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Sounds like yes he likes you and is putting his wall up for protection from time to time. I have cancer venus and I do that..kind like running up to give you a kiss, then running back to my seat and pretending you dont exist. Fear fear fear.
He is like a scorpio...testing your loyalty..I did it a lot to my ex husband...took him a few months to earn my trust. I did the wall up/down testing. Hope it doesnt last too long for you. Just try to be consistent, but dont be a doormat!!
He is like a scorpio...testing your loyalty..I did it a lot to my ex husband...took him a few months to earn my trust. I did the wall up/down testing. Hope it doesnt last too long for you. Just try to be consistent, but dont be a doormat!!
Posted by MoonMan
Hi cupcake
What's your Sun/Venus signs?
I am an Aquarius, not sure about my Venus.
Posted by MoonMan
Hi cupcake
What's your Sun/Venus signs?
The "Hi Cupcake" sounds sexy when you say it that way.
Wanna see my panties, big fella 😉?
There is nothing confusing about NSA sex and he get's the benefits.
She's not really benefiting if her "goal" is to give him sex in hopes of eventually solidifying a real relationship which it appears she's doing or why else would she analyze this guy.
It's sex, it's no strings attached sex and thus there isn't much to analyze. But to stick with her questions. Does he like you? Yes of course he does, you give him sex. Does he like the attention? Yes of course he does you give him sex. Nothing much to read, you give him sex he gives you no signals and a few mixed messages which lead to you feeling frustrated and sex.
men and women approach love differently, and that is the whole basis for The Chase. If you're Friends With
Benefits, there is NO chase! Men hear "friends with benefits" and to them, that means sex without her crying about anything! Women hear "friends with benefits" and they think that means sex with emotional benefits...Wrong.
Men who want to be your FWB are ALREADY telling you that they want LIMITS on getting close. A woman may be focusing on the FRIEND part as in, "He's my New Best Friend!!" A man is focusing on the BENEFIT part. The "Friend" part means, "What a relief, she's not officially my Girlfriend, so I don't owe her anything...."
"FRIENDS" in FWB means "We're not in relationship. I don't have to listen to you sigh, bitch, moan, ask, expect. If you're over the moon for someone, and he or she only wants FWB, something is already unbalanced. One person is in love, and the other person is not. The person who is in love will probably waste months to years convincing themselves that
the other person "is afraid to get close" for whatever reason....
So if you are "in love," but you're thinking for one minute about settling for being "Friend With Benefits," think twice, because you will probably end up feeling shortchanged. Don't settle for less than what your true feelings reflect or you're bound to end up hurt and disappointed in the end. Keep it real, if you like him as in relationship like him then you owe it to yourself to be honest about it.
It's sex, it's no strings attached sex and thus there isn't much to analyze. But to stick with her questions. Does he like you? Yes of course he does, you give him sex. Does he like the attention? Yes of course he does you give him sex. Nothing much to read, you give him sex he gives you no signals and a few mixed messages which lead to you feeling frustrated and sex.
men and women approach love differently, and that is the whole basis for The Chase. If you're Friends With
Benefits, there is NO chase! Men hear "friends with benefits" and to them, that means sex without her crying about anything! Women hear "friends with benefits" and they think that means sex with emotional benefits...Wrong.
Men who want to be your FWB are ALREADY telling you that they want LIMITS on getting close. A woman may be focusing on the FRIEND part as in, "He's my New Best Friend!!" A man is focusing on the BENEFIT part. The "Friend" part means, "What a relief, she's not officially my Girlfriend, so I don't owe her anything...."
"FRIENDS" in FWB means "We're not in relationship. I don't have to listen to you sigh, bitch, moan, ask, expect. If you're over the moon for someone, and he or she only wants FWB, something is already unbalanced. One person is in love, and the other person is not. The person who is in love will probably waste months to years convincing themselves that
the other person "is afraid to get close" for whatever reason....
So if you are "in love," but you're thinking for one minute about settling for being "Friend With Benefits," think twice, because you will probably end up feeling shortchanged. Don't settle for less than what your true feelings reflect or you're bound to end up hurt and disappointed in the end. Keep it real, if you like him as in relationship like him then you owe it to yourself to be honest about it.
