i'm getting good vibes , but i dunno if im right

i know this girl now for 10 months , at month 2 i asked her out and she said she dun date and stuff like that it was after 3 hangouts with our friends ... then i said we are friends anyway and it's over , she's so sensitive anyway and mostly she seemed mysterious for me ,
anyway , we hanged out the last couple of times and i had a time for both of us together alone and she started to open up about her life and about her insecurities and it happened twice today and she started this conversations for me which i consider "A good sign she started to trust me" , while we were talking today , she mentioned that she don't hangout with strangers that because she said she hates something about what happened today and she said she won't hangout with these ppl again jokingly , so i replied hey dun add me to the package and we laughed , i said even though i'll call u and we will hangout together , so i asked if she can do it now not like before , she said cuz u were stranger ... so iguess that's good if we can hangout together alone , and i got her a present for her birthday which i was surprised it's coming in few days ... i was afraid it gonna be awkward but she loved it and she very nice which surprised me 😄 , anyway at the end of the day we were talking about some videos and she will send me the links but she didn't , anyway 😄 😄
so , i dunno if i should ask her out or express how i feel for her now or i should wait ...

Posted by Ssupes
If you want to ask her out, then do it.

i asked her before as i said and she was i dun date , i dunno if she's being friendly and we are getting close or she's on to me

I think the best advice would be to find another girl and if this one changes her mind, she can contact you, but assume she is not interested in more than the friendship.

Try courting if you like a girl. Send the message and never pressure.

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Posted by rabidtalker
I think the best advice would be to find another girl and if this one changes her mind, she can contact you, but assume she is not interested in more than the friendship.

Why do that? He likes her but she has that darn wall!

Stay the course if u like her. Study her. What does she like to do, eat, read? Entertain her! She's probably hoping you'll just give up. Don't

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i guess i will do that ... hanks bro 🙂

I look at it from a different perspective, sure it is possible she may like you and you get it started, but do not put so much stock into it. Ten months is a long time to pine overs someone and it is ok to try but do not make her your only hope or you will spend more time that could have been placed elsewhere.

Posted by rabidtalker
I look at it from a different perspective, sure it is possible she may like you and you get it started, but do not put so much stock into it. Ten months is a long time to pine overs someone and it is ok to try but do not make her your only hope or you will spend more time that could have been placed elsewhere.

i'll consider this 🙂 thanks bro

Good luck hitch 🙂