I have a crush

I don't know what it is about you cancer boys .......I always get so twisted when I am around them crabs. *Sigh* I have a crush on someone at my gym. He is absolutley beautiful. He has these amazing lats and arms. He is a bodybuilder. We have talked a few times and even corresponded via myspace, however it has been brief and nothing else.

It is horrible, because I am pisces girl and when I crush on someone I really retreat into myself, play avoidance, while in the inside I am twisted with nervousness, shyness, and complete utter avoidance. I can talk to a bunch of different men. My work-out partner is also male (pisces) and I sometimes wonder if he thinks I am with him.

What do you crabs like, someone who is more direct or do you like the chase.

Who knows maybe it will be a little crush that goes no where.

I swear I can talk to every meat head in that gym, flirt with them.....but this cancer, gets me all twisted inside. I just adore him.

What is this fish to do?

PD

Lol I actually wk part time at the gym and his member info has his birthday.

The convo wld go something like this "you have wonderful lats and arms. Can I fall into them? And by the way what is your sign?" lol

Lol I actually wk part time at the gym and his member info has his birthday.

The convo wld go something like this "you have wonderful lats and arms. Can I fall into them? And by the way what is your sign?" lol

Thanks imcancer!

How do you suggest I clue him in that I am not with pisces? I cannot stop wkin out with pisces becoz we make great wk out partners and we have become good friends but nothing romantic.

I did pay a compliment to him and told him I was in awe of watching him do pull ups. I said I now understand y he has these amazing arms and lats. *sigh* he really does have it going on.

Pd

ahhh. chasing the cancer man by misdirection. i played it tho, and won. i will say, i started things. i simply began by initiating a friendship. sure, sure, i had every intention of bagging and tagging this one, but he had other ideas. i just bounced up to him and started chatting. course, i'ma aries. we do that. i would bounce up to god himeslf and start asking questions. i ain't afraid of getting smote i guess! he zigged, then zagged, i was charming, funny, flirty in an innocent way, never crude, never pushy. just bubbly and friendly. he began seeking me out regularly. it took over a year before the romance emerged!! boy, did i have to cool my jets for HIM! but we just slowly let this amazing relationship unfold. by the time we were engaged, we REALLY knew one another. had really gotten in deep. we'll be married two years next month.
so, take a deep breath, pay him a genuine compliment, then begin a gentle conversation about something you have in common. you'll have to make the approach for awhile, but then it will probably roll by itself. cancer and pisces can be pure magic. try it!!!

yea a pisces /cancer are a great pair....i hurt my cancer girl terribly and i'm trying to get her back...i'm a pisces and was seeing my pisces ex behind my cancer girl's back ..i realise how much she means the world to me.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/pisces-man-and-a-1402980/ can someone give me a hand?

"I don't know what it is about you cancer boys .......I always get so twisted when I am around them crabs. "

-Yea cancer men do give me a run for my money 😛. My cancer sweetie is a handful, but I love em lol.

I have decided that I am going to treat him like I treat all the guys in the gym. You know just friendly and a bit flirty. 😛 If it just becomes more of a crush at a distance I am okay with that. He is absolutely amazing though.

Gang - I will send you his profile on Myspace. Than you know what I am talking about. *Sigh* 😛

PD

Okay I have decided to try and talk to him on a differnt level @ the gym tonight. I feel like a school girl. I did notice he was looking at me when I left last night.

What would be a clever thing to say to him?

Pd

hi?

girls talk too much sometimes

Lol @ cancce prince. That is the point I want to get past hi. Lol we acknowledge each other but I want to get to know him and see what he is like on the inside.

Okay when I was leaving the gym I caught him looking at me. Maybe he was thinking she is one got sweaty mess... Eww
Lol

I have such a crush on him.

Pd

Let me know how it went PD. 😛

Sorry for all typos from blckbry

Because I am afraid *hides behind rock* I am no good at chasing. I don't usually have to chase. I imagine we do have a lot to tlk about. We both love to wk out. We are always at the gym.

I am afraid of rejection if the truth must be known *hides behind rock*

Pd

Okay *puts on armor of courage* I will have more than small talk tomorrow when I go to the gym. That was my plan tonight but I end up skipping the gym tonight.

Pd

He did not show up @ the gym tonight. 😢

Tomorrow night.

Pd

cancer men do not chase women! if he likes u he will not come up to u so u r gonna have to do it

just do it!

Okay my timing has been amazingly bad. So I am having to move for new job I took and to be closer to my family. I saw him at the gym yesterday and actually had a decent conversation. I let him know it was my last weekend @ the gym and I was moving. I will miss him. It is only 50 miles away but a few miles to drive just to work out.

Pd

I will miss my cancer crush. Part of me wants to send him a confession and let him know I have a big crush on him. Or maybe not leave it like a dangling carrot

Pd

dont never say u have a crush on him lol like they said we never chase after women even tho we like them we want them to get at us first i think u shud ask him out maybe for coffee not dinner just to see wat he would say

"cancer men do not chase women!"

-oh I've experience some cancer men that were VERY persistant.