Posted by MoonManPosted by BigGirlPantiesPosted by MoonMan
Hi cupcake
What's your Sun/Venus signs?
The "Hi Cupcake" sounds sexy when you say it that way.
Wanna see my panties, big fella 😉?
hehehe
That's the bestest offer I've had all week.
But, you sound like a whole lotta woman!
Will you be gentle?
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I'ma toss you around like a sumo wrestler wrassling a puppy dog, pulling on your ding dong and anything else hanging out y body. But I'll kiss you on the forehead after and give ya cab fare. Muahh!
on a more serious note....isnt it possible that a man who initially says he wants a FWB deal can come to fall for the woman? It sounded that way to me, with his contradictory words vs behaviors. He sounds jealous and insecure. I wonder if OP ended the FWB and moved on would he seek her out to pursue a relationship?
Hmmm...food for thought.
Hmmm...food for thought.
Yes Moonman we are on the same page except for that porn comment, I don't like to base humanities sexuality on porno LOL as for jaded I won't try to sway you from that perception, it's okay to call me whatever you like I'm pretty secure in who I am as a person and being jaded isn't something that adds happiness to my life, I love being happy.
BPG I do understand some women know a friend of a friend of a friend that happen to do the FWB thing fall in love and live happily ever after but I see no indication that he's fallen in love with her, there are rare exceptions but IMO she's not the exception she's the rule but hopefully I'm wrong and she'll get her man.
Although he appear wounded that doesn't mean because he's expressing and revealing his woundedness such as being insecure and jealous he's falling in love.
IMO he's controlling, he's afraid to get hurt and thus some men will attempt to control the whole relationship from beginning to end so as to not endure the risk of falling in love and feeling pain, if she leaves because she can't negotiate a balanced relationship with him were they both are winning well he can say to himself so what it was just sex, if she stays he can say so what it's just sex but all the while he'll BENEFIT the most by maintaining majority of control over the direction of the relationship to keep the pain or risk of being hurt at bay, it's a lose lose situation for her. It may be about love for her but for him it's not about love so she's bound to get upset and hurt at some point.
BPG I do understand some women know a friend of a friend of a friend that happen to do the FWB thing fall in love and live happily ever after but I see no indication that he's fallen in love with her, there are rare exceptions but IMO she's not the exception she's the rule but hopefully I'm wrong and she'll get her man.
Although he appear wounded that doesn't mean because he's expressing and revealing his woundedness such as being insecure and jealous he's falling in love.
IMO he's controlling, he's afraid to get hurt and thus some men will attempt to control the whole relationship from beginning to end so as to not endure the risk of falling in love and feeling pain, if she leaves because she can't negotiate a balanced relationship with him were they both are winning well he can say to himself so what it was just sex, if she stays he can say so what it's just sex but all the while he'll BENEFIT the most by maintaining majority of control over the direction of the relationship to keep the pain or risk of being hurt at bay, it's a lose lose situation for her. It may be about love for her but for him it's not about love so she's bound to get upset and hurt at some point.
Well I like how you think Moonman, you definitely are great at expressing yourself and I do agree sometimes we can't help who we are attracted, being human can be messy sometimes, it's not all black and white but I wouldn't have it any other way.
Posted by 1urbanicbluePosted by MaddyPosted by tiki33
There is nothing confusing about NSA sex and he get's the benefits.
And here we go again with Oprah or Dr. Phil which ever you like best. knows it all. You always sound bitter I wonder how many times you been screwed by men. You seem to know a lot!
lmao! You're so bad, maddy, very bad lady.
but i get what you mean. tiki comes off as really harsh and know-it-all. i think she means well, and uses too much logic, which is confusing when the heart is involved.
the cancer board is fun to read. when cancer men detach, it's called the crab-side shuffle and hiding in some sanddune rock.click to expand
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Posted by MoonManPosted by tiki33
Yes Moonman we are on the same page except for that porn comment, I don't like to base humanities sexuality on porno LOL as for jaded I won't try to sway you from that perception, it's okay to call me whatever you like I'm pretty secure in who I am as a person and being jaded isn't something that adds happiness to my life, I love being happy.
