your flat, as you can?t think of anything else to do. Vamping behaves improperly with narcotic Neptune and, having finished the picture, you become maudlin as you contemplate the opus, wondering idly if you could grind up a few coloured pencils and smoke them in a recreational manner.
But what?s this? Why it?s the New Moon in neurotic Cancer! You resolve right there within your rigid frame that, should you ever move again, you will set your life on the path of renewal, liberating your spirit from the torture and humiliation you have endured in this naughty world. Egad! How grippingly heroic! And, as if to back up these mighty inner assertions you?ve made, mischievous Mercury moves to lackwit Leo and movement returns to your hands.
Gadzooks! How spooky! You flex your fingers, set to draw with coloured pencils such a drawing as has never been drawn before in the history of the world. It is by means of the golden pencil that you, little fishes, will be set free from travail. Click here next time and see just how. But for the nonce, hail and farewell, my tiny piscine types!
So stop giving advice to the Cancerians? OK? FISH— Save your own ass?.
Q, never in this lifetime have you heard me call myself sensible. Pay attention, mate.
Pay attention: I didn't say a Cancer CANNOT say for theirselves, I said they feel comfortable in that world. Just as some people feel comfortable in being the leader, being in charge, like a Virgo, for example.
There's nothing wrong in knowing who you are. Being silent while the army fights for you is not a bad thing. It's only wrong if you make yourself feel bad for it. There are people out there who want to fight, but have no cause.
I know many Cancer's and most of them are quite intelligent and can hold their own in a conversation. That's not what I said.
But, I love you anyway, Q. Afterall, you go out of your way to respond to my posts. I think you secretly love me, lol
Grilled or cooked fish? your choice?. I have nothing against you? but when you start babbling about others.. I clearly see the flaws that isn?t right.. !!
Cancer's are who cancers are, Pisces are who Pisces are, Virgo's are who Virgo's are, nothing wrong in any of them. Could you imagine how boring this world would be if we were all the same?
To tell the truth, Q, I've not seen any Cancer's post in here, saying the contrary. And that's because they know that they like having people protect them. Just like some people, like Scorpio's and Aries, like being the protectors.
Are we talking about humans... or animal signs..??
The Cancerian I know if she hear for what you say about protections crap... she'll reap your heart out in second?. No who the hell are we talking about..?? Really..??
My ex... Was an Aries? hell she don?t need any protections... she is a grand rapper...
And to hell with scorps.. Who cares about that insect..??. Squash ? and get on with it.
Now? will you stop this astrobulshit once'em for all..??
An no offence.. I hate raw.. cooked or grilled fish? their smells makes me puke? sorry.
QBone, "Now? will you stop this astrobulbutter once'em for all..??"
Not in a million. The day I stop, is the day I die . . . then the fish gets really stinky, lol
The person we are talking about is all Cancer's. They like to feel protected, they like to have people battle for them. Ain't nothing wrong in that, is there? Why does that bother you? Why don't you want Cancer's to like having an army of peeps at their side?
Not at all, I love being who I am. I'd much rather be who I am, even with recognizing my many flaws, than the opposite - hiding from myself, being delisional. That's one reason why I like strong types, head strong people - the help keep me real. The more aggressive people treat me, the closer I am to myself. The nicer people are to me, just for the sake of having manners, the further away I find myself.
I love being exactly who I am and will never change because I love myself.
"They like to feel protected, they like to have people battle for them."
I have to say?. wrong lady..
Cancerians might like to get someone in the front.. but they like it their own way.. and they are the only one knowing their own way...!!
Ok.. I'll give up when it comes to Cancerbuddy profile? but.. to tell you the truth? crabs are much better than fishes? and forget about those stupid scorps?they never existed?
You can't hurt me, Q. You are too emotionally responsive to hurt me. Only those who think thoroughly before they respond can offend me.
If someone is battling for you, then it is your way, right? They are fighting FOR you, not around you, or without you. It is their way, their way being that they don't have to confront if they choose not to, let someone else do it and then they feel honored.
Now, I'm the complete opposite. I oppose people who would fight on my behalf. I would throw them down. I stand independantly and don't want or need foes.
Absolutely not, softy. Cancer's are very strong and capable. It's just zone of comfort and that's a good thing. We have to feel comfortable within ourselves.
Well that?s nice to hear? I am (fast and very) responsive (by the facts) ? yeah? emotional? no... What's makes you say that..?? And of course I don't want to hurt you, it is not an honour to dishonour a slippery, defenceless fish.
I am not sure about the battling stuff... but if you feel it that way? well hell? come to old Q... and have a fight... 🙂
Not me. I don't want to battle. I am the informer, and that's all. Tell you like it is, blunt and direct. No sugar on top. It's not for the purpose of battling, it's for the purpose of getting people to understand who they are, why they react the way they do, to get people to look closer at themselves. That is my only purpose.
Just like now, you are contimplating whether or not you respond emotionally. Cancers are considering whether or not they avoid confrontation if they have another to do this task. That is my purpose. Take it the way you want. Anyone can read more into it, if they chose, but, that is my aim - always.
Know thyself, for everything we say, everything we do, everywhere we go - is for a reason within ourselves. There are no coincidences, we are our own driving force and can dictate our own destiny if we would only look closer within ourselves.
We are who we are. No body else is at fault for our mistakes. WE are at fault for ourselves. We are what we make of ourselves because of who we are inside.
This is where you and the others are not exactly in the right track especially when it comes to analysing process about other people and their adventures..
You wanna play tough..?? be my guest?
Important is? people need to feel the sense of belonging.. somewhere , somehow to someone Cancerian or not, you know where you end if you refuse to acknowledge this fact.
All these negative along with the positive stuff about star signs, moon signs rising and descending are completely bullshit and you know that? why are you insisting to prove the bullshits is beyond my imagination.
Enough of this already and back to the topic..
Do Cancers tend to try to hide their sensitivities?
Yes? for their own sake and well being.. like the rest of us.. in Cancerians is more visible then the rest..
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