I'm confused and open to opinions

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Listenlearnteach
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Went out to a lounge to meet a female friend
-Sat next to her and next to me was this Libra
-My female friend and I were conversing
-Libra kindly found his way into the conversation
-I asked him his name after a while and introduced him to my female friend being friendly
-later through the night him and I danced, him and her danced
-we all got drunk
-he made it clear he was interested in me I got his number
-we went on 2 dates
-second date he was turned off and I didn't realize it until I called him and he apologized for deleting my number. He was turned off by the fact I said I didn't see anything wrong with his ex giving him financial advice
.... Fast forward...
- we've gone on a plenty of dates
-he gets drunk and says abusive things when I tell him I don't want to hang out. I have to work or tired from work
-calls or texts to apologize after
Oh when he sends abusive stuff I copy and paste and send it back to him

Thoughts?
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So which responses are you going to listen to, the answers given here, or the answers given on the Libra board?
Both places seem to be telling you the same thing.

If he cut you off after a second date because "you didn't see anything wrong with his ex giving him financial advice", and then "says abusive things when I tell him I don't want to hang out", why would you continue seeing this guy?

The two behaviors I just mentioned ought to be two huge red flags.
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Listenlearnteach
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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
So which responses are you going to listen to, the answers given here, or the answers given on the Libra board?
Both places seem to be telling you the same thing.

If he cut you off after a second date because "you didn't see anything wrong with his ex giving him financial advice", and then "says abusive things when I tell him I don't want to hang out", why would you continue seeing this guy?

The two behaviors I just mentioned ought to be two huge red flags.
I have no problem listening to both especially because except for one poster so far have said what o concluded.

I also posted in relationships so no problem listening there either.