*chuckle* I wasn't basing humanities sexuality on porn. Far from it.
I was simply using that as one example that there are many women who enjoy and want just sex, without the 'relationship' or emotional complications, at certain times in their life.
There are also some women who don't want to have children, despite pressure from family & society.
I don't know you personally, but just going by your posts in this forum, there is still some tension in you when it comes to the male species. I can't quite put my finger on exactly what it is, but there is something under the surface of your emotional waters that you are still working on, regarding sexuality & men.
*It's just a feeling I get, I could be wrong though.click to expand
I think she likes this guy a great deal and she opted for less, doesn't mean she's not enjoying the guy, some women will do whatever it takes if she think it'll lead to something more permanent, the odds are not in her favor IMO. If it's NSA he'll act like a boyfriend sometimes, that's to be expected, nothing really confusing about it. If she enjoy the sex then I would encourage her not to allow him to confuse her so much with the boyfriend act, just relax and enjoy yourself.
As for tension, you're intuitive, I'm not necessarily agreeing with you but I like that about you, you're empathic and I enjoy empathic people...
Maybe I missed something here, or it was on another thread from OP, but where does it say they are FWB—?? I read in the first paragraph she feels he needs a friend more than anything...like she's dating him, but it doesn't feel like it's ever going to go anywhere, and he looks at her more like a friend.
To OP, in astrology side a Cancer man will lead you in a dance. Then he will go away for awhile, and then come back for the dance again. This will continue until A) you decide to say screw you, I'm dancing with someone else now B) or you become a doormat that allows them to do this. This is all for many reasons, whether he comes on strong in the beginning or not. Have a life outside of him, and don't hold your breath for too long or you may go blue in the face. You seriosly will have to decide for yourself how long this can go on when you have a Cancer man doing the crab dance.
He will also check in on you just to make sure you still are around. This does show interest OR it means he likes that you are interested in him. There is a difference, and again it is going to be up to you to decide how long you want to wait which it is. The worst thing you can do is try to make him jealous, because if he's still trying to ses you out, you are going to push him away.
You also have a man, that should he be into you, he would make an effort more than this. Unless there are circumstances preventing that, but generally it should be communicated. Keep your backbone straight, remember you're not a doormat, and like Tiki said if you are not getting from the relationship what you want or need, then you need to figure out if it's worth putting more time into it or not. Give only what you receive. And sometimes, that isn't enough when you sit back and detach yourself. Make him earn you, and it would be the same vice versa if it were you being so wishy washy. Make his mind up for him, but do it with tact and grace. If you choose that route, that you like him but it doesn't seem he's that into you and so you must keep moving on ;0
To OP, in astrology side a Cancer man will lead you in a dance. Then he will go away for awhile, and then come back for the dance again. This will continue until A) you decide to say screw you, I'm dancing with someone else now B) or you become a doormat that allows them to do this. This is all for many reasons, whether he comes on strong in the beginning or not. Have a life outside of him, and don't hold your breath for too long or you may go blue in the face. You seriosly will have to decide for yourself how long this can go on when you have a Cancer man doing the crab dance.
He will also check in on you just to make sure you still are around. This does show interest OR it means he likes that you are interested in him. There is a difference, and again it is going to be up to you to decide how long you want to wait which it is. The worst thing you can do is try to make him jealous, because if he's still trying to ses you out, you are going to push him away.
You also have a man, that should he be into you, he would make an effort more than this. Unless there are circumstances preventing that, but generally it should be communicated. Keep your backbone straight, remember you're not a doormat, and like Tiki said if you are not getting from the relationship what you want or need, then you need to figure out if it's worth putting more time into it or not. Give only what you receive. And sometimes, that isn't enough when you sit back and detach yourself. Make him earn you, and it would be the same vice versa if it were you being so wishy washy. Make his mind up for him, but do it with tact and grace. If you choose that route, that you like him but it doesn't seem he's that into you and so you must keep moving on ;0
Smileforme said he stressed they were NSA-no strings attached
"#3 - When we first met stressed how I had to understand no strings attached, not to be to romantic, he hates mushy stuff, now I can do all of that without any complaint from him!?"
