Help please, first step to getting help with anger

Posted by Wynter
I know someone with an Aries Moon, and her rage is uncontrollable as well.

Posted by starlover
Moon in Aries....your emotions can be out of control..just think of a child having a temper tantrum

Posted by cancergoddess143
Aries moon coupled with a Cancer sun & rising?!?!? You definitely can't take a joke lightly, not even sarcasm. And you are an emotional wreck! Just learn tolerance, patience and seek counseling. You'll be fine. 🙂

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Posted by cancergoddess143
Aries moon coupled with a Cancer sun & rising?!?!? You definitely can't take a joke lightly, not even sarcasm. And you are an emotional wreck! Just learn tolerance, patience and seek counseling. You'll be fine. 🙂

Would any of these have anything to do with me having a bad temper and being violent as well?

I have a Pisces mars
I have Mars square saturn
I have Mars square Uranus, with my Uranus being out of bounds

Thanks for responding and helping, and yes Im seeking counseling as we speak

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Posted by DualNaturedII
The Moon -represents your emotional responses

Posted by aime7
Yup its the Moon. Fire Moons tend to have tempers, I would know because I'm a Leo Moon. Your Moon is also deposited by Mars. You also have Mars in Pisces, which means you may have suppressed anger

Posted by Damnata
You need to get into any type of sport.

That Mars in Pisces does not go well with an Aries Moon at all.

Posted by AesmaDaeva
I have an aries moon too, like you. What helps me is doing exercises to spend that extra energy, get enough rest, and eat at proper times. In general, your overall health exacerbates your mood. Chanting helps me too.

When you start feeling the anger rising, count 1 - 10 then count again backwards. This gives you time to cool off and be more levelheaded. Pick your battles, and learn when to let go. There are healthier ways to express anger like talking about it without being accusatory, demeaning or hurtful. You can also express it through art, music, poetry, writing, sports, some other hobby.

My moon is in house 5 so for me, I need to create something not necessarily art related but just some craft then it makes me happy and calms me down. I just need to be creative and pour out my feelings into whatever I do. That makes me feel fulfilled.

Your moon is in house 11 so for you, support from friends or belonging to groups might help keep you stable.

Moon in the 11th House

This position of the Moon indicates an emotional need for a feeling of belonging with, and support from, friends and associations with groups. You look to acquaintances for support, and offer the same in return. A changeable or unstable social life might be a reflection of inner emotional unrest. Waxing and waning feelings for others can cause problems in your relationships. You are a person who is filled with many dreams, wishes, and hopes for your future, and most of these are altruistic and good-hearted desires. However, you might change your aspirations frequently, with your changing moods, and have a hard time settling on goals to work towards as a result.

*You get a lot of emotional fulfillment through your involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for you. You make friends your family, and feel a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that you hold dear. You need people outside of your physical family to relate to and belong to.

http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/mooninhouses.html

Posted by Hotbeefy
I have a question here,
Are you using in the rage of psychical or verbalize?

Posted by aime7
Yeah Mars-Uranus:Unexpected, violent temper
Mars-Saturn:Cruelty

Posted by cancergoddess143

Posted by imhere11

Posted by cancergoddess143
Aries moon coupled with a Cancer sun & rising?!?!? You definitely can't take a joke lightly, not even sarcasm. And you are an emotional wreck! Just learn tolerance, patience and seek counseling. You'll be fine. 🙂

Would any of these have anything to do with me having a bad temper and being violent as well?

I have a Pisces mars
I have Mars square saturn
I have Mars square Uranus, with my Uranus being out of bounds

Thanks for responding and helping, and yes Im seeking counseling as we speak

READ THIS CAREFULLY!! Aries moon is your biggest issue.

"Moon is in 27 Degrees Aries.
High-spirited and courageous, you are a fighter when your emotions are aroused. The degree of force and drive that you can bring to any effort sometimes surprises others. You have hair-trigger reactions to specific stimuli and tend to "let it all hang out." You sometimes act before you think and do things on the spur of the moment, and that sometimes gets you into trouble. Your moods change quickly -- you have quite a temper, but you don't hold grudges. Very independent, with an extremely strong and forceful personality, you are known for being impulsive, careless, reckless, foolhardy, rash and daring. "

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Posted by cancergoddess143
If that is the case then you shouldn't solely blame your astrological signs on your bad temper. Other important factors come into play, like the way you were raised, trauma you might have endured at a young age, abuse, mental illness that is genetic, etc... You will not find all of the answers to your problems thru astrology. Sorry!

Posted by SirHorns
Read this:
he square will be felt as an inner tension, you are torn between the Uranian search for freedom and a deep need to feel safe and secure. This is a clash between the familiar patterns of the known and the siren call of the potential of the unknown. This is likely to be felt as a fear of commitment and risk. Whilst you will be attracted towards greater freedom, with the possibility of creating a context where you can be more fully yourself, the likelihood is that you will resist the impulse. As you analyze your options, you prefer to play safe, as you cannot obtain these cast-iron guarantees that you would like as to the future success of your choices. This inner frustration that is likely to build up can cause stress, as a part of your nature is being denied and repressed. You are liable to feel some emotional unease, where you are afraid of allowing full emotional expression, or even properly acknowledging your emotional nature.

