Experiences with Venus in Cancer?

Experiences with Venus in Cancer?

Clingy.

Posted by blackphase
I am one.. what you wanna know? 😛

The clingy statement made was correct.. Lol

If you like someone but never dated( just kissed) and then ended up Seeing someone else, would you feel torn between the two? How would u decide which one to be with?

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Posted by blackphase
I am one.. what you wanna know? 😛

The clingy statement made was correct.. Lol

If you like someone but never dated( just kissed) and then ended up Seeing someone else, would you feel torn between the two? How would u decide which one to be with?

Doesn't sound like a situation I would ever get myself in..

I operate on a one person at a time basis.. Am also not one to entertain men EVER. I don't give my time easily to just anyone.. If I liked someone enough to kiss them, I'm gonna be a leech on their ass until they prove that they have no interest, then I forget them and move on. I don't give up much to someone unless I know they 100% want to be with me though. So if they were showing no interest in me and I found another.. there is no looking back, no being torn.. I guess I never just "see" people though either. Learned my lesson there.

Once I am with someone I don't feel torn over someone that decided to change how they felt about me.. Too bad and too late for them.

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I see... But let's say you worked with someone and overtime the interactions/ teasing/ flirting you developed feelings for them then on an outing for someone's bday you are alone with them and start kissing/holding hands... But then you tell them you are confused because you had just stared seeing someone from your past and wished they had let you know sooner before this other person that you liked them... Now you feel torn between the coworker u see almost every day and the other person u have been seeing a month only a few times a week. How do u react around the coworker and which do you choose eventually?

Clingy, easily hurt, a bit sensitive. Probably the jealous type with a possibility of being possessive. Picky with lovers, and won't settle for just anyone or anything. Values beauty and excels in motherly traits.

They might carry around baggage and grudges if they lived a life full of being hurt and taken advantage of. Best bet is to be their friend for a good while. Let them get to know you and get comfortable around you. Never rush into a relationship with a Cancer Venus. They are extremely loving and normally romantic, which might make it hard to resist. Its important to get to know and trust each other before you go in too deep however.

It's hard for me to judge all cancer Venus when basing it off myself. Mine is in the first house, so maybe makes me a bit different.

Posted by VirgoGent
I'm a Venus in Cancer and I agree with the clingy comment as well.

However for myself I believe that's only in the initial phase of building the relationship. Once the relationship is established and the puppy love phase is over I tend to mellow out quite a bit. Sometimes too much.

Venus in Cancer.

"You like to be very close to other people. You need emotional support yourself and are willing to give it to others. When you feel unloved and insecure, you can be very jealous and possessive. You are not interested in casual or superficial relationships -- only deep emotional involvements interest you. Your faithful devotion is one of your greatest gifts, but be careful not to become too dependent on others. Learn to stand on your own two feet and demand your own rights once in a while."

Aww maybe u have met a VIC and I was okay with it as I get like this but only in the relationship toome. hm nice I like it.

All I want to know are they in it for long term and loyal, and okay with independent people.

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Posted by blackphase
I am one.. what you wanna know? 😛

The clingy statement made was correct.. Lol

If you like someone but never dated( just kissed) and then ended up Seeing someone else, would you feel torn between the two? How would u decide which one to be with?

Doesn't sound like a situation I would ever get myself in..

I operate on a one person at a time basis.. Am also not one to entertain men EVER. I don't give my time easily to just anyone.. If I liked someone enough to kiss them, I'm gonna be a leech on their ass until they prove that they have no interest, then I forget them and move on. I don't give up much to someone unless I know they 100% want to be with me though. So if they were showing no interest in me and I found another.. there is no looking back, no being torn.. I guess I never just "see" people though either. Learned my lesson there.

Once I am with someone I don't feel torn over someone that decided to change how they felt about me.. Too bad and too late for them.

I see... But let's say you worked with someone and overtime the interactions/ teasing/ flirting you developed feelings for them then on an outing for someone's bday you are alone with them and start kissing/holding hands... But then you tell them you are confused because you had just stared seeing someone from your past and wished they had let you know sooner before this other person that you liked them... Now you feel torn between the coworker u see almost every day and the other person u have been seeing a month only a few times a week. How do u react around the coworker and which do you choose eventually?

Yes, a scenario helps me to give a better answer 😛

Simple answer.. I would NEVER EVER do that. If I had just rekindled something with someone from my past.. I'm not gonna blow it by making out with or even flirting with someone else.. If I already had a lot of interest in the co worker I likely wouldn't revisit someone from my past.. they are my past for a reason.. so if I had something good going with someone new, I'd likely ignore the past. I can only focus on one person at a time.. I have blinders in that sense.. I only see one.

I´ve read the topic in the gem forum about this guy. And I think it´s quite obvious: he doesn´t have to chose either the girl he´s currently dating or the girl, who is here postig about him. He gets them both, and he doesn´t want one more than the other, so why should he bother to chose, when he can have it all?

Don´t overestimate somebody, just because they are born with this placements. When this placement is supposed to say, how they treat love, then don´t count on it saying anything about how they treat all the people, they are NOT in love with.

Aww, I missed the back story. One of those guys huh? Lame!

Yeah, he's not the same breed as I clearly..

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Yeah, well he def lost one ?

