How hard is it for Venus in Cancer to let go?

Do they keep coming back?

What if they seem distant?

I'd like to know the answer to this also.

im not a venus cancer so i don't know, but i have experienced a venus cancer always "coming and going" = for years! only in the past couple months has he got him self a different girl friend.

so i guess it is pretty hard for them to let go, but at the same time they do have the power to leave, so don't under estimate it.

What is this "letting go" you speak of?

Posted by firefis1996
im not a venus cancer so i don't know, but i have experienced a venus cancer always "coming and going" = for years! only in the past couple months has he got him self a different girl friend.

so i guess it is pretty hard for them to let go, but at the same time they do have the power to leave, so don't under estimate it.

can you elaborate on the coming and going? do they come back to test waters?

Posted by purplelove

Posted by firefis1996
im not a venus cancer so i don't know, but i have experienced a venus cancer always "coming and going" = for years! only in the past couple months has he got him self a different girl friend.

so i guess it is pretty hard for them to let go, but at the same time they do have the power to leave, so don't under estimate it.

can you elaborate on the coming and going? do they come back to test waters?

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yeah. they will come back, check up on you and see how you're going. maybe try to initiate something in person. then as soon as you get "too" close again, they'll drift away. can happen after 6 months or from month to month

Posted by firefis1996

Posted by purplelove

Posted by firefis1996
im not a venus cancer so i don't know, but i have experienced a venus cancer always "coming and going" = for years! only in the past couple months has he got him self a different girl friend.

so i guess it is pretty hard for them to let go, but at the same time they do have the power to leave, so don't under estimate it.

can you elaborate on the coming and going? do they come back to test waters?

yeah. they will come back, check up on you and see how you're going. maybe try to initiate something in person. then as soon as you get "too" close again, they'll drift away. can happen after 6 months or from month to month

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edit: even now with the cancer i know, he's got a girlfriend yet still checks up on me, waves at me, flirts if he can.

It all depends how important the thing they are letting go is. Sometimes letting go of something though it feels important is a sweet relief. Other times its disastrous. I feel most Cancer traits are a bit unpredictable.

Posted by blackphase
Extremely hard to impossible to let go..

If they seem distant it's cause you hurt them.. They are waiting for your sincere apology 😛

I agree with this.