"#3 - When we first met stressed how I had to understand no strings attached, not to be to romantic, he hates mushy stuff, now I can do all of that without any complaint from him!?"
Calm down! It is not that serious, I analyze everything. Not looking for a husband, nor am I thinking we are in love. This is new, and I was curious if he was showing signs of being interested. Interested in me, not in marrying me or being my "boyfriend". I think your all a little to serious. It was a simple question and in the end i'm enjoying his company, I dont think he will be the last man I will be wondering if he likes me. By No strings attached, yes he did say that, I dont want an overnight hubby either. My question was more about being mushy, he was not into that and now he is. If I were looking to settle down, get married and have kids, I sure as hell would not be asking questions on horoscope board. I like him, and I'm hoping we maintain our growing connection. Maybe to simple for your deep thoughts.
Posted by MoonManPosted by smileforme
Summary: Seeing a Cancer guy not serious yet. Pushed me away a lot in the begining, nicer now, but I still very confusing.
Seems to need a friend and someone to vent to more than anything. Sexy as all hell, funny, and did I say sexy? lol
If he has just had a bad day, fair enough, but if he's venting and whinging regularly, tell him to
man up or you will have to start charging him for councelling sessions!
Posted by smileforme
#1 - If he does not hear from me for a few days, he will send a text like "yeah ok", I will respond huh? Then he will go on and on about how he texted and I did not text back. (If I get a text I always respond)
Your response "huh?" is gold! Him going 'on and on and on' is a bit dodgy.
@moonman short and simple the way I like it. Thank you!
Posted by smileforme
#2 - Every now and then he will send a text, like how was your day, hey sexy, - does it mean anything?
Sounds like basic, run of the mill flirting to me. It's good, but nothing deep.
Posted by smileforme
#3 - When we first met stressed how I had to understand no strings attached, not to be to romantic, he hates mushy stuff, now I can do all of that without any complaint from him!
I don't understand what he means by this - "not to be romantic, he hates mushy stuff" - whatever dude.
About the "no strings attached"...come on, you gotta know what he's getting at here, hey?
Posted by smileforme
#4 - Will occasionaly accuse me of "seeing" other dudes, but in a joking way. (does not seem clingy at all to me)
Yeah well, he's probably sussing you out to see if you are playing the field, yourself.
Posted by smileforme
#5 - I did tell him that I want him in my life and I dont want him to disappear.
Mmmm, sounds like you like him for sure. Just keep your feet on the ground, Miss Aquarius.
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Posted by MaddyPosted by 1urbanicbluePosted by MaddyPosted by tiki33
There is nothing confusing about NSA sex and he get's the benefits.
And here we go again with Oprah or Dr. Phil which ever you like best. knows it all. You always sound bitter I wonder how many times you been screwed by men. You seem to know a lot!
lmao! You're so bad, maddy, very bad lady.
but i get what you mean. tiki comes off as really harsh and know-it-all. i think she means well, and uses too much logic, which is confusing when the heart is involved.
the cancer board is fun to read. when cancer men detach, it's called the crab-side shuffle and hiding in some sanddune rock.
Lol. I really don't care, she seems bitter towards men most of the time. Ppl need to experience things by themselves in order to learn, can't push anyone.
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@Maddy I agree, she needs to get laid or something, it is not that serious! If it were I would not be on a freaking message board asking for advice. I like to analyze and I had a few questions, MoonMan answered and I was happy. I don't need a sermon, people preaching usually are the ones having the issues. Get a grip, and by grip....lol
Posted by tiki33Posted by 1urbanicbluePosted by MaddyPosted by tiki33
There is nothing confusing about NSA sex and he get's the benefits.
And here we go again with Oprah or Dr. Phil which ever you like best. knows it all. You always sound bitter I wonder how many times you been screwed by men. You seem to know a lot!
lmao! You're so bad, maddy, very bad lady.
but i get what you mean. tiki comes off as really harsh and know-it-all. i think she means well, and uses too much logic, which is confusing when the heart is involved.
the cancer board is fun to read. when cancer men detach, it's called the crab-side shuffle and hiding in some sanddune rock.