Link: http://astromatrix.org/Horoscopes/Planet-Aspects/Mars-Square-Uranus
Mars/Saturn

With Mars square Saturn, you alternate between periods of aggression and periods of recession and apathy. You are constantly at war with yourself because you cannot resolve this problem, which is not an easy one, as your experience has shown. Your greatest lessons in life will probably be learned through your relationships with others. You don't always know just how much you can assert yourself in your associations. Your romantic relationships are ensnarled with inconsistencies of temperament and emotional intent. You suffer deeply if your advances are rejected by someone. It is possible for you to become vindictive and even use physical violence against people you don't really want to hurt.

Mars/Jupiter makes you susceptible to overdoing things and having over the top reactions.

Posted by imhere11

Posted by SirHorns
Read this:
he square will be felt as an inner tension, you are torn between the Uranian search for freedom and a deep need to feel safe and secure. This is a clash between the familiar patterns of the known and the siren call of the potential of the unknown. This is likely to be felt as a fear of commitment and risk. Whilst you will be attracted towards greater freedom, with the possibility of creating a context where you can be more fully yourself, the likelihood is that you will resist the impulse. As you analyze your options, you prefer to play safe, as you cannot obtain these cast-iron guarantees that you would like as to the future success of your choices. This inner frustration that is likely to build up can cause stress, as a part of your nature is being denied and repressed. You are liable to feel some emotional unease, where you are afraid of allowing full emotional expression, or even properly acknowledging your emotional nature.

Link: http://astromatrix.org/Horoscopes/Planet-Aspects/Mars-Square-Uranus
Mars/Saturn

With Mars square Saturn, you alternate between periods of aggression and periods of recession and apathy. You are constantly at war with yourself because you cannot resolve this problem, which is not an easy one, as your experience has shown. Your greatest lessons in life will probably be learned through your relationships with others. You don't always know just how much you can assert yourself in your associations. Your romantic relationships are ensnarled with inconsistencies of temperament and emotional intent. You suffer deeply if your advances are rejected by someone. It is possible for you to become vindictive and even use physical violence against people you don't really want to hurt.

Mars/Jupiter makes you susceptible to overdoing things and having over the top reactions.

Interesting, so basically, I have an terrible anger problem due to Aries Moon and Mars Pisces

And at times I choose not to get violent because of mars square uranus, but if pushed to far I can be very violent due to mars square saturn?

Does that sum it up?

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Posted by SirHorns

Posted by imhere11

Posted by SirHorns
Read this:
he square will be felt as an inner tension, you are torn between the Uranian search for freedom and a deep need to feel safe and secure. This is a clash between the familiar patterns of the known and the siren call of the potential of the unknown. This is likely to be felt as a fear of commitment and risk. Whilst you will be attracted towards greater freedom, with the possibility of creating a context where you can be more fully yourself, the likelihood is that you will resist the impulse. As you analyze your options, you prefer to play safe, as you cannot obtain these cast-iron guarantees that you would like as to the future success of your choices. This inner frustration that is likely to build up can cause stress, as a part of your nature is being denied and repressed. You are liable to feel some emotional unease, where you are afraid of allowing full emotional expression, or even properly acknowledging your emotional nature.

Link: http://astromatrix.org/Horoscopes/Planet-Aspects/Mars-Square-Uranus
Mars/Saturn

With Mars square Saturn, you alternate between periods of aggression and periods of recession and apathy. You are constantly at war with yourself because you cannot resolve this problem, which is not an easy one, as your experience has shown. Your greatest lessons in life will probably be learned through your relationships with others. You don't always know just how much you can assert yourself in your associations. Your romantic relationships are ensnarled with inconsistencies of temperament and emotional intent. You suffer deeply if your advances are rejected by someone. It is possible for you to become vindictive and even use physical violence against people you don't really want to hurt.

Mars/Jupiter makes you susceptible to overdoing things and having over the top reactions.

Interesting, so basically, I have an terrible anger problem due to Aries Moon and Mars Pisces

And at times I choose not to get violent because of mars square uranus, but if pushed to far I can be very violent due to mars square saturn?

Does that sum it up?

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Yup, you need outlets. Working out, art...you can

Posted by KVZZMIR11
You have a head without any screws in it.
Embrace this fact, and find a way to channel this energy.
Sports, Debates, Go hunting...shoot some geese in mid-flight!
I dont know, learn something new.
Like learning how to play the drum or electric guitar.
Progress, progress, progress is what Aries Moon is all about.

Posted by aime7
Having a Fire Moon is beautiful.

Posted by aime7
Especially for males, it gives us those feral emotions. It helps to offset the Retrograde Virgo Mars placement. I would be a nervous, crazy wreck without a fire moon.

Posted by aime7
Nah it's in Leo.

