Hurt so much

Ive been hurt so much its hard to feel anything. I dont have any emotions at all. Well my personality is laid back anyways but i feel now im at the point in my life where being single is ok even if its forever.

What do other cancer ppl think, maybe its me. But i feel once we stop caring we dont care

Posted by tiziani
That's not good

Yea idk whats ur thoughts on this?

I know a bitch that stop loving and care b'cause she gives too much for money that he lost the real meaning of being in love.
I'm responsable for her, cause she was my bitch. 😄
Good old times never comes back.

HI Lovely, I'm not a cancer but feel your pain. It's like you get to a certain point and you become numb. May I ask if your pain is in the love dept? For me Its been a variety of things including the end of a relationship. Maybe it's time for a change. That's what makes me feel better. Change my hair, go on a diet etc or sometimes it's just excaping on vacation like Tiziani mentioned.I hope you feel better soon.

Cheers lady.

Take vitamins and drink a lot.

Posted by Scorpioluver
HI Lovely, I'm not a cancer but feel your pain. It's like you get to a certain point and you become numb. May I ask if your pain is in the love dept? For me Its been a variety of things including the end of a relationship. Maybe it's time for a change. That's what makes me feel better. Change my hair, go on a diet etc or sometimes it's just excaping on vacation like Tiziani mentioned.I hope you feel better soon.

True maybe so i love change and evolving maybe this will help

its gonna be ok im in the same boat but im getting out and u will to

its gonna be ok im in the same boat but im getting out and u will to

Posted by TaurusGal92
its gonna be ok im in the same boat but im getting out and u will to

Awww thanks

Posted by sunkisses26
I'm sorry they hurt you.....

Awww i love huggs ‡

Damn Lovely, did I miss something? What happened? Did the Libra come back?

Posted by Shrewdsharp
Damn Lovely, did I miss something? What happened? Did the Libra come back?

I think i feel literally drained it just hit me...now i feel sick with a headache. The retrogade is over right? I actually had a freat retrogade but now i just feel like numb and i dont care mode. I was kind of thinking about them a little and as i was thinking about them i cant feel anything.

Are you hormonal? Aww, poor baby. Did you two talk yet? Did she say something that pissed you off? Are you just missing her or what?

Posted by Shrewdsharp
Are you hormonal? Aww, poor baby. Did you two talk yet? Did she say something that pissed you off? Are you just missing her or what?

I would hope i had emotions i think i take on too many ppl energy inhave to be careful with that then it change my mood

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Posted by lovely77
Ive been hurt so much its hard to feel anything. I dont have any emotions at all. Well my personality is laid back anyways but i feel now im at the point in my life where being single is ok even if its forever.

What do other cancer ppl think, maybe its me. But i feel once we stop caring we dont care

I was there for a couple of years.

Some people don't deserve us. You have always stricken me as a kind amazing lady. I really hope you realize your light will never ever go out. It's still there. We see it. You are not hurt so much it's gone.

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Yea thats true god has giving me an amazing gift. I just sometimes wonder who would reciprocate if needed it gets draining at times and rather sad. I was born this way and cant change it. My mom always told me to just be around like minded ppl and never change ur heart or who u r

OP, I'm sorry to see that you hurting. Feel better or at least do a good job of constructively distracting yourself 😄

I felt like this last week. Still kind of do. I jumped into a live wall project for a friend and I went to a comedy festival. I had fun but now I need to get busy again because of the feels. You should never suppress them. Just ride them out until it passes.

Two years of therapy changed that for me... It wasn't easy, but when I look back and realize how numb and lonely and paralyzed I was... It's truly stunning. I'd recommend that 100% .

Posted by Goldigold

Posted by lovely77
Ive been hurt so much its hard to feel anything. I dont have any emotions at all. Well my personality is laid back anyways but i feel now im at the point in my life where being single is ok even if its forever.

What do other cancer ppl think, maybe its me. But i feel once we stop caring we dont care

Well, I'm not sure if it's over between me and my cancer guy, we had a bad argument last night. I sent him a message today asking him what he wants to do about us, he said I don't know what to do. We haven't texted at all today. Might be over? He said some very mean things that he has been holding inside. I don't know if I want to see him again...this is where the Libra goes missing comes into play. I wonder what he is feeling...thoughts?

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I don't think its over.

One thing i know about libras and cancers is we fight for love. As a cancer speaking for myself and ppl i know in real life thats cancers once in love family friends partners we deal with alot of stuff even if it's negative we will hang in there. Arguments too arguments r nothing to us we will call u immediately atleast i do i hate disputes. But i will say after the 1000 argument i get tired and start distancing myself. U dont want any cancer to run in their shell. I couldn't go a date mad at my partner if this is the case its not good. It could mean that watever boiled to this point of an argument its getting tired and old for the cancer. Just like will libras they hate arguments cancer get drained emotionally. Thats when we start disappearing and acting nonchalant or numb.

I recommend giving it till tmrw a day is just a day and really communciating with him. Sounds like whatever it is is reaching a head?

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Posted by lovely77
Ive been hurt so much its hard to feel anything. I dont have any emotions at all. Well my personality is laid back anyways but i feel now im at the point in my life where being single is ok even if its forever.

What do other cancer ppl think, maybe its me. But i feel once we stop caring we dont care

Well, I'm not sure if it's over between me and my cancer guy, we had a bad argument last night. I sent him a message today asking him what he wants to do about us, he said I don't know what to do. We haven't texted at all today. Might be over? He said some very mean things that he has been holding inside. I don't know if I want to see him again...this is where the Libra goes missing comes into play. I wonder what he is feeling...thoughts?

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That's pretty extreme, but it sounds like you want to walk away.

Posted by Goldigold
Thank you for responding
I guess it's reaching a head, he needs to apologize. I think I'm the one that is behaving more like the cancer, so many similarities between the signs.

Thank you

Ur doing the right thing trying make initiative hes being a jerk. Atleast ur going down there to spend time long distance can b hard but its worth it for ur love