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Tiki i'm a big girl and I have been around. Don't worry about me. You are giving men to much credit, sometimes you want them to "like" you, *uck you, and have fun. If every man you want to like you you want to marry, you have bigger issues. That is really scary, just because I like him today, does not mean I will tomorrow. I think your a little much.
@moonman, I like you 😉 Maybe I am going through a Cancer phase. lol
@moonman update: The other day he texted wanting to know where I was and then texted an hour later where was I? lol, cute I like it, but he keeps calling me sweetie and sexy, starting to feel like canned responses.
@moonman update: The other day he texted wanting to know where I was and then texted an hour later where was I? lol, cute I like it, but he keeps calling me sweetie and sexy, starting to feel like canned responses.
Smileforme you are the one HERE looking for advice about a no strings attached relationship so maybe you are the one giving him too much credit because you are the one confused and reading too much into your NSA relationship, relax, have fun and if it's meant to be more than sex it'll naturally be that all on it's own.
I'm an Aquarius myself and Cancer and Aqua don't mix too well for too long so have fun while you can while it last.
I'm an Aquarius myself and Cancer and Aqua don't mix too well for too long so have fun while you can while it last.
Tiki your a silly *itch. Signs have nothing to do with relationships working, maybe that is why you have so much time to post crap online. And if you are an Aquarius why would you even comment, WTF do you know? Ok Tiki, you know all, so smart and a strong woman, like I said those who talk usually never do the walk! Your "man" is probably out looking for someone that does not have their mind made up about relationships based on his birthdate. Let the Cancer men talk to me, you can disappear. Take care icky tikki, and why were you on here again? lmao
Posted by smileforme
Calm down! It is not that serious, I analyze everything. Not looking for a husband, nor am I thinking we are in love. This is new, and I was curious if he was showing signs of being interested. Interested in me, not in marrying me or being my "boyfriend". I think your all a little to serious. It was a simple question and in the end i'm enjoying his company, I dont think he will be the last man I will be wondering if he likes me. By No strings attached, yes he did say that, I dont want an overnight hubby either. My question was more about being mushy, he was not into that and now he is. If I were looking to settle down, get married and have kids, I sure as hell would not be asking questions on horoscope board. I like him, and I'm hoping we maintain our growing connection. Maybe to simple for your deep thoughts.
I just have to say, this is contradictory though. Although I don't know that NOW is the time, you will at some point have to make a decision for YOURSELF. Because this WILL continue on until you do. Have fun with it yes, BUT if you don't think he will be the last guy you wonder about and you're not looking for a husband, etc. then you ARE wasting YOUR life on someone who may or may not be into you. This is where I'm saying you'll have to decide for yourself. But, if you are fine with a NSA relationship, and this is of no offense, first you wouldn't be on a board even posting it and second you probably wouldn't be giving two shits if this is typical of a Cancerian guy...the astrological aspect of it. So if you want my thoughts? He's becoming attached to you BUT he really hasn't decided on you either. And once he does? It will be one way or the other, full throttle....you'll be cut off, or he'll want you as his. I'm a Cancer, the only time in my life had a FWB situation with another Cancer, and also had a LTR with a Cancer. Maybe you need to sit back and delve a little more into your long term needs, because you wouldnt be on a board even inquiring about it.... so something has driven that, and it's not our responses. BTW, you may be right about our deep thoughts. Something you may or may need to get used to if you want to keep fucking him. If you can't handle a few people you don't knows opinion (us Cancers), then you may not really ever enjoy or get him to his fullest .... and we are the best when it comes to the bedroom, ha
*hands down, or so they say 😉 haha
LOL You are so defensive, on the attack well if I'm wrong then there is no need to be on the defense. If you weren't in love, if you weren't falling in love you wouldn't be here wasting time on analyzing some guy whose just a fuck buddy/NSA, the mere fact that you are analyzing his actions means you are falling, infatuated with the new display of emotions and reading too much into it.
