Does it mean anything? (Page 2)

I should add.. tho.. that I do agree.. with FWB... crappola...with Cancer's or any sign for that matter.... IMO.. you need to know what you want ... and guide yourself accordingly...or you are wasting valuable time and energy... If you don't go there... you will know if they respect you or not... Period..

If all you all looking for is a good time ... well.. OK.. go for it... however keep in mind that if you change you mind later.. don't expect him to change his mind... or you to even try to change that man... Just saying... It... imo ... will never happen.

I have been celibate for over a decade.. because NO MAN... has stepped up to the plate.. in a way.... that I was comfortable with... NO I am not looking for perfection... However, I do have standards...on what I will or will not accept.

I understand what you mean Catin, I apologize but honestly you're a grown woman and I can't "make" you do anything, your decision to stop posting is your choice, no one can make you do anything especially me and I don't want to make you stop b/c it's just a forum, you're free to roam and post wherever and whatever you want and I'm free to say my opinion with my own self imposed boundaries on how I choose to respond.

Posted by tiki33
I understand what you mean Catin, I apologize but honestly you're a grown woman and I can't "make" you do anything, your decision to stop posting is your choice, no one can make you do anything especially me and I don't want to make you stop b/c it's just a forum, you're free to roam and post wherever and whatever you want and I'm free to say my opinion with my own self imposed boundaries on how I choose to respond.

I would suggest you go re-read your post to me... and come back to post... BC.. imo.. you et al are venom in action.. at times which will discourage some from ever posting.. Just saying...

I'm a big girl... most likely decades older then you.....However I chose to be celibate for a reason... I finally learnt my lessons.. that BS words from men... were worthless.. regardless of their astrological sign... Just Saying...

I tried to covey this fact in my mind.... however you chose to dismiss me every time... Just saying..

If I were you..I would try to be more humble.. and extract more facts over the situation then just throwing people to the wolves...

I have no power whatsoever to control you or anyone else with that being said It's your opinion, you're entitled.

#1 - If he does not hear from me for a few days, he will send a text like "yeah ok", I will respond huh? Then he will go on and on about how he texted and I did not text back. (If I get a text I always respond)

This is great. Let him talk and see whats up.

#2 - Every now and then he will send a text, like how was your day, hey sexy, - does it mean anything?

He wants to keep up contact, see how you are doing. Its like a slow cancer dance. It may seem kind of basic but that is just cancer tact.

#3 - When we first met stressed how I had to understand no strings attached, not to be to romantic, he hates mushy stuff, now I can do all of that without any complaint from him!

I think that is self explanatory. But the thing with Cancers is that on many levels we dislike clingy. Yes shocking compared to the stereotypical "Cancer is clingy" We are clingy later on if we like you. Initially clingy people scare the living daylights out of us. Picture oxygen being sucked out of a room.

#4 - Will occasionaly accuse me of "seeing" other dudes, but in a joking way. (does not seem clingy at all to me)

In every joke is some level of truth. He is feeling things out. Play along, don't seem like you are serious about anyone, but also don't seem like you have no suitors.

#5 - I did tell him that I want him in my life and I dont want him to disappear.

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Why did you say this and what kind of a response do you want on this board about this?
In a way it is a nice thing to say because it shows that you care for him on a human level and would like to be friends. Cancers love to have people as friends. Those friends can turn into little sparklers of love for a cancer. it is a beautiful thing.