I have a problem with a Cancer guy ... i can't figure him out

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Ena91
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Hello!

This is a story between a Taurus Woman and a Cancer man and an Aquarius man.

I met this Cancer guy 5 months ago... we are work buddies ... At first he seemed interested in me.He kept staring at me and he smiled when ever he saw me so i smiled back at him.Soon after we started talking a little bit over chats but he was most interested in my body and trying to get me in bed ... so i rejected him ( i'm a Taurus ) .He tried to convince me ,over and over again that i should be with him in secret ( as he has a girlfriend ) and i rejected him over and over again.After 2 weeks of trying he gave up.I thought great finally he will give me some room to breath.I met his friend Aquarius after that on a party ,i felt really happy and great in an Aquarius company ,of course he plead me to kiss him all night since he was drunk and showed me that he was into me allot ( alcohol i guess since he isn't like that when he is sober ) I rejected him more times but he kept doing it.After that party i started hanging out with that Aquarius guy and we became real good friends.He accepted my rejection and i was happy that i can have some friends on work.The Cancer guy saw that i was hanging out allot with his buddy and he became jealous at first.He found out that i was with the Aquarius guy on the party and when his friend asked him " why wasn't he on the party " the Cancer guy said " i am not going to hold u a candle " i got surprised when i heard that ... after some times the air was clear i kept hanging out with my Aqua friend but the Cancer guy started flirting with me again staring ,smiling and checking out my body like i was some kinda meat.I noticed even that he was trying to get me away from the Aqua guy.I just ignored the Cancer since it was weird but as soon as i asked to get to know him and be friends he rejected me ( the cancer ).i got surprised at the sudden change of heart.He became cold toward me since i hanged allot with his buddy and after ward as i saw that he was getting less interested i was becoming cold my self toward him.Not long ago i asked him again if he hates me that much but he said no.So i asked again to be friends but i got an instant rejection from the Cancer guy.It hurt me but i got over it.Soon after we didn't talk much,the Cancer guy saw me together with the Aqua many times ,he even deleted me from his friend list.But as soon as he see me he stares ... he stares at me in a mean way so i just look the same way back at him.I'm still friends with his buddy and hang out allot with him but the Cancer guy keep staring at me.I don't get it what is it ? Does he likes me or not? If he hates me that much then he doesn't have to glare at me since i got the point ... Today his mentor came to me smiling and i smiled back at him but i gave the Cancer guy the cold look and shoulder since he already isn't interested but he kept staring at me after a few breaks on work he saw me and he stared at me with sad eyes ... i don't understand him ... he rejected me so many times and yet he stares at me ... does he hates me or not? i cant figure that guy out .And i don't know even if i should make a move or not.I am scared my self to get hurt as well.

Pls can someone help me ... i'm totally lost ... why would a guy that hates u stare at you allot? ... maybe i'm stupid and don't get the signs but that mean glare at me from the Cancer guy just gives me the signs to stay away from him as much as possible ... and yet he keeps staring ... weird if u ask me ...he is still friends with his Aqua buddy ,They are cool.His friend even brings him up to me but i just give the cold shoulder.Why would i be interested in a guy who hates me?
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TaurusBull1977
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@Ena

My gut instinct tells me you're a Baby Bull.

You really like this Cancer guy, but due to your cautious and reserved nature, you're not trying to give into his sexual demands.

You would like this Cancer man to court you instead.

I don't believe that is likely to happen.

Not all Cancer men are like this, just the unevolved ones.

It appears as if his 'ego' is bruised more than his emotions.

Which means that any interest that he has in you is disingenuous.
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Cancan
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Ena

My gut instinct tells me you're a Baby Bull.

You really like this Cancer guy, but due to your cautious and reserved nature, you're not trying to give into his sexual demands.

You would like this Cancer man to court you instead.

I don't believe that is likely to happen.

Not all Cancer men are like this, just the unevolved ones.

It appears as if his 'ego' is bruised more than his emotions.

Which means that any interest that he has in you is disingenuous.


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