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+1 OceanDeep
Oceandeep Understood but you don't know me. A message board asking for information means I want him? Are you serious? I think you are all to serious really. But think what you want, sounds like some chicks around here have been hurt and are bitter. My life is full regardless of who wants me or are making up their mind. You all seem to put to much into a man, I asked a question and now you are making a federal case. I have a job own a house and a million other things, so a man is not my main focus maybe yours. And sex? Did I ever say we had sex? I inquired because my curiosity is peaked and I do like him, but big whoop, like I said he won't be the last for sure. You girls need to look up the definition of dating, and etc. You seem like you like a guy and want to get married right away, corny and not for me. Okay Bitches, Im sick of replying now, I dont want to live on these boards like you sorry broads! Especially Tikki, she is on all the time, do you run dxpnet? Or is this what you do to make some sucker think you have a life? lmao
Tikki your a sorry chick. Your on the boards, so what are you needing or you just give free advice in your downtime? Also Tikki before you give your "professional" opinion you should always ask for more information, how can you think your so right when you only know what I posted you think that is everything? Do you have a degree in anything? Let's here about you since your such a know it all, probably a lonely ugly *itch using the internet via AOL on dial up. lmao
Posted by MaddyPosted by tiki33
There is nothing confusing about NSA sex and he get's the benefits.
And here we go again with Oprah or Dr. Phil which ever you like best. knows it all. You always sound bitter I wonder how many times you been screwed by men. You seem to know a lot!click to expand
I don't get "bitter" from tiki's post.
She is telling it like it is.
No she is a miserable bitch just read her profile all about a man. You must get approached for sex all the time and you must get disrespected a lit Tikki, because a whole profile dedicated to the kind of woman you are but really about what you wont stand for is sad. Talk about something else like your accomplishments in life, or is your only one that you have pushed men away because you are scared of getting hurt or most of them only want one thing from you. Sad really but I understand you go girl, your right. preach preach, men are the devil, dont have sex until your married, that way you know he wants you and if he divorces you it's because you had sex with him to soon on the honeymoon!
@Aries did anyone ask u if your were bitter or not? Who gives a eff about you anyway. lol
You are the one attacking our comments and thoughts so that makes you the bitter one. If a man isn't your main focus then why ask about him, asking about a man means he's your main focus.
The only corny behavior is you asking if a man you share a NSA relationship likes you, I mean do we have to tell you if a man like you or not or just want attention, since you are a grown able body woman with an independent mind you should be able to come to your own conclusion. You're here too so if we have no life apparently you don't either...
The only corny behavior is you asking if a man you share a NSA relationship likes you, I mean do we have to tell you if a man like you or not or just want attention, since you are a grown able body woman with an independent mind you should be able to come to your own conclusion. You're here too so if we have no life apparently you don't either...
Everything I ask about has to be my main focus? So your uneducated as well, like I figured. So every question you have had in your miserable life is your entire focus really Tikki, you can come better than. Don't play silly bitch now, your *ucking with the wrong woman, because I am a real woman. Accomplished to much in my life for some silly internet hoe to try to chomp me on "her" site. You want to come for me then you better be ready to come with something better than that. Whole profile about a man, who needs the help? Reading blogs about how awful me are and reposting some other woman's thoughts. Please!
If you feel like that why the hell are you on here answering? This is your volunteer good will works, so you can get your frigid lonely ass into heaven even though your a stone cold WITCH? Or does it make you feel good to answer questions like your some strong woman, but your just lonely and on the internet giving advice that you never followed and that is why you got hurt so bad? Who hurt you honey? He hit it and left? You didnt know how to get him back? Or you didnt even know his name?
Yep you're real, a real bitter angry woman and your post display all of that and then some. You're also easy, easy to control, I can't believe you allow me to control how you feel, so much for being independent.
It's a free world I can ask what I want. She is negative, she knows it, and when you are negative like that it is because you are miserable and unhappy in your own life, I messing around going back at her, but I am sad for her. Maybe she should see god instead of astrology to bring her what she needs in life to feel happy.
It's all about me. Thanks 😄
Control me Tikki I like it! Is this no stings attached or should I go and buy a ring for ya? lmao
Tikki it is all about you.