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Posted by blackphase
I am one.. what you wanna know? 😛

The clingy statement made was correct.. Lol

If you like someone but never dated( just kissed) and then ended up Seeing someone else, would you feel torn between the two? How would u decide which one to be with?

Doesn't sound like a situation I would ever get myself in..

I operate on a one person at a time basis.. Am also not one to entertain men EVER. I don't give my time easily to just anyone.. If I liked someone enough to kiss them, I'm gonna be a leech on their ass until they prove that they have no interest, then I forget them and move on. I don't give up much to someone unless I know they 100% want to be with me though. So if they were showing no interest in me and I found another.. there is no looking back, no being torn.. I guess I never just "see" people though either. Learned my lesson there.

Once I am with someone I don't feel torn over someone that decided to change how they felt about me.. Too bad and too late for them.

I see... But let's say you worked with someone and overtime the interactions/ teasing/ flirting you developed feelings for them then on an outing for someone's bday you are alone with them and start kissing/holding hands... But then you tell them you are confused because you had just stared seeing someone from your past and wished they had let you know sooner before this other person that you liked them... Now you feel torn between the coworker u see almost every day and the other person u have been seeing a month only a few times a week. How do u react around the coworker and which do you choose eventually?

Yes, a scenario helps me to give a better answer 😛

Simple answer.. I would NEVER EVER do that. If I had just rekindled something with someone from my past.. I'm not gonna blow it by making out with or even flirting with someone else.. If I already had a lot of interest in the co worker I likely wouldn't revisit someone from my past.. they are my past for a reason.. so if I had something good going with someone new, I'd likely ignore the past. I can only focus on one person at a time.. I have blinders in that sense.. I only see one.

I´ve read the topic in the gem forum about this guy. And I think it´s quite obvious: he doesn´t have to chose either the girl he´s currently dating or the girl, who is here postig about him. He gets them both, and he doesn´t want one more than the other, so why should he bother to chose, when he can have it all?

Don´t overestimate somebody, just because they are born with this placements. When this placement is supposed to say, how they treat love, then don´t count on it saying anything about how they treat all the people, they are NOT in love with.

Aww, I missed the back story. One of those guys huh? Lame!

Yeah, he's not the same breed as I clearly..

Well you are here answering questions with love in mind.

But that guy is obviously not in love, he is in like or in lust. So venus shouldn´t even really matter ey 🙂

... Plus he´s a guy, so....! 😄 (I hate gendered stereotypes, but sometimes!!!! ... Sometimes man....!)

Nah, I agree. Men and women operate much differently!

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Well of course he's not in love lol like I said we never really talked before just he would tease/joke around with me... When I realized I liked him it was too late I never really had a chance.

Posted by VirgoGent
I'm a Venus in Cancer and I agree with the clingy comment as well.

However for myself I believe that's only in the initial phase of building the relationship. Once the relationship is established and the puppy love phase is over I tend to mellow out quite a bit. Sometimes too much.

Venus in Cancer.

"You like to be very close to other people. You need emotional support yourself and are willing to give it to others. When you feel unloved and insecure, you can be very jealous and possessive. You are not interested in casual or superficial relationships -- only deep emotional involvements interest you. Your faithful devotion is one of your greatest gifts, but be careful not to become too dependent on others. Learn to stand on your own two feet and demand your own rights once in a while."

omg another virgo with cancer venus!

i feel all alone on this site.

Posted by Soul
Clingy, easily hurt, a bit sensitive. Probably the jealous type with a possibility of being possessive. Picky with lovers, and won't settle for just anyone or anything. Values beauty and excels in motherly traits.

They might carry around baggage and grudges if they lived a life full of being hurt and taken advantage of. Best bet is to be their friend for a good while. Let them get to know you and get comfortable around you. Never rush into a relationship with a Cancer Venus. They are extremely loving and normally romantic, which might make it hard to resist. Its important to get to know and trust each other before you go in too deep however.

It's hard for me to judge all cancer Venus when basing it off myself. Mine is in the first house, so maybe makes me a bit different.

Just a possibility? lmao, understatement

I agree with the rest of your statement.

Posted by notsosure
Sometimes, MANY times, I feel like guys are much more comfortable and satisfied with an in-between situation with multiple girls, than if the situation was reversed. I wouldn´t be able to handle two guys in any way, and I am not even able to handle an in-betwee situation with one guy 😄

Either we are or we are not. That´s it.

I've had feelings for 2 guys before... I was dating one but had feelings for another years before... I could date 2 guys in fact I probably need 2?

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Posted by VirgoGent
I'm a Venus in Cancer and I agree with the clingy comment as well.

However for myself I believe that's only in the initial phase of building the relationship. Once the relationship is established and the puppy love phase is over I tend to mellow out quite a bit. Sometimes too much.

Venus in Cancer.

"You like to be very close to other people. You need emotional support yourself and are willing to give it to others. When you feel unloved and insecure, you can be very jealous and possessive. You are not interested in casual or superficial relationships -- only deep emotional involvements interest you. Your faithful devotion is one of your greatest gifts, but be careful not to become too dependent on others. Learn to stand on your own two feet and demand your own rights once in a while."

omg another virgo with cancer venus!

i feel all alone on this site.

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i'd love to hear more virgo with venus cancer perspectives! plz tell me more lol