Posted by KVZZMIR11

Posted by imhere11

Posted by KVZZMIR11
You have a head without any screws in it.
Embrace this fact, and find a way to channel this energy.
Sports, Debates, Go hunting...shoot some geese in mid-flight!
I dont know, learn something new.
Like learning how to play the drum or electric guitar.
Progress, progress, progress is what Aries Moon is all about.

I have a head with no screws in it, because of Aries Moon alone or because of Aries Moon,Pisces Mars, Mars square Uranus and Saturn all combined?

And I've picked up weightlifting and do it 5 times a week!

Your Moon and Mars is detrimental.
Dentrimental planets are more FRUSTRATED, STRESSED like no other.
You are overthinking, no reaction, or you will overeact, no thinking.
We never know, especially with a Mars in detriment.
Its unpredictable.
Your Mars energy is internal, meaning that you are a time bomb waiting to go off.

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Posted by KVZZMIR11

Posted by imhere11

Posted by KVZZMIR11
You have a head without any screws in it.
Embrace this fact, and find a way to channel this energy.
Sports, Debates, Go hunting...shoot some geese in mid-flight!
I dont know, learn something new.
Like learning how to play the drum or electric guitar.
Progress, progress, progress is what Aries Moon is all about.

I have a head with no screws in it, because of Aries Moon alone or because of Aries Moon,Pisces Mars, Mars square Uranus and Saturn all combined?

And I've picked up weightlifting and do it 5 times a week!

Your Moon and Mars is detrimental.
Dentrimental planets are more FRUSTRATED, STRESSED like no other.
You are overthinking, no reaction, or you will overeact, no thinking.
We never know, especially with a Mars in detriment.
Its unpredictable.
Your Mars energy is internal, meaning that you are a time bomb waiting to go off.

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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
This is fucking hilarious!!!!??_

I'm sorry but all I read was

I got anger problems??_

Your moon and mars is detrimental!!!!

I started lifting weights and its working!!!!

Posted by RainDancer88
Mars in House X

With Mars in the 10th House, your social and professional life is a constant conquest. If you go looking for trouble, you'll get it. The most important thing for you is to show your fighting spirit, and to assert your rights and ambitions whether other people like it or not. In the professional area, and in general in all your fields of action, you have a definite propensity for challenge. You progress through hands-on experiences, in empirical ways. You display dynamism, and at times, impulsiveness

Interpretation of the 26?? Pisces symbolic degree
"A man knocks at the door of a house in the middle of the night at the very moment when an earthquake shakes the ground and uproots the trees." (Janduz version)

In the aftermath of a disaster caused by a twist of fate or by excesses of all kinds, one must rebuild one's life with courage and learn from past mistakes. Ordeals increase self-confidence and faith in divine providence and turn out to be a powerful spur to accomplish remarkable feats.



** I relate to this. I think the key is to learn how to hone in on your strengths. Cause lady, the potential is present for greatness. People tend to loose logic when they loose their cool - literally "loose their freaking minds" and it's scientifically proven by the chemicals that are released.

You are courageous/fearless, passionate, and you seem to get your point across with your actions...(aka - your temper).

imhere11-
1. What makes you angry when people disagree with you? Does it offend you? DO you feel disrespected? Or maybe you feel like opposition is a possible threat?


2. DO you feel like you have to prove yourself?

I could be completely wrong, but I still battle urges to flip the fuck out when I'm pushed but I condition myself in a couple ways before it gets out of control. I have some crazy stories of the stuff I've done in the past when pissed.. like shocking things.

Posted by RainDancer88
Mars in House X

With Mars in the 10th House, your social and professional life is a constant conquest. If you go looking for trouble, you'll get it. The most important thing for you is to show your fighting spirit, and to assert your rights and ambitions whether other people like it or not. In the professional area, and in general in all your fields of action, you have a definite propensity for challenge. You progress through hands-on experiences, in empirical ways. You display dynamism, and at times, impulsiveness

Interpretation of the 26?? Pisces symbolic degree
"A man knocks at the door of a house in the middle of the night at the very moment when an earthquake shakes the ground and uproots the trees." (Janduz version)

In the aftermath of a disaster caused by a twist of fate or by excesses of all kinds, one must rebuild one's life with courage and learn from past mistakes. Ordeals increase self-confidence and faith in divine providence and turn out to be a powerful spur to accomplish remarkable feats.



** I relate to this. I think the key is to learn how to hone in on your strengths. Cause lady, the potential is present for greatness. People tend to loose logic when they loose their cool - literally "loose their freaking minds" and it's scientifically proven by the chemicals that are released.

You are courageous/fearless, passionate, and you seem to get your point across with your actions...(aka - your temper).

imhere11-
1. What makes you angry when people disagree with you? Does it offend you? DO you feel disrespected? Or maybe you feel like opposition is a possible threat?


2. DO you feel like you have to prove yourself?

I could be completely wrong, but I still battle urges to flip the fuck out when I'm pushed but I condition myself in a couple ways before it gets out of control. I have some crazy stories of the stuff I've done in the past when pissed.. like shocking things.