LOL You can do whatever you want, you're independent.
I was until I met you. Now Tikki, I want to know does our exchange back and forth on here mean anything? I feel like we are a little closer? Aqua and Aqua? Won't work?
You're independent figure it out for yourself.
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Oceandeep Understood but you don't know me. A message board asking for information means I want him? Are you serious? I think you are all to serious really. But think what you want, sounds like some chicks around here have been hurt and are bitter. My life is full regardless of who wants me or are making up their mind. You all seem to put to much into a man, I asked a question and now you are making a federal case. I have a job own a house and a million other things, so a man is not my main focus maybe yours. And sex? Did I ever say we had sex? I inquired because my curiosity is peaked and I do like him, but big whoop, like I said he won't be the last for sure. You girls need to look up the definition of dating, and etc. You seem like you like a guy and want to get married right away, corny and not for me. Okay Bitches, Im sick of replying now, I dont want to live on these boards like you sorry broads! Especially Tikki, she is on all the time, do you run dxpnet? Or is this what you do to make some sucker think you have a life? lmao
Ahhhhhh hahahahahahhaha Wow. Speaking out of both sides of your mouth Aqua Bitch. You don't know me either. And you are SOOOOOOOOOO not fitted for a Cancer. Have fun while it lasts. I never said you were sleeping with him, I said if you CAN'T grasp us then you won't get him fully, meaning you will never connect with him enough on that level to enjoy him fully in bed. Ding ding ding....registering yet in that head of yours—? Doubtful. See no one can stand when a Cancer isn't all sweet and loving, only when they hope that's what they're getting. I was really being nice to you in my response, and explaining things. But apparently, you only like things easy, nothing deep. Oh, my—? Maybe that explains you HHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHHA EASY and NOT DEEP...... yep. BITCH.
@smileforme, you have me LMFAO!!!!! BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! 😄
Posted by smileforme
@Aries did anyone ask u if your were bitter or not? Who gives a eff about you anyway. lol
I didn't get a bitter vibe from Tiki's post - she did not appear to be writing from a bitter 'place'.
I hope you aren't this rude to everyone.
Tikki I love Natalielue/NML's blog baggage reclaim! Tikki did do one thing good! :-)
Posted by smileforme
Tiki your a silly *itch. Signs have nothing to do with relationships working, maybe that is why you have so much time to post crap online. And if you are an Aquarius why would you even comment, WTF do you know? Ok Tiki, you know all, so smart and a strong woman, like I said those who talk usually never do the walk! Your "man" is probably out looking for someone that does not have their mind made up about relationships based on his birthdate. Let the Cancer men talk to me, you can disappear. Take care icky tikki, and why were you on here again? lmao
what crawled up your ass and died to make you so nasty? Step off, if you dont gree with TIki's opinion, let it go. Your nastyness says more about YOU. Geez...
kk
Posted by smileforme
Tikki I love Natalielue/NML's blog baggage reclaim! Tikki did do one thing good! :-)
Glad you loved it!
Posted by intellectualbrat
Wow amazing...This is a public board and I think Tiki had every right to express her opinion...
I agree. Even if not everyone likes it what one person might say I think it's cool to get a lot of different perspectives on the same topic.
oops- *likes what
Posted by BigGirlPantiesPosted by smileforme
Tiki your a silly *itch. Signs have nothing to do with relationships working, maybe that is why you have so much time to post crap online. And if you are an Aquarius why would you even comment, WTF do you know? Ok Tiki, you know all, so smart and a strong woman, like I said those who talk usually never do the walk! Your "man" is probably out looking for someone that does not have their mind made up about relationships based on his birthdate. Let the Cancer men talk to me, you can disappear. Take care icky tikki, and why were you on here again? lmao
what crawled up your ass and died to make you so nasty? Step off, if you dont gree with TIki's opinion, let it go. Your nastyness says more about YOU. Geez...click to expand
smileforme was ready for the fight... and said what she needed to say.... Tiki et al... made me stop posting here... with her/there holier then thou... comments... It is not that cut and dry sometimes... imo
Oceandeep... I love you really... want to get